posted December 25, 2020 03:02 PM            

Would like to see if this is heading for platonic friendship or something more? I have a 'fated' feeling about this and softissues very kindly pointed out that we have venus conjunct nn that is 'fated' so am interested in knowing how does it play out usually...because I haven't had the best luck in terms of relationships thus far.

I know basics of natal chart readings and I know that I have natal venus-pluto-neptune connections that give me ultra dose of 'rose tinted glasses' as well as obsessive streaks in terms of relationships..so I just want to let the more experienced ones here take a look at these charts before I get tooooo obsessed

I am a complete noob at understanding synastries, composites, davisons, so just call it as you see it, appreciate the honesty most of all

This is SYNASTRY (I am inner, him outer)

This is COMPOSITE MID POINT METHOD

This is DAVISON UNCORRECTED

posted December 27, 2020 12:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi lovelyricha1

yes there are fated elements and this relationship may get very intense emotionally, passionate and with strong expectations, this is cause composite Sun/Eros is conjunct MC, Saturn in Capricorn is sextile North Node/Venus, and Moon/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct Vertex and square Neptune. This is actually matching with a "'rose tinted glasses' relationship, initially, cause it could sweep off your feet and give you a strong soulmate feeling.
My concern in both synastry and composite is about the Chiron aspects. His Saturn/Chiron opposition square your Saturn is a tough one, as he has a "secluded" trait linked to poor self-assertiveness and maybe in need of constant emotional support that may become a heavy burden to you or such an issue may prevent him to commit with you seriously cause Composite Mars is conjunct ASC and square Sun/MC... this aspects looks more sexual than leading to a long term union. Composite Chiron is opposite Neptune and square vertex... this may contain a toxic trait or indication that the relationship has an unattainable side and expectations may not be realistic. My feeling is that it all may look very promising but turning out as a false promise in the end, despite the intensity of feelings, and that he may withdraw as soon as things get more serious.
Since composite Vertex is so strong along the nodes and Moon in 12th square MC, this may actually never take off the ground as expected. If it does instead, I would warn you of potential inner upheaval this relationship may bring to you, cause the Chiron aspects look potentially "toxic" to me, potentially triggering your own issues about "failing" in relationship matters (your natal Saturn in 7th house).

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Dayummmmmm! Thanks so much Stoika, your analysis is indeed mesmerizing 👍 I am inclined to believe everything you said about the long term problems with this relationship because the main thing is, this boy is extremely closed off and secluded by nature...so it is impossible to know what's happening in his mind..can you believe it he is an actor! And even his characters have that quietness and seclusion qualities that lend them a mysterious air..but I reckon that in a real life relationship it won't be good for long term prospects *sigh*

So I should assume that the 'fated' thing means I was supposed to meet him and just be an emotional support maybe as a friend? I am so confused..because I don't know what in my natal chart shows this, but I keep meeting guys every few years (without seeking any relationship) and it becomes serious and it always has a 'fated' quality and then it doesn't work out. It is massively depressing

posted December 27, 2020 01:01 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Whoops

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posted December 27, 2020 07:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
yes he's secluded and he's an actor cause natal neptune is in 10th house square venus/asc, and chiron in leo/5th opposite saturn helps him in opening out there to the world through acting, this is likely the only way he can connect to the outer world and find his self-assertiveness, through acting.
Composite north Node/Venus in 11th house, friendship is a possibility... but he wont feel at ease with you if you question his inner issue and are not in tune with his emotional depth and artistic/self-centered ambition.

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posted December 28, 2020 09:25 AM            

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Originally posted by lovelyricha1:
Whoops?? What is whoops?? Todd? Todd?? Todd???

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posted December 28, 2020 08:38 PM            

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Originally posted by lovelyricha1:
Tooooooodddddddddd

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I posted the wrong interpretation yesterday....
Any ways just a couple of points.
This will never be platonic because there is just too much emotional/sexual chemistry...but it will not be a long term hookup either..a intense affair but no more.
The sun/moon midpoint is conjunct the Venus/node so this is all about boy meets girl.
Venus is septile to mars and the midpoint conunct lilth,,coupled with the node Venus gives a otherworldly attraction..one may feel this is so karmic something serious must develop.
But the Mars/Venus is also square to Uranus which indicates ungodly intensity but extreme instabity.once he is surfeited of the intensity he will leave....though he may want a open relationship so as to keep you as an option.

The Uranus/mars midpoint is also square to Jupiter,which again shows he has no interest in a committed relationship.

No question it is very exciting and hot but pay no attention to any promises made

posted January 05, 2021 04:53 PM            

In fact Todd he did bring up the point of being in an 'open' sort of arrangement and that just made me chuckle because you had accurately said this that he may want to keep me as an option and want something in the open realm. So accurate!