posted December 26, 2020 09:18 PM            

Her chart

This is me

Synastry

Composite

Could you check it out once more and tell me the most important obstacles to overcome and what can I personally do to make things work out?

posted December 30, 2020 03:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Kimera:
Bumpy please

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Hi, Kimera ... and best wishes for 2021.

Please link this thread to the one in which you forgot to include these charts.

posted December 30, 2020 04:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Graham:
Hi, Kimera ... and best wishes for 2021.

Please link this thread to the one in which you forgot to include these charts.

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http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/010610.html

posted December 30, 2020 05:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Kimera:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/010610.html

Last time i only posted the Composite with Asteroids (:
happy new year for you as well

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On the other thread, we noted that her natal Chiron is trine natal Uranus, thus providing a mechanism to prevent the loss of her independence/freedom/individuality.

And now, we see that her natal Chiron is also making a poleaxe* configuration with Mars+Saturn.

posted December 30, 2020 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Graham:
On the other thread, we noted that her natal Chiron is trine natal Uranus, thus providing a mechanism to prevent the loss of her independence/freedom/individuality.

And now, we see that her natal Chiron is also making a [b]poleaxe* configuration with Mars+Saturn.

[ * Poleaxe = 165-30-165 triangle. ... Noel Tyl described the 165/quindecile aspect as "the degree of obsession", and my own experience of the poleaxe indicates that it causes the chart owner to interact too forcibly with others. In effect, the other person is "poleaxed" because the chart owner uses a sledgehammer-to-crack-a-nut.] [/B]

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Well, that definitively sounds like my lovely plutonian sagi 😂🤣

What is your recommendation in dealing with her? I was reading about the alchemy of astrology or something like that, in which you can work out the hard aspects by reconfiguring the easy ones but i dont have any idea how to make it work now...

posted December 31, 2020 01:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Kimera:
Well, that definitively sounds like my lovely plutonian sagi 😂🤣

What is your recommendation in dealing with her? I was reading about the alchemy of astrology or something like that, in which you can work out the hard aspects by reconfiguring the easy ones but i dont have any idea how to make it work now...

Thanksss

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Work out the hard aspects by confronting and dealing with the hard aspects.

Your Plutonian Sag has a (subconscious) Uranus fear of losing her independence/individuality. ... So, any and every intimate relationship with another will pose a threat to Uranus - and she (her Uranus) will then subconsciously use Chiron as "distancing mechanism" in the relationship.

posted December 31, 2020 07:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Graham:
Work out the hard aspects by confronting and dealing with the hard aspects.

Your Plutonian Sag has a (subconscious) Uranus fear of losing her independence/individuality. ... So, [b]any and every intimate relationship with another will pose a threat to Uranus - and she (her Uranus) will then subconsciously use Chiron as "distancing mechanism" in the relationship.

Hence ... to "deal with her", you need to have (or develop) the skills of a people-whisperer.[/B]

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Sorry if my post sounded condescending I didnt mean it... I think im not getting what you mean by people whisperer.

posted January 01, 2021 04:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Kimera:
Sorry if my post sounded condescending I didnt mean it... I think im not getting what you mean by people whisperer.

Thank you.

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I did not find your post condescending, Kimera ... but my reply might have come across as being so.

posted January 01, 2021 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Graham:
I did not find your post condescending, Kimera ... but my reply might have come across as being so.

By people whisperer, I was referring to someone who is able to get people to trust him/her ... in the way that horse/dog/animal whisperers do.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Horse_Whisperer_%28film%29

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Got it. Well, shes been upset since a couple of weeks and she hasnt allowed me to try and patch things up. She hasnt even let me talk with her at all. Lately Ive been feeling really poleaxed. And also, scared. I can literally feel day by day shes going away, like sand between my fingers. Well,.sucks to be me i guess