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Topic: What does this Synastry / Composite say? Help! @Stoika @Todd
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Reggie
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posted January 14, 2021 07:55 AM
  
Hello All,Wondering what you see in this Synastry / Composite combo is this a long lasting union that will lead to marriage or is this not meant to be? Synastry:
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Randall
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posted January 15, 2021 03:51 PM
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Stoika7
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posted January 15, 2021 04:49 PM
Hi Reggie, are the TOBs correct?I think this Composite is amazing, with North Node conjunct Mercury and exactly sextile to Mars, they look/feel like soulmates. Moon conjunct Saturn sextile Jupiter and the Juno/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct DSC, so I think yes, they could get married. The Sun-Venus/Mars midpoint is square Jupiter, so their feelings look mutual and they may be committed to each other. Juno conjunct Uranus usually gives a peculiar trait so maybe they won't be officially married or the relationship may be out of ordinary somehow.
Chiron in the fourth house (if tobs are correct) may suggest a challening environment or that they may have difficulties on a more earthly level (Chiron in Taurus) for their plans or for financial reasons, mainly Chiron here brings a struggle on some basic level. Jupiter opposite Neptune may suggest that there may be issues to be addressed which they might overlook, things may not be all rose coloured glasses as they expect, they need to be very honest to each other and have a more realistic approach. Maybe they enjoy traveling together and explore foreign countries, cultures, socializing, and share spiritual interests. IP: Logged |
Reggie
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posted January 16, 2021 12:12 AM
Yes, Stoika7 the TOB's are correct. This couple had a bad Vedic chart (which they didn't know about till later) The Man told me he didn't figure it out until later but when he consciously started courting her bad luck started happening to him. He suddenly got a boss from hell, eventually went to see the girl (who lives in another country) suddenly his mom got really sick, so to keep his mom happy he got engaged impulsively. After that is when he found out about the bad Vedic chart (priest warned them against the union) he didn't care and got married like 5 months later to her. 4 months after that he lost his Job, brought her to his country any way they had an issue she was nothing like what she was during the courting phase...he was miserable. He couldn't find a job for over 4 months went on a lot of interviews that looked promising but always fell through at the end.
That's when it hit him that all this happened to him since the time he consciously decided to bind with her Energy. So he decided that the Vedic chart was true and told her lets take a break. As soon as he did that he got a decent job and once she left his country he got a better job 2 months after that! Now they are separated / Annulled. It's crazy how this played out it was almost like a Neptunian relationship because he thought she was the one and it was God sent, etc...
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Stoika7
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posted January 16, 2021 03:35 AM
wow, what a weird story!
Chiron opposite Juno/Uranus may explain some of what you're saying, such as she being from another country, and Chiron in the 4th house bringing struggles in their marriage. Neptune opposite Jupiter can play out as disappointment too. But 'cept for these traits, their connection look very nice from the composite, so I am puzzled.
Maybe, Nessus square to Composite Sun/Venus could explain such bad luck, but I honestly can't find other negative aspects...!
In synastry, there are two tough aspects which are the blue Mars square to MC involving the blue Neptune and the red Sun, which would mainly generally suggest the man is going to leave the relationship or is not willing to commit, and the red Saturn square the blue Jupiter, which is an unstable trait of possible divorce... these aspects are not reflected in the composite though.
I think that mainly Composite Chiron opposite to Juno in the 10h house could point to an unlucky marriage, but other aspects look so favourable that I can't explain it. IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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posted January 16, 2021 06:16 PM
Reggie, this whole story got me thinking.
I think that with Composite Neptune opposite Jupiter there were false expectations and misunderstandings as it is square to the Mars/Venus midpoint.
Nessus square to Sun/Venus is a malicious energy, and Chiron in 4th house is conjunct South Node opposite to the Juno/North Node conjunction. This may look like a failure cause Chiron opposite Juno requires a very deep inner mutual knowledge/understanding of each other in order to work out, and with Neptune/Jupiter opposition such a deep knowledge likely wasn't there.
So I don't think she was the direct cause for his bad luck, but with Neptune Jupiter opposition he might have had false view on their connection and as he was disappointed he linked his bad luck to her.
If we consider Nessus as a "bad luck" malicious element, this is not square only to Venus, but exact square to Sun, so I don't think the malicious energy comes from her, but that she was also unlucky to have met him.
The rest of the composite looks so good that apparently it was easy for the two to feel committed to each other and have big expectations, but likely Chiron required such a strong inner cohesion which wasn't truly there. Eris conjunct IC opposite Pluto and square to DSC reveals there was especially a strong sexual connection, even though Sun/Venus would point to true love, the square to Nessus and the Mars/Venus midpoint square to Jupiter/Neptune opposition might suggest true love wasn't actually there.Bad luck for his loss of the job and his mother health issues might just be a bad timing element added to the false expectations they had. I have also started to be very sick and lost my job after I met my ex husband, but I don't think it's cause of him, it's just life. IP: Logged |
Reggie
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posted January 17, 2021 04:53 PM
Thank you Stoika7 it's crazy how some of this makes no sense. I know he said he felt
cat fished and they had sexual incompatibility. He said he was miserable with that
aspect and all the bad luck at the time so he called it quits. Now, it seems
he and she are both in better career than when they met.IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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posted January 17, 2021 06:28 PM
Well, maybe Eris in such a bad aspect signals that their connection was ruined by "sexual incompatibility", which means that the sexual aspect had a significant relevance...
I think that the Chiron and the Nessus aspects along with the Neptune/Jupiter opposition does make sense with the context you're giving.
My feeling from the chart is that both of them had higher expectations that were misled cause apparently there were very good aspects, but likely not on a deeper level of mutual knowlegde and intimacy.
Certainly there was bad luck, even though it's hard to say if such a bad luck was just by bad timing of their meeting or if the malicious Nessus aspect might signal a real negative energy present in their connection...IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 22, 2021 11:37 PM
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julyjuly
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posted January 23, 2021 02:41 AM
My first impression of the composite was also that it was very good. There are much more harmonic aspects than negative.In the Synastry chart his Saturn is unaspected and hers doesn't make any aspect to his personal planets, only a square to his Jupiter which rules his 10th house and a sextile to his Uranus which rules his 12th house. I think it is very important that Saturn makes aspects to the other persons planets for a long lasting relationship. You have written that the biggest problem was sexual incompatibility. He has Mars square Neptune natally and that can give him low energy and willpower. On top of that her Sun and Neptune is square his Mars and her Moon is conjunct his Mars. Then his Venus is conjunct her MArs. I wonder if she was the dominant one in the relationship and if that made him feel week and made that he lost his interest in her? Moon conjunct Saturn in Composite can also point to her being the dominant one in the relationship, these are also sextile Pluto and Jupiter.
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