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posted January 16, 2021 02:40 PM            

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Hi,

I have Sun opposite Venus DW in synastry with someone. They say opposites attract but sometimes it feels like we are too different. What you think of this aspect?

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posted January 16, 2021 06:45 PM            

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Hi julyjuly!

I agree, this DW aspect is strong for mutual attraction and fascination. The difference you feel may depend on other factors and if there are negative aspects for compatibility, then also this DW may add differences, so I'd have to look at both synastry and composite to see where your feeling comes from.

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posted January 17, 2021 08:06 AM            

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Thank you Stoika!

My biggest concern is that I have Cancer Sun-Venus and he has Capricorn Sun-Venus and I sometimes think that I may be too emotional and he is emotional aloof.

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posted January 17, 2021 04:51 PM            

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Well... maybe Cancer Sun/Venus is more dreamy, but Capricorn is usually seriously committing and dedicated :-) It depends on his Moon sign then, and the whole aspects picture.

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posted January 18, 2021 11:33 AM            

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His Moon is in Sagittarius and makes a square to Pluto. Another thing that concerns me is that his Saturn is conjunct my Chiron and it feels like this makes him prone to be cold and aloof towards me. How would you describe Saturn conjunct Chiron?

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posted January 18, 2021 09:25 PM            

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I do have it with someone. In my experience, it makes you very vulnerable and exposing your weakest sides to the Saturn person, even though they really do nothing to trigger it intentionally. It somehow forces you to deal with your own past wounds and issues, which is not necessarily a bad thing.

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posted January 19, 2021 11:59 AM            

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No, it's a good thing. Thank you

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posted January 19, 2021 02:55 PM            

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Originally posted by julyjuly:
Thank you Stoika!

My biggest concern is that I have Cancer Sun-Venus and he has Capricorn Sun-Venus and I sometimes think that I may be too emotional and he is emotional aloof.

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I felt the same when I was dating a Capricorn. I even told him this. )

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