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SimplyLuna
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posted March 03, 2021 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SimplyLuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I was thinking, how my composite with a past lover looks great - there were mainly conjunctions and trines. But somehow it was burdensome and restricting our own freedom. We would criticize each other even if our Synastry didn't display much Saturn aspects (except Sun sq. Saturn) and our composite had Mercury sextile Saturn.

When tried out this method where you compare your own natal chart with the composite to see how each natal feel about the relationship. Our love stellium were squared by our own Saturn less than 3 degrees. Which explains a lot.

In your case, did you ever feel your own planets aspect to the composite fits well how you feel about the relationship? Doesn't matter how bad or good the composite is?

I wonder if this what determined a long or important relationship if both natal has significant aspects to the composite?

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Graham
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posted March 04, 2021 09:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
On another forum, there is a member whose natal 1st house Saturn is conjunct my natal 3rd house Mercury, in Scorpio.

Over time, our interaction on that forum became one in which I felt like a child being constantly criticised by him for grammatical errors ... which is a classic negative manifestation of Saturn-Mercury synastry aspects.

However ... our natal, synastry, composite and davison charts did not reveal/explain why he seemed (to me) to be "channelling" his mother's values rather than his own.

But ... when I compare each of our two natal charts to our composite chart ... the latter's Chiron (in Capricorn/3rd) is conjunct my natal 4th house Jupiter and trine his natal Moon in Taurus/7th (and my 8th house, of other people's values).

And ... the relationship eventually broke down completely because of my frustration with his 'inability" to see that he was channelling his mother, rather than because of the Saturn-Mercury criticism itself.

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SimplyLuna
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posted March 08, 2021 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SimplyLuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Graham for your experience

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AlmaRegulus
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posted May 05, 2021 07:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlmaRegulus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was kind of wandering the same. If natal-to-composite aspects are more important than the composite itself. I've noticed that in more significant relationships there were more aspects between the 2 charts. In unrequited love, usually one partner's natal would have less aspects to the composite.

The question is - in which direction the effect is stronger? The composite affects a person via the aspect? Or the person affects the relationship?

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