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posted March 05, 2021 11:11 PM            

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I have known this guy for a few months now and I really feel a connection with him. However, I don't know if he also feels the same way. I was wondering if we are potential soulmates. I have posted before w/ this same synastry but I now have the accurate birth time.

I know the sun and moon conjunction is touted as a soulmate aspect but I see some hard aspects as well that make it seem like it would not last in the long run. Can someone please give me some insight on this?

I am the one on the inside and he is on the outside. For the chart, I am the first person going horizontally and he is going vertically. Thank you!

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posted March 05, 2021 11:13 PM            

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composite chart: http://ibb.co/YkPdsm6

links of our synastry^

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posted March 06, 2021 08:36 PM            

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Hi heavenszing,

I'm looking at the Composite. Moon is sextile North Node at exact degree, same as Pluto trine to Mars, sextile Mercury and Uranus, it all at exact degree, so the feelings are very strong and it suggests a great compatibility. The Venus/Mars midpoint is square to Moon, so the romantic attraction seems mutual... Venus square the Jupiter/Neptune opposition looks a bit "fairy tale" and a bit "over the top", this usually suggests caution and the need to stay more grounded... with Chiron as the Sun/Venus midpoint, there's intense intimacy, but also the possibility that something may stand between you two, maybe one of the two has priorities in life which may become a burden for the other... the most concerning aspect though is South Node conjunct Saturn... while this can give a deep soulmate connection and contains a karmic energy, Saturn conjunct South Node may give challenges in taking off the ground or sometimes may keep the two people separated for external circumstances.

In synastry, you dont have great house overlays and your most intense contact mainly falls on his 12th house... even though the Moon/Sun-Moon-Pluto is very intense, but the 12th house may suggest it's mainly platonic or one sided... He has Mars square Saturn/Pluto and your Mars is square his Neptune, so I'm not sure he's reliable in committed relationships... compared to the composite, the synastry looks more unstable, and so I would think that the Composite t-square along Saturn/South Node may point to a platonic situation.

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posted March 07, 2021 12:55 AM            

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@Stoika7

Thank you for taking a look!

Do you see any chances of us staying in each other's lives long term, even if it isn't romantic? I don't mind us being just friends but sometimes I get this feeling that we might be in each other's lives for a while. I know you mentioned that this feeling can be one sided bc of the 12th house overlay but I just want to know why it feels this way... could it just be the SN conjunct saturn?

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posted March 07, 2021 01:41 AM            

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Hi again!

yes, I think it's possible that he will be in your life on long terms basis, because the composite Moon/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct MC/Mercury... this looks like an intellectual/creative connection. I'm not ruling out the possibility for romantic relationship, cause the composite actually looks very romantic... but it carries an unattainable side, which besides the other challenging aspects mentioned, is also confirmed by composite Moon in 12th house. It may look like one of the two is romantically unavoidable or having other responsabilities in life (ex wife/husband? a child from a former relationship?...) potentially making your relationship complicated.

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posted March 07, 2021 03:56 AM            

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Thank you for your insight! This really gave me some clarity on our synastry/composite

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Welcome!

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posted March 20, 2021 06:25 PM            

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Taking an overall glance over your charts, I see that he can be romantic and attentive to you, and that overall this seems like a good connection where the two of you will impact one another's life, but here are a few things to consider:

- He'll take all the time he needs to make this an official relationship. Mostly his unstable financial/job situation will get in the way. Any marriage/engagement process will be long.

- This relationship may remain secret for a while

- If you care about money or personal valuable items, try not to lend him any, because chances are you won't be getting them back easily

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