posted March 17, 2021 04:03 AM            

Does it happen to you that you seem to weirdly attract people with the same sign or aspect, many many times in a row?

How do you deal with it? Do you interpret it as a lesson to be learned? As a subconscious preference?

Not something like "Scorpio guys seem to like me" or "I get along with moon in libra girls" but more like "I have met 4 romantic prospects in a row that all happened to have their moon conjunct my midheaven". Weirdly specific aspects (not
just sun moon connections, which are generic and common between people that get along).

posted March 17, 2021 06:06 AM            

Guys with number 6 in their birthdate! (6th Jan, 6th August, 24th Feb)

Guys with their sun conjunct my ascendant!

Guys with my saturn squaring their saturn

posted March 17, 2021 06:23 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Saying Scorpio guys seem to like me is basically the same thing as what you're saying. How is it any different? If you keep attracting the same Sun sign it's obviously for a reason. You are meant to learn something from those Scorpio men. You're funny lol.

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Nope. Not "the same sun sign". They are 5 people with the same or almost the same birthday. Some of them even share hour-ascendant

The interesting thing is that makes their sun conjunct my South Node and uranus
(thus making aspects to NN, moon, venus, saturn, pluto and uranus, because my nodes are so cool that they are in aspect to half of the major bodies in my chart XD).

Basically, I don't keep meeting aqua guys, I keep meeting guys whose Sun conjuncts my SN.

I know other Aquarius whose Suns don't aspect my nodes, I have no problem with them nor do I include them in this list.

posted March 17, 2021 08:13 PM            

Anyway the first guy who got my attention was at my 1st job when I was 16. I was very shy then and he asked me to hang out a few times but I would always say I had other plans cause I was scared or something. He's a virgo born on the 6th a few months before me.

A few years later at another job I met my karmic whom I was with for nearly 11 years. Another virgo, born the 2nd a little over 2 years older than me.

My TF, Virgo, born the 4th. He's alot older than me.

I had a clandestine affair from 2012 - 2015 with a longtime friend, he hit me hard. We started our affair right after I had become conscious of my TF energy. Hes an Aries about 2 years older. We were BFFs for the longest. He was a true soulmate. I basically ended our thing at the same time I ended my marriage. The aries soon became a catalyst for my TF energy, to prepare me for the real one I guess. Him and my TF have mirrored Bdays though. 4-9 & 9-4

Any relationship I have, romantic, friends, family..w/e there is ALWAYS alot touching my Venus. I have 11 degree scorpio in the 5th conjunct pluto. They're part of my GT with Jupiter/Mars 9th Pisces & Asc in cancer. The virgos suns all sextile my Venus, and as a result aspect the rest of the trine too. My ex has his Saturn EXACT to the minute conjunct my Venus. In the 11th, so on the same axis as my 5th Venus. The aries has his pluto (along with the rest of my generation -_-) conjunct my Venus & his Mars opposite in Taurus. My sister has her Mars opposite my Venus too. She also has her neptune at 11 degrees 46mins capricorn (5th house) exact sextile to my 11'46 Venus. Her Saturn is also at 11 degrees capricorn. My mom has her Saturn also less than 2 degrees away from my Venus/Pluto. Her and my ex are next level irritating & I believe Saturn might have a little to do with that :-P

My sisters saturn sextile my Venus is more pleasant & friendly, it doesn't seem to bring anything close to the Saturn conjunction intensity.

My best friend has her moon 10 degrees virgo plus her scorpio Venus conjuncts mine. I think her Mars sextiles in capricorn too.

I had a fling in my early 20s while on a break with my ex. He's like a month younger than me, capricorn. He was cool but I was never really into him. I liked the attention, the drugs/alcohol & just the little break from reality (i had alot of legal issues then on top of relationship & family ones. So I kinda liked the peace. He has his moon 10 degrees virgo as well. Ofcourse his pluto was present. I told him at the beginning that I was temporary & I liked chilling with him & just needed a calm presence in my life. He became possessive and overbearing acting like we were together. He started introducing me to his family & friends and became to real for me so i booked it back to my dysfunctional relationship. I realized then I needed constant chaos and upheavals in my relationship. I need passion even if its not exactly in the form preferred. Anyway this guy was a borderline stalker for nearly 10 years. I'd get rid of him for several years/months then he'd pop back up. He always managed to stay in the gray area where I wasn't sure if he was crossing boundaries. I told him I'd like to be his friend several times over the years but it was like he was stupid. Hed try to hold my hand or ask me to cuddle ugh..no no. About 2-3 years ago I finally had it and told him to F off. He texted me once in early 2019, which I ignored then that October again, ignored. Both those times I was honest to God watching videos about killer stalkers when he text. I then told myself if he contacts me one more time I'm going to the cops. He never did though. Really hope he has moved on. After that I vowed I'd never date anyone so much as a second younger than me.

Oh I also had a rebound right after my divorce with someone I met in the mental hospital. In the pill line..so romantic. Anyways we were drawn to one another like moths to a flame. That was a relationship that was so intense at the very beginning, but after the crazy house, it was clearly nothing solid. I got annoyed with him calling and snapped at him one day & that was it. He was almost exactly one year younger by a day. We had amazing synastry in writing. But my God, another Sag? Holy Jesus we're insufferable. But his Mars was in scorpio/conjunct his pluto too right on my venus/pluto. Scorpio mars seems desirable on the surface but not my favorite Mars sign by any means. He was a very immature Sag though so I won't badmouth those placements. But yeah, so far the no younger men rule seems to be a good idea.

posted April 05, 2021 07:57 AM            

I consistently end up with Virgo best friends, but they are more like romantic friendships, if that makes sense. They are close and binding, and can become toxic if either of both of us is in a weak or immature place psychologically. I'm Taurus Sun and Venus so that's same element, with Pisces Mars complementing them, plus my Jupiter in Virgo makes them feel good - I always play a supportive role and at the best of times, they support me too. Cancer rising also helps, there is something so consistent about Cancer-Virgo pairings. Also find that they help me towards my 6th house NN.