posted March 31, 2021 04:25 AM            

This is the ex from Hell I mentioned to Lunal about in my last post.
I would really like to use him as a learning tool. He cheated on me TONS, lots of pain and trauma.. but we lasted for 5 years, he still cannot let me go fully, despite it almost being almost 2 years later...

These are our charts, including the day I found out about his infidelities and the breakdown of our relationship began.

I found it funny that this guy and the guy I am currently having a tumultuous relationship with are both Leo Risings and therefore have Uranus in 4th house composite with me.

Please help me look at red flags so I NEVER enter this type of relationship again.

Side Note: He does not have an official birth time but I am going off the time his sister thinks and so I hope it is accurate.

Synastry:

https://ibb.co/ygVShZR

Composite ( with break up transits):

https://ibb.co/5h26D2N

posted April 01, 2021 07:23 PM            

In your composite I notice
- Moon conjunct Mars square Uranus
- Saturn conjunct South Node opposite Venus conjunct North Node

In your synastry:
- your Chiron conjunct his North Node
- his Pluto conjunct your Ascendant
- his Saturn conjunct your South Node
- his Moon-Uranus conjunction conjunct your Neptune

He may have experienced enmeshment with you, not being able to distinguish the boundaries between you as separate people, and reacted through becoming controlling (that is mainly my interpretation of what that last aspect could signify)

I am wondering about how the Pluto-Ascendant conjunction presented, did he try & control your appearance?