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chocogold
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posted April 08, 2021 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for chocogold     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello!

These are the synastry and composite charts for my partner and I. Interpretations are highly appreciated. Both positive, negative and possible future outcomes. Thank you!

By the way, I also posted these charts under Horary and Event astrology to see if anyone would like to help us choose a wedding date. The wedding will take place either this year or the next--depending on the pandemic.

Synastry (I am inside, blue).

[img]https://i.ibb.co/Mgy0tGd/Synastry.png[/img]

Composite

[img]https://i.ibb.co/cFXvY40/Composite.png[/img]

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Stoika7
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posted April 08, 2021 10:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi chocogold, I have looked at the Composite.

with Mars sextile Venus exact, Mars/Eros/Juno and Sun exactly trine to Moon/Chiron, you're clearly in love with each other and there's grat affection and intimacy.
There may be some differences in your personalities that can bring to disagreements and instability since Mars/Saturn is square to Jupiter and the Juno/Jupiter midpoint is square to Mercury, so your communication can be harsh sometimes and the man may be ruling things and acting selfish sometimes.
Moon/Chiron is square to Venus and opposite Uranus, so disagreements can bring coldness or on-off times of emotional distance, also criticism can be harsh between the two.
But there seems to be other aspects keeping your bond lively and you two on the same page, especially the Grand trine formed by Sun, Moon and Jupiter. This looks very favourable for marriage.
I'm not sure about the wedding cause transiting Jupiter looks favourable in autumn, but transiting South node will be conjunct to Saturn so there may be a turnaround, re-thinking or change of plans, alternatively if you get married next autumn it looks like a radical change in your lives, also with transiting Uranus approaching composite IC, it looks like unpredictable events or sudden changes.

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chocogold
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posted April 09, 2021 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for chocogold     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stoika7,

Thank you for your insight. Really appreciated.

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There may be some differences in your personalities that can bring to disagreements and instability since Mars/Saturn is square to Jupiter and the Juno/Jupiter midpoint is square to Mercury, so your communication can be harsh sometimes and the man may be ruling things and acting selfish sometimes.
Moon/Chiron is square to Venus and opposite Uranus, so disagreements can bring coldness or on-off times of emotional distance, also criticism can be harsh between the two.

Correct re communication. I was wondering if this was a product of my saturn squaring his mercury and his saturn square my mars. But, it seems the composite reflects this too.

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I'm not sure about the wedding cause transiting Jupiter looks favourable in autumn, but transiting South node will be conjunct to Saturn so there may be a turnaround, re-thinking or change of plans, alternatively if you get married next autumn it looks like a radical change in your lives, also with transiting Uranus approaching composite IC, it looks like unpredictable events or sudden changes.

Would you please elaborate on this? Why do you mention autumn for both 2021 and 2022? Is it because you see autumn as the better time period for a wedding? To clarify, why is autumn so present? My apologies but the way I understood your paragraph, it seems to imply that if the marriage does not take place this autumn then we should look for next autumn. By the way, we are trying to find an expert on electional astrology because we want to look for favourable dates for the wedding. If you know of anyone, thank you.

As to the changes, is there a possibility that a wedding will not take place? You state you are not sure of a wedding due to transiting SN but that even if we were to marry next autumn, uranus might intervene here too. As such, the implication is that the transits do not show a wedding happening. I am open to all opinions. As in, if there is a possibility of him not proceeding then I would like to know.

Thank you.

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posted April 09, 2021 10:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi chocogold,

what I mean is that transiting Jupiter looks favourable for wedding in autumn 2021, because it will go retrograde and then direct while conjunct to your Composite Jupiter and trine to Sun and Moon... but I'm a bit puzzled becasue transiting South Node at the same time will be conjunct to composite Saturn which is usually a "letting go" aspect... so I am wondering here if the nodal transit is actually pointing to a change of status and so if the wedding will happen, or if unpredictable events will hinder it... sorry I am not sure about this cause Uranus towards IC looks like big change. Is your wedding somehow bringing any kind of big change for you both, like moving to a different house/town? I cannot rule out separation cause South Node would trigger the Saturn/Jupiter square, or strong disagreements about the wedding timing and so maybe delays.

Another favourable time would be when transiting North Node will be conjunct to Composite IC in autumn 2022.

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posted April 10, 2021 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for chocogold     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Stoika7:

Is your wedding somehow bringing any kind of big change for you both, like moving to a different house/town? I cannot rule out separation cause South Node would trigger the Saturn/Jupiter square, or strong disagreements about the wedding timing and so maybe delays.

Another favourable time would be when transiting North Node will be conjunct to Composite IC in autumn 2022.


Yes, interesting you mention that. You are incredible!
We do not live together but we spend enough time and are cognisant we do very well domestically. The plan is to marry first and then co-habitate. So the marriage and relocation are intertwined indeed. Basically, we need to find a place to live.

And, there is also the possibility of moving twice. This year and also the next, due to business purposes. The entire situation makes me nervous with the pandemic and, I fear realising we might not be able to fit in both marriage and moving in together by this autumn period.

And then, waiting for next autumn. If we need to, it will be very difficult to wait for me unless the outcome would turn out more favourable (waiting a year would be worth it).

I follow transits to composite and I was aware of the Uranus opposite MC, I was not sure if this could also refer to the death of someone as his mom is elderly and he is her caretaker. Regardless, I think many transits point out to moving or relocation of sorts.

Uranus Square Ascendent (moving?)
Saturn Trine Mercury (communication re planning)
Saturn Conjunction Ascendent (status quo, commitment)
Saturn Sextile Uranus (balanced relationship?)
Saturn Trine Moon (commitment?)
Saturn Trine Sun (commitment?)

Curious, I find the majority of the Saturn transits to our composite will be peaking early next year and wind down my March 2022. As such, I was under the impression that January, February or March would be decent months re marriage too.

Thank you very much.

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Stoika7
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posted April 10, 2021 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh I see, so based on the context you're giving, it's possible that you will move in together next autumn, and maybe get married later, so south node and uranus may bring this change but maybe delay the wedding... business/career can also be involved in the change cause it falls in the 10th house. I believe transiting north node is usually more effective for events that's why north node on IC looks very significant in autumn 2022.
As for his mom, I'd need to look at transits to his natal and to his mom's natal and also their composite chart to see if there may be events involving her health or even death.

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chocogold
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posted April 10, 2021 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for chocogold     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Stoika7:
Oh I see, so based on the context you're giving, it's possible that you will move in together next autumn, and maybe get married later, so south node and uranus may bring this change but maybe delay the wedding... business/career can also be involved in the change cause it falls in the 10th house. I believe transiting north node is usually more effective for events that's why north node on IC looks very significant in autumn 2022.

Thank you!
So overall, you do not see the possibility of marriage prior to cohabitation or at least marriage happening close to it? There might be a change of plans in which we might end up living together (next year) without being married?

It is not for religious reasons but what we would like and more in tune to the traditions of our communities. Further, we just feel in tune with this direction and, I prefer it for legal and financial reasons too. Mind you, it was more of my idea but for the two of us, at the end of the day, we do not see the point of playing house when we just want to be spouses to one another.

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Stoika7
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posted April 10, 2021 10:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"So overall, you do not see the possibility of marriage prior to cohabitation or at least marriage happening close to it? There might be a change of plans in which we might end up living together (next year) without being married?"

yes I believe this may be the case (living together without being married) because tr. Saturn next autumn (going direct after being retrograde) will be square to Pluto and transiting Chiron will be square to the Juno/Jupiter midpoint, so these are not favourable aspects for the wedding, but it looks like a "block" in your plan or that issues might be addressed before getting married, along Uranus on IC and tr. south node on Saturn square Jupiter it looks like a change but with a strong instability moment... with transiting Jupiter going direct conjunct Jupiter and trine to the Sun/Pluto midpoint, maybe there's some settling down and financial/career issues to be managed. tr. Uranus on IC in taurus may actually point to a "new house".
the thing is... you may very well decide to get married during this time, transits just look a bit chaotic at this moment so if you do it may look like a stressful time.

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posted April 11, 2021 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for chocogold     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Stoika7:

yes I believe this may be the case (living together without being married) because tr. Saturn next autumn (going direct after being retrograde) will be square to Pluto and transiting Chiron will be square to the Juno/Jupiter midpoint, so these are not favourable aspects for the wedding, but it looks like a "block" in your plan or that issues might be addressed before getting married, along Uranus on IC and tr. south node on Saturn square Jupiter it looks like a change but with a strong instability moment... with transiting Jupiter going direct conjunct Jupiter and trine to the Sun/Pluto midpoint, maybe there's some settling down and financial/career issues to be managed. tr. Uranus on IC in taurus may actually point to a "new house".
the thing is... you may very well decide to get married during this time, transits just look a bit chaotic at this moment so if you do it may look like a stressful time.
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Thank you very much. Very insightful.

I shall come back with updates.

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Stoika7
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posted April 11, 2021 08:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd be happy to have your updates on the wedding :-)
Best wishes! ❤️

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posted April 24, 2021 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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