posted April 18, 2021 02:37 AM
Lilith may feel that Mercury is too logical and rational when it comes to intimate matters. She may feel her emotions are being dismissed or rationalized instead of validated. Mercury could even be a little patronizing to the Lilith person. On the flip side, Lilith may be too emotional and overwhelming to Mercury. Mercury simply does not operate on the level of depth Lilith embodies and craves.
If you are Mercury, I would be careful how you respond to Lilith's displays of emotion, intuition, and intimacy. Be careful not to intellectualize things, but give some validation, even unspoken validation. You may not understand someone's feelings but you should always respect them. Make sure they feel their emotions are respected at the very least.