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Topic: New encounter - help with this synastry and composite?
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LeoSagRisingTaurusMoon Knowflake Posts: 152 From: Quintiles land, next to Neptune conjunct Asc Registered: Nov 2019
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posted April 20, 2021 11:51 AM
I met this guy a few weeks ago and felt an inexplicable connection. He immediately felt compelled to get in touch, lots of messaging and big gestures from his side (such as gifting me books of love poetry, flowers...) and although now I doubt he was love bombing me, it felt so good.Although we're platonic we have at least to hold hands, and it feels out of this world. We have already had very deep conversations and figured out it would be very complicated due to circumstances, but the pull is magnetic, even if after the serious conversations where I stated very clearly what my boundaries are, the obsessive messaging from his side stopped. Now he barely writes any message (except when he wants to see me) since he said he's facing a very busy time at work and told me not to think he lost interest in me if I don't hear from him. I am torn between my feelings, between the fact he seems deep and honest when we talk, and the fear he may be breadcrumbing\manipulating me. I have no experience with such a hefty dose of Scorpio in a male's chart. I'm worried of his Nessus conjunct his Venus too. Synastry (he is outside in red, I'm inside in blue) Composite Thanks you all IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 141356 From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 21, 2021 08:38 AM
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ToughPrincessa1997 Knowflake Posts: 92 From: 8th house;) Registered: Nov 2020
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posted April 21, 2021 02:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeoSagRisingTaurusMoon: I met this guy a few weeks ago and felt an inexplicable connection. He immediately felt compelled to get in touch, lots of messaging and big gestures from his side (such as gifting me books of love poetry, flowers...) and although now I doubt he was love bombing me, it felt so good.Although we're platonic we have at least to hold hands, and it feels out of this world. We have already had very deep conversations and figured out it would be very complicated due to circumstances, but the pull is magnetic, even if after the serious conversations where I stated very clearly what my boundaries are, the obsessive messaging from his side stopped. Now he barely writes any message (except when he wants to see me) since he said he's facing a very busy time at work and told me not to think he lost interest in me if I don't hear from him. I am torn between my feelings, between the fact he seems deep and honest when we talk, and the fear he may be breadcrumbing\manipulating me. I have no experience with such a hefty dose of Scorpio in a male's chart. I'm worried of his Nessus conjunct his Venus too. Synastry (he is outside in red, I'm inside in blue) Composite Thanks you all
Hello. I dons know about your synastry but from my experiemce in scorpio men I love 2 madly, if they fall they also distance themselves sometimes and if they like you they will not stop pursuing you even if they act a bit distant. I have found that when they do this it is the best that you act a bit cold as well, they come back Quick I promise... this is how you keep them on their toes keep being the goddes you are they always come running and drooling. Play them in their own game ... scorpio men are the best ♡ and I see you have a moon in taurus so you may very well have what he wants.. i dont know why but I am most certain that alot of svorpio men love taurus women. I have taurus planets so I know this petsonally
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LeoSagRisingTaurusMoon Knowflake Posts: 152 From: Quintiles land, next to Neptune conjunct Asc Registered: Nov 2019
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posted April 22, 2021 04:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by ToughPrincessa1997: ] Hello. I dons know about your synastry but from my experiemce in scorpio men I love 2 madly, if they fall they also distance themselves sometimes and if they like you they will not stop pursuing you even if they act a bit distant. I have found that when they do this it is the best that you act a bit cold as well, they come back Quick I promise... this is how you keep them on their toes keep being the goddes you are they always come running and drooling. Play them in their own game ... scorpio men are the best ♡ and I see you have a moon in taurus so you may very well have what he wants.. i dont know why but I am most certain that alot of svorpio men love taurus women. I have taurus planets so I know this petsonally
Thank you for your thoughts, I appreciate it a lot! I notice you're right about the fact that Scorpio heavy men tend to distance themselves a bit, playing a bit like the night animals they are - playing hide and seek, I mean. I'm just puzzled by the radical change in attitude since the very first days, seemed like he couldn't get enough of texting, even at the heavy expense of his own sleep schedule (which is important for his kind of job). I'd like some help with the synastry too...
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LeoSagRisingTaurusMoon Knowflake Posts: 152 From: Quintiles land, next to Neptune conjunct Asc Registered: Nov 2019
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posted April 27, 2021 02:27 PM
Bump! The interaction between us changed. He told me that he tried to distance himself from me but he couldn't, and basically lots of things about him falling for me and wanting more intimacy. I'm scared, I'm trying to keep it slow but I'm smitten at the same time. Someone care to share insights? IP: Logged |
StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 635 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted April 28, 2021 08:27 PM
Are the birth times accurate?The composite looks pretty intense. Sun venus Mercury all squaring Saturn, and Juno on the midpoint. Moon squares Pluto. Valentine sextile the sun Stellium. Amor to Moon, beautiful. I see a lot of feeling between you two. I’ll be interested to read synastry interpretations. Do you have the aspect charts for the synastry by chance? I struggle with the biwheel. IP: Logged |
LeoSagRisingTaurusMoon Knowflake Posts: 152 From: Quintiles land, next to Neptune conjunct Asc Registered: Nov 2019
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posted April 30, 2021 11:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by StoneMoon: Are the birth times accurate?The composite looks pretty intense. Sun venus Mercury all squaring Saturn, and Juno on the midpoint. Moon squares Pluto. Valentine sextile the sun Stellium. Amor to Moon, beautiful. I see a lot of feeling between you two. I’ll be interested to read synastry interpretations. Do you have the aspect charts for the synastry by chance? I struggle with the biwheel.
Yes, the birth times are accurate. Here's the aspects chart I'm the 8 house sun he's the 2nd house sun IP: Logged | |