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Topic: Should I take a chance w this guy ??
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heavenszing
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Oregon
Registered: Nov 2020
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posted April 27, 2021 12:25 AM
  
Hello all!There is a new guy I am currently seeing and I really wanted to get some insight on our synastry. He developed feelings for me first and confessed he liked me a month ago. However, I wasn't interested in entering a relationship so I suggested a fwb relationship for us and he agreed. However, there are moments between us that do not feel like a fwb would. We stay up late talking to each other and sometimes it feels emotionally intimate. I was wondering should I take a chance w him or just leave things as they are?? Anytime I bring up that we're acting more than fwb and should stop acting like that, he gets upset and distant. Which is understandable of course but I just don't want to risk getting hurt. I like how things are between us when we act more than fwb but I am just unsure if we should attempt dating, hence the reason why I keep pulling away. I did notice that his moon isn't as aspected but its interesting since he is the one who developed feelings for me first. Could it just be the neptune/venus? Any advice would help! Thank you! IP: Logged |
heavenszing
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Oregon
Registered: Nov 2020
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posted April 27, 2021 12:31 AM
Here are the links:Synastry: https://ibb.co/M7CKwCP Synastry chart: https://ibb.co/Dr8Sk5F Composite: https://ibb.co/SR9jDhx I am on the inside and he is on the outside! IP: Logged |
todd
Knowflake Posts: 4988
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted April 27, 2021 06:03 PM
Well the Venus/mars midpoint isvipposed to Jupiter loosely,so there is a affection and enjoyment when together.
But LT is no so good.Uranus square to Saturn is a breakup aspect and not conducive to commitment. The midpoint is opposed to the sun so you will never get sincerely close to him .
Venus square to Neptune is not usually favorable for a steady relationship because going out and socializing tends to be more important than getting to know someone deeply.IP: Logged |
heavenszing
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Oregon
Registered: Nov 2020
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posted April 27, 2021 07:09 PM
Thank you for the reply Todd!What is LT? And yes, I can see myself never truly getting close to him because he has said that he feels detached except for when we are w each other. Not sure how true those words are but yes I can see commitment being an issue as well on my end, which I have expressed to him. He seems to want the relationship more than I do. Since Saturn is in the 5th house in the composite and his Saturn is in my 5th house, does that say anything about the longevity of our possible relationship, whether it be fwb or dating? IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
Knowflake Posts: 565
From: us
Registered: Sep 2018
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posted April 27, 2021 07:29 PM
I would say yes the composite doesn't speak of deep transforming love but it does show attraction that you both will enjoy. If you are both evolved that is better for this type of composite. IP: Logged |
todd
Knowflake Posts: 4988
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted April 27, 2021 09:35 PM
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Originally posted by heavenszing:
Thank you for the reply Todd!What is LT? And yes, I can see myself never truly getting close to him because he has said that he feels detached except for when we are w each other. Not sure how true those words are but yes I can see commitment being an issue as well on my end, which I have expressed to him. He seems to want the relationship more than I do. Since Saturn is in the 5th house in the composite and his Saturn is in my 5th house, does that say anything about the longevity of our possible relationship, whether it be fwb or dating?
LT long term
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 143891
From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate.
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 03, 2021 02:31 PM
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heavenszing
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Oregon
Registered: Nov 2020
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posted June 18, 2021 03:10 PM
Hello all!Update on the relationship: We are now dating! It has been a month and things between us are going well. However, there are a lot of external issues that prevents us from being together. We get along pretty well and care about each other a lot, but it seems like no matter how much we want to be together something is always preventing us from being together. We have talked about this and are working on it but I really do not want to break up with him because we have such a great connection. Breaking up is not in the cards anytime soon but any ideas on what can be causing this? Saturn-Venus square? Is saturn in 5th house composite also bad? We talk about marriage and kids already... IP: Logged |
heavenszing
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Oregon
Registered: Nov 2020
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posted June 18, 2021 03:17 PM
Also any thoughts on vertex in 8th house of partner's? We both have vertex in each other's 8th houseIP: Logged |
Stoika7
Knowflake Posts: 2111
From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted June 19, 2021 10:32 PM
Hi heavenszing,I think that transiting saturn retrograde traveling through the Composite Uranus/South Node midpoint is giving a hard taking off and circumstances of physical distance, it looks very unstable and as you say the two can be separated by "fate". Let alone transiting Uranus square to comp. Uranus, your relationship certainly has something unpredictable... Mercury retrograde has also been square to composite IC/MC and likely this didn't help, thanks god it's going to be over soon :-) Keep an eye on transiting Saturn retrograde to your Composite. The relationship is under big test with this transit, giving a lot of uncertainties for the future. Transiting North Node is approaching the Composite DSC, by the way, so I guess you're going to put effort in making things work out. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 143891
From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate.
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posted July 01, 2021 11:39 AM
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