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Topic: Couple been together 10 years-what is the secret?
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Willabuttler234 Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Registered: Jun 2020
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posted May 04, 2021 04:48 PM
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livvywatermonkey Knowflake Posts: 164 From: Registered: Jan 2020
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posted May 04, 2021 05:36 PM
Hey Wilabutler234, not sure if this is relevant, but I kind of see astrology the opposite, the chart reflects reality instead of determining it.That being said, the fact they’ve chosen to stay together/“stick it out”, I would see reflected in his Saturn conjunct her Descendant Hope this helps IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 1954 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted May 04, 2021 06:45 PM
In Composite, they have a stellium in 7th house, with mercury exactly trine to Jupiter. The Moon/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct the ASC/DSC axis. They have Saturn square Jupiter though, so there must be an element of strong instability in their relationship, and they could still break up in the future. In synastry, his Pluto/North Node conjunct her IC, and her Saturn/Juno is opposite his Moon, involving her North Node. And his Saturn on her DSC as livvywatermonkey mentioned. These are aspects of strong bond. IP: Logged |
Willabuttler234 Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Registered: Jun 2020
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posted May 04, 2021 06:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stoika7: In Composite, they have a stellium in 7th house, with mercury exactly trine to Jupiter. The Moon/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct the ASC/DSC axis. They have Saturn square Jupiter though, so there must be an element of strong instability in their relationship, and they could still break up in the future. In synastry, his Pluto/North Node conjunct her IC, and her Saturn/Juno is opposite his Moon, involving her North Node. And his Saturn on her DSC as livvywatermonkey mentioned. These are aspects of strong bond.
Do you see a strong, loving bond from these aspects? What kind of instability does Saturn square Jupiter cause? Ive noticed a few composite charts of long term couples I have seen have this aspect. I think there were a few ups and downs or on/offs in the beginning of their relationship but they worked through it. They are engaged now so I dont know if they worked through that square already.
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Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 1954 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted May 04, 2021 07:05 PM
Yes, the Composite stellium trine to Jupiter and Moon/Jupiter midpoint conjunct DSC show a strong loving bond. and the Venus/Mars midpoint is sextile Lilith, which is again a very loving aspect. Saturn square Jupiter is usually an aspect of potential break up/divorce, even though it is true that some long term couples have it, maybe there are some differences in their personalities or different values in life, even though other aspects are strong enough to keep them together and find compromise... Saturn is also sextile Juno, even though the Saturn/Jupiter square is usually stronger than trines/sextiles, so I would say they's still some risk for parting ways in the future. IP: Logged |
Willabuttler234 Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Registered: Jun 2020
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posted May 04, 2021 07:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stoika7: Yes, the Composite stellium trine to Jupiter and Moon/Jupiter midpoint conjunct DSC show a strong loving bond. and the Venus/Mars midpoint is sextile Lilith, which is again a very loving aspect. Saturn square Jupiter is usually an aspect of potential break up/divorce, even though it is true that some long term couples have it, maybe there are some differences in their personalities or different values in life, even though other aspects are strong enough to keep them together and find compromise... Saturn is also sextile Juno, even though the Saturn/Jupiter square is usually stronger than trines/sextiles, so I would say they's still some risk for parting ways in the future.
Their Davison is pretty much the same except Juno exactly conjuncts the Ascendant and Saturn is on the descendant conjunct Venus/Sun. Does that also account for them trying to work it out? They are different people and I think that caused some on/offs in the beginning of their relationship. What surprises me is that instead of breaking up they chose to keep working on it. Ive seen couples with better composites break up horribly and this couple doesnt have that great of synastry but they've been together 10 years. I was wondering if there is something that Im missing that could account for it. Im learning about astrology still I just didn't know if I was missing something. IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 1954 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted May 04, 2021 07:45 PM
"they chose to keep working on it" literally explains the challenge of Composite Saturn in 6th house :-)Davidson mainly shows how they experience the relationship more intimately or on a karmic level. But those aspects you mention can also explain why their bond is deeply felt despite their individual differences. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 14404 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 04, 2021 08:31 PM
Thanks for sharing! Lovely kite in the composite, with moon/pluto/mars and ruler of the 5H Uranus completing the kite which includes Mars ruler of the 7H so this speaks of a romance that turns into something serious and leads to marriage were emotions run deep but are not so intense that it turns against them. Then we have ruler of the DC Mars falling right on the DC reinforcing a desire to commit to each other and not being shy about it, just going for it. Then there is the love stellium falling in the 7th house and trine JUPITER in the 3H which I bet is great for communication and working through things in a kind loving way, helping out with the aggression and conflict that may arise from time to time with having DC ruler as Mars fall on the DC. The instability is probably URANUS ruling the 5th but overall they have a nice composite, feels kind and balanced. I am surprised saturn or juno are not featured more strongly as both glue people together and give people stamina and commitment to work through stuff but the 7H is featured VERY strongly in their chart so less need for JUNO or saturn to help with commitment. IP: Logged |
Willabuttler234 Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Registered: Jun 2020
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posted May 04, 2021 08:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Thanks for sharing! Lovely kite in the composite, with moon/pluto/mars and ruler of the 5H Uranus completing the kite which includes Mars ruler of the 7H so this speaks of a romance that turns into something serious and leads to marriage were emotions run deep but are not so intense that it turns against them. Then we have ruler of the DC Mars falling right on the DC reinforcing a desire to commit to each other and not being shy about it, just going for it. Then there is the love stellium falling in the 7th house and trine JUPITER in the 3H which I bet is great for communication and working through things in a kind loving way, helping out with the aggression and conflict that may arise from time to time with having DC ruler as Mars fall on the DC. The instability is probably URANUS ruling the 5th but overall they have a nice composite, feels kind and balanced. I am surprised saturn or juno are not featured more strongly as both glue people together and give people stamina and commitment to work through stuff but the 7H is featured VERY strongly in their chart so less need for JUNO or saturn to help with commitment.
They have heavy saturn in synastry and Davison! They have a DW moon conjunct saturn in synastry and then saturn conjunct sun/venus in composite. I think Juno is conjunct Jupiter, square sun and venus in composite and falls on the IC
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 14404 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 04, 2021 09:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Willabuttler234: [QUOTE] They have heavy saturn in synastry and Davison! They have a DW moon conjunct saturn in synastry and then saturn conjunct sun/venus in composite. I think Juno is conjunct Jupiter, square sun and venus in composite and falls on the IC
WOW JUNO conjunct JUPITER is a classic marriage aspect and it falls on an angle and none the less a very intimate angle like the IC that also helps two people create a home and family together. You mean Davison right? Saturn stellium with SUN and VENUS in Davison? yes that would help with resilience as a couple and durability.
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jemerson Newflake Posts: 18 From: Registered: May 2021
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posted May 05, 2021 12:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by livvywatermonkey: Hey Wilabutler234, not sure if this is relevant, but I kind of see astrology the opposite, the chart reflects reality instead of determining it.That being said, the fact they’ve chosen to stay together/“stick it out”, I would see reflected in his Saturn conjunct her Descendant Hope this helps
That’s what’s up, I share this aspect with my best friend! I like what you’ve said about astrology being a reflection of reality. IP: Logged |
Willabuttler234 Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Registered: Jun 2020
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posted May 05, 2021 02:17 PM
@ToddAny insights? IP: Logged |