posted May 07, 2021 03:00 PM            

First synastry with me outside. Then composite

posted May 07, 2021 05:58 PM            

Does he struggle with his relationships with women? This could play into it as well due to his Moon Chiron conjunction. And this conjunct his south node, so he has some heavy baggage he is dealing with in this life. Now he may be working on it, so I want to give him the benefit of the doubt, but that's no easy thing.

posted May 08, 2021 03:37 AM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
I would want to ask you if you feel the relationship is draining? Or challenging emotionally? The first thing I notice is the Moon Saturn DW, with a square showing up in composite. I feel as though this could be a hard thing to experience for a Leo Moon, and a Taurus Moon too.

Does he struggle with his relationships with women? This could play into it as well due to his Moon Chiron conjunction. And this conjunct his south node, so he has some heavy baggage he is dealing with in this life. Now he may be working on it, so I want to give him the benefit of the doubt, but that's no easy thing.

You, however, are Mars trine Chiron and that could be both soothing and difficult for him. I do see you are committed, but do you feel happiness? I see a good connection in the composite, and intense feelings too. I do think you stimulate each other (Sun/Mars DW) and I do see attraction. This relationship, like all others, has its challenges but also has its attractions.

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Thank you for an insightful interpretation
The one thing that can feel draining is that he’s not good about talking about feelings. It can lead to insecurities, he’s actions shows he cares a lot though. There is an age difference and sometimes he can be a bit condescending without really meaning to, but he thinks he is always right hehe. I think I feel his Saturn on my Moon as both a good and a bad thing. I feel more practical and learned a lot from him (he has Sun/Moon earth signs as well). His Saturn also trines my Sun. Maybe this could help ground and bind us. The composite shows so much Uranus stuff.
I don’t know how he experiences his Moon opposite my Saturn/Pluto. That’s heavy, but I’m not a controlling person. But I’ve met guys before that either conjunct or opposes those planets (Saturn is my chart ruler too) and they’ve had some very serious impact on my life and I can feel that Moon a lot.. (Conjunct would fall in my 8th house). It’s felt fated before.

The Chiron thing you mention in his chart is interesting.He has never had relationships going beyond 2-3 years and never lived with a woman before. This has also caused insecurity in me. I brought up moving in together in the future and he agrees. Maybe it’s caused by moving around a lot as a kid, his Uranus squares his Moon too. His mother seems kind and acceptive.