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dazednconfused
Newflake

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Registered: May 2021

posted May 08, 2021 01:17 PM

Hello, I hope you guys are doing well

I've been having just a horrible time with this most recent test of fate and hope I can get some advice because I really don't know what to do about it.
The story is like this: I am in a very loving relationship, we have our issues, and quite a bit of them, but the love is undeniable and we have complete trust in each other. I am fully committed to this man and have no doubt that he is too.
And here comes the problem. Last summer in a group of friends I met someone who just made me doubt everything. He is not handsome or anything like that, I just feel the strongest energy around him, it's like we knew each other before. Like he understands me and I him on a level unlike anything else. After the initial shock of this meeting I didn't see him for a while and just forgot about it after a few weeks. But recently we spent some time around each other again and I just cannot. get. him. out. of. my. head. He's given me signals that he feels it too and that scares me even more. I feel sick to my stomach. I feel like I am betraying the man I love just thinking about this.
I have no idea what to do about these feelings. Am I supposed to learn some kind of lesson from all of this? Can the synastry charts tell why we met? Should I stay with my boyfriend or try and pursue this? Any input is welcome <3

Here is chart for me and my bf:
https://ibb.co/DLRd4Dr

And here is the chart for me and the new guy:
https://ibb.co/tBStR0B

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AlmaRegulus
Knowflake

Posts: 52
From:
Registered: Apr 2021

posted May 08, 2021 01:40 PM

dazednconfused,

Maybe there would be more responses if you posted composites as well.

Also, you can try to produce charts with:
Part of fortune, Vertex, Black Moon Lilith, Juno, Vesta, Ceres (they are in the scrolling menu of Additional objects),

and the following asteroids (I will post several selections, and in the chart for posting you can keep only the ones with near exact conjunctions since astro.com does not allow including more than 10):

Romantic:
447,1221,1388,3811,1585,390,763,4386,h22,433

IQ soulmate filter:
447,1221,433,3811,6583,1585,258,19,11911

Romantic pairs:
16,433,42,1923,1170,4227,2847,2629,399,h57

Todd's asteroids for composites:
eros and psyche, eris, juno, ceres, sedna, nessus and dejaniera, orcus ad ixion

You can also try to find asteroids corresponding to your and their names.

From my brief look at your synastries, without 2nd guy's time of birth and asteroids, it is not evident why he made such an impression on you. Of course, you share some energies with similar stelliums, stelliums conjunct through Sun-Neptune-Venus conjunction, Mars opposition to Venus & Pluto is hot, but it is not obvious why you felt this way.

Another surprising thing is that with your boyfriend his Sun and Mars don't make major aspects but only quincunxes. I found it really surprising. Maybe a composite.would tell more about your relationship.

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