posted June 23, 2021 10:26 PM
No, I believe it's called a free will.For me, your meeting with someone for the first time is called fate, nothing is a coincidence. Then the decision is yours: like them or dislike them, falling in love with them or hate them, being in a relationship/friendship/continuing as a stranger with them or not, falling out of love or getting stronger, becoming an enemy or a bestfriend for life, coming back together again or breaking up, keeping yourself a distance forever, etc.
Synastry or composite isn't a fixed price for your failed relationship or a successful relationship. It's only a picture of analysis and it's actually very helpful for third party to see and understand what actually is going on within a relationship. It is to avoid third party to make an assessment in a subjective way, because relationship is complex and need an objective view.
But nowadays, when we can all access information from anywhere and for free, you can have it to help you see and understand your own relationship dynamic in an objective way through those synastry/composite chart.
You know, once we are in a relationship with someone, we tend to be very subjective because we experience about the good and the bad on our own, it's influenced our assessment about it. So, the synastry and composite help you to be more objective, know where to avoid, work on, or cherish.
It's your free will to define your own relationship, astrology is only a tool to understand human dynamic. Don't make it as an excuse of justification.