posted July 02, 2021 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Pluto is about obsessions and letting go. It might not let go deep inside, but it won’t surrender.

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posted July 02, 2021 07:58 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I mean does the Pluto person ever completely move on from the Moon person? As the Moon person I don’t think I’m ever not going to feel the intensity from this aspect. Like even if I go years without seeing this person. When I see them again I feel that feeling all over again.

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posted July 02, 2021 08:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
as the Moon person you say that you also cannot let go of Pluto?

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I am the Moon person and I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to let him go completely. I really don’t understand why because I talk to other men. We go months or even years without seeing each other. Then I end up seeing him again and I start to want him all over again.

posted July 03, 2021 09:04 AM            

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Originally posted by vansio:
I’ve been Pluto, or still am. I “let go” constantly because I have to on principle, to survive.

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posted July 03, 2021 10:13 AM            

The thing I try my best to be mindful of is to not be invasive or possessive or scared, hence the feeling of having to “let go [let god]” constantly. 2nd thing I have to be mindful of is trying not to psychoanalyze him to death (ego. control the emotional landscape...) it’s difficult to not make comments when you can sense enough of someone’s soul trash. My moon is in my own 8th house and sextile my own Pluto

He’s going through a Transit Pluto conjunct his natal Venus atm, when we reconnected was during this time period (the week we met up this transit first-exacted), after so many years apart - so guess the synastry aspect sticks.

I could only wish to know more what Moon (he) feels. He harbored feelings for me for years, only to come out of the woodwork like hellfire, and then back away again. But the second exact Pluto transit conjunction is coming in a month. I’m definitely curious how this will play out, if I’m still a key player in the transit game or not. Guy is also getting divorced so that ending must be brutal and majorly Plutonian.

My biggest question for Moon is “Do you want us to let go?” Because ya’ll act like you don’t want us. Throw a love bone and mean it... love > fear 🤷🏽‍♀️ An abandonment issue between both parties, in the connection will need to get over it pronto.

lol I’ve been stood up by Moon a few times. grateful that I know astrology enough to have learnt to not take Moon’s behavior personally. But then I also feel like an as*hole for sticking around, to not leave while he pushes me away, am made to feel I’m encroaching him or something. When I’m trying to face the “fear” with him at this point.

posted July 03, 2021 11:29 AM            

A few weeks ago I saw the Pluto person again after two years. And the same thing happened I felt the intensity and it was overwhelming. His coworker interrupted calling his name and broke the connection lol.

He has Pluto in his fifth house too. But Pluto doesn't do much in his natal chart. It only makes a trine to his Mars, Mercury and Ascendant.

posted July 03, 2021 12:49 PM            

His Moon doesn’t make an official square to his Scorpio Pluto, would be too wide. But he has a sextile to Saturn and Venus, and more minor aspects.

Child of Venus, you’re right, it’s really not an excuse. Do both a favor and stop avoiding it? Enacting your worst fear, an presumed expectation, helps no one. This aspect is there to stay, so make the best of it! by owning up all of you, including your feelings. Start there ~ express them. whatever it is, Pluto gonna deeply enjoy it, for better or worse who cares. Yo, at the very least with this person is bonafide FREE therapy. I don’t mean projecting crap onto him and wanting him to respond in accountability - I mean reclaiming your own crap that comes up to the surface by nature of the synastry - and from there, choose Love, the chance to become Whole. What else do any of us want?

But honestly my moon is the 8th house, always going out on a limb - always dying. I sort of get that people aren’t in the same boat.

Sorry I’ve had a beer. Not sure if what I say applies or matters. my Saturn is also in Aquarius so there’s that ✊🏽🤍

Get hurt get squirt boo

If moon keeps doing nothing, then they don’t actually like the Pluto person; I will rest my case there (since it’s what i deal with). It’s just an attachment to their own foible/demise. Give it up. (😅- me complaining outloud here to him.)

Not going to lie that it makes me feel like an a*shole trying to get through to him/Moon. That these feelings matter, and it can be good. It’s sick trying to prove it.

Big hug from the mindf*ck society called Moon Pluto square 🤗

posted July 03, 2021 02:20 PM            

Pluto tends to plays games with and manipulates the Moon. The Pluto person isn't capable of feeling what the Moon feels with this aspect. We know Pluto has the power to crush us emotionally. So we try to avoid the connection. Personally I can't deal with emotional pain it hurts too much.

posted July 03, 2021 06:08 PM            

the square aspect. But what I get from you is it’s too intense for Moon..

My mom and my best friend have their Aqua moons same to him, square my Pluto. The issue then could be finding this aspect in dating, since actual sex could be involved. In my case, the Moon square Pluto aspect repeats in our composite.

About admitting your feeling... I always recommend expressing them, or at least hold ones own hand and go forth in what it might reveal. If you recognize a risk, all the wiser. To face the fear makes it smaller.

My Moon guy is also a “player”. (So much so that it would be very hard to believe Moon has ongoing, let alone an honest feeling for me, if not for your own explanation. He’s told me that I’m “only a distraction, that he’s not good for me, wasting each other’s time, and we should stop talking” 🤨 ) Over the last months I’ve cast concerns aside for the sake of admitting to myself (for myself) that despite the obvious trouble, I plainly continue to like this person, wish him well. No harm, no foul. Sure, that meant lowering any expectation for a committed relationship with him to none, yet enjoy the desire (live in the present) for what it’s worth.

posted July 04, 2021 06:30 AM            

In our case, Pluto is trying to love. Our Pluto is about Love. I can’t stress that enough. 😅

Love love love love love 😂 obsessed with love

posted July 04, 2021 11:01 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
I'd say if his Pluto is Scorpio it's not only at home "full power" but amplified in nature due to the fixed energy of this sign.
His obsession tendencies are strong. Passion can be mighty deep love or opposite. I can't see your combined or synastry. Didn't see if this is a cnj you two share? He will slso intrinsically feel drawn to someone that his inner knowing, "feels" a connection. In your case Moon - which is powerful. Moreso if he yearns for feminine connections.

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It’s the square this is the synastry his Chart ruler is the Moon.

posted July 05, 2021 11:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
There's a guy who likes me and his 8H Pluto square my 7H Moon. I find he gets too close which is out of my comfort zone.

Anyway I don't like this aspect. I've experienced it twice (first time with my ex which was a very painful, manipulative relationship). It feels deep initially but uncomfortable over time, like something just isn't right. both Pluto guys don't seem to respect my feelings. Even then it's hard for Moon to let go because the connection feels special nonetheless so it can take a long time but IME Moon eventually lets go.

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