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Topic: What Happened In This Composite?
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jyeshthatequila
Knowflake Posts: 93
From: Seattle, Washington, United States
Registered: Nov 2019
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posted July 10, 2021 12:04 AM
  
Hi all, I recently have gone through a breakup and wanted to know if someone could explain to me how this could happen/if there are any chances of reconciliation? Also asking if Todd could please take a look at the composite http://imgur.com/a/migEjO0 IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 3852
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted July 10, 2021 01:42 AM
Hi, sorry to hear this. While you wait for Todd’s input I thought I might offer what I saw…Transit Saturn & Uranus is forming a grand cross with your stellium that square cMars. Tr Mars/Venus on your cMars also just joined in an opposition/square to tr Saturn/Uranus. These all look stressful to me. Tr Saturn retrograde may provide some relief and some months later tr Jupiter will trine your stellium but tr Uranus will still be within orb of influence as it’s also going to retrograde, so it seems like the unstable energy will not be over soon. Btw where are your outer planets? We use them in western astrology. You may add Juno too. IP: Logged |
jyeshthatequila
Knowflake Posts: 93
From: Seattle, Washington, United States
Registered: Nov 2019
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posted July 10, 2021 02:19 AM
Hi, thank you so much for your response. As I am new to astrology still, do you have any interpretations how the mentioned transits and other aspects play out within the relationship? Here is the chart with juno as well as natal charts also:
http://imgur.com/a/UAdCzH6 IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 3852
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted July 10, 2021 06:03 AM
With Uranus, you need to evolve and change (because that’s what it demands) or the partnership may break. Your cMars square stellium indicates a lot of fights can happen and I’m thinking tr Uranus may have made it worse. Tr Saturn may have also made it seem like your problems/differences are too difficult to overcome thus one could break away. However there’s also strong indication of a close and intimate bond….just that Mars looks troublesome. IP: Logged |
Stoika7
Knowflake Posts: 2473
From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted July 11, 2021 02:00 AM
Hi, with North Node conjunct to the stellium, Jupiter conjunct Moon and Juno opposite to the north Node/Jupiter-Moon midpoint, and Vertex square to the axis, you have a powerful soul connection and your bond looks lasting beyond time and space. Transiting Nodes are going to be square to composite Saturn, as transiting Uranus is conjunct Composite South Node. Transiting Saturn is square to the stellium, but Saturn is retrograde... so I think there may be chance for reconciliation, but this seems possible only if there's a chance for a deep review/change in your relationship, both tr. Uranus and Saturn are asking to let go something from the past, otherwise they may bring parting ways. IP: Logged |
jyeshthatequila
Knowflake Posts: 93
From: Seattle, Washington, United States
Registered: Nov 2019
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posted July 12, 2021 02:46 PM
@Hikaru29 @Stoika7 - You both are very spot on and accurate in each of your interpretations. A lot of fights did happen. The actual breakup only happened at the end of May (during mercury retrograde), the day before we were supposed to move in together (I'm 6 months pregnant) because I found out his ex friends w/ benefits had been emailing him and he was corresponding where he realized he had feelings for her suddenly (they have uranus square venus in their composite) - on May 26th, the night of a blood moon, he sent her a 28 minute voice recording telling her he loved her and that if he had a chance to be with her he would be, etc. I ultimately ended things because we were broken up since the end of May but he kept coming around trying to "figure" things out. I needed space so I haven't seen him and barely spoke to him since June 18th (The day he found out I knew about the recording). Throughout all of this, I did find out he lied a lot about a lot of things. Even after I played the recording of him telling the other girl he loves her, he said to me "I never told her I loved her". He has tried to contact me a couple of times but I really have no energy to fight or care at this point. I have never received an actual apology from him for everything he has done and said. He doesn't have interest in the baby, only fighting with me. He called me a week ago irrationally and asked how I was doing. I was very dry and told him we're never going to get back together and if he wanted to talk it can be about our baby. Only then he started asking questions about the baby. IP: Logged |
athenaia
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted July 12, 2021 03:40 PM
jyesh I am so so sorry to hear this. Hikaru picked up on precisely the transits I wanted to point out, and of course Stoika worked her magic with the midpoints. If I may ask, could I see the synastry between you both? IP: Logged |
jyeshthatequila
Knowflake Posts: 93
From: Seattle, Washington, United States
Registered: Nov 2019
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posted July 12, 2021 04:00 PM
@athenaia Yes, of course. Here is our synastry chart (I am on the outside in red): https://imgur.com/a/BU3VLSi
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athenaia
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted July 12, 2021 04:17 PM
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jyeshthatequila
Knowflake Posts: 93
From: Seattle, Washington, United States
Registered: Nov 2019
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posted July 13, 2021 01:39 AM
@athenaia Your words move me, especially because they are so wildly accurate.
When you described his feelings about having an unplanned pregnancy obstructing his "vision" - you really nailed it, he describes the way he feels just the way you explained it. "Destined to be together" - I sort of laughed out loud because in the beginning of our relationship, we really would say that to one another. We would run into one another several times throughout a year before we started talking as friends but he always wanted to be more than friends because of his attraction to me. I was always unsure not because of a lack of chemistry but because I wanted to be sure his interest in me had more substance than what he was attracted to physically. We took things really slow, but he was very romantic with me in the way he showed his affections/love and was extremely attentive. When I was mad at him, he would show up at my work, my home, or wherever I was (he had my location for a bit) and bring me flowers or apologize and sometimes he would cry if he really thought we were over for good. He would leave me flowers on my car before I went to work at 8 AM, "just because". I never doubted his feelings for me, but sometimes the passion he felt/feels for me scares me. It overwhelmed me at times when I really did want space to just reflect on an argument or have some time alone. When you said "he hit the chemistry jackpot" - I laughed again because one of his reasons for breaking the relationship was that he didn't feel like we had any chemistry and like he has more chemistry with the girl he was emailing with..
I just wonder.. if you have time would you be able to look at their synastry & composite chart and interpret what you see there? I don't know her birth time but his is accurate. Their synastry chart (She is on the outside in red): http://imgur.com/a/m8bIa5W Their composite chart: http://imgur.com/a/iPWfLOV IP: Logged |
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