posted July 13, 2021 01:41 PM            

Synastry chart (I am red, he's blue) My name asteroid is the aqua/sag and his is the aries/cap.

Composite chart (my name asteroid is in capricorn, his is in aqua)

posted July 13, 2021 01:54 PM            

Or someone born May 10th-16th (their Sun will be conjunct his NN/MC, sextile his Sun, opposite his Saturn) :P

posted July 13, 2021 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Tell him to date someone born April 10-17th (their Sun will be conjunct his Mars/Venus and opposite his Moon and square his Vertex)

Or someone born May 10th-16th (their Sun will be conjunct his NN/MC, sextile his Sun, opposite his Saturn) :P

Honestly Venus opposite Moon men are deeply, deeply complicated creatures.

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HAHA, I set him up with a lady last year who's birthday was April 28th so right in between those dates. They got along great, he thought he was going to break her heart, he ended up doing something really stupid that upset her and she broke up with him thus breaking HIS heart! Anything you see in our synastry or composite to point to such a long term friendship? Thank you!!

posted July 19, 2021 06:10 PM            

So, you are definitely a significant person in his life. You tick a lot of boxes for him, no doubt about that.

He's looking for someone pretty similar to you actually. His DSC is in Aqua, so yes he wants an unconventional girl that marches to the beat of her own drum. Someone that isn't into cliche things, someone that bucks tradition/expectation, someone very interesting.

His Moon is conj Pluto (out-of-sign conjunction) so he wants INTENSITY, clinginess, ride or die-ness, someone very deep, someone with history/possibly a traumatic past, someone very very loyal. He wants conversations that are very deep, philosophical, erotic, taboo.

He wants a woman that is fierce, competitive, athletic, combative, confrontational, an alpha female, someone with a lusty appetite, a woman in touch with the darkest part of herself, someone that effortlessly oozes eroticism. Because Venus is in his 9th house, he wants someone educated, well-traveled, perhaps someone foreign, or someone that's a different race than him, or someone that's a polyglot, or someone with advanced academic degrees.

But his Moon is in Libra so he also wants someone charming, the iron fist in the velvet glove, someone diplomatic, someone that has very good manners/etiquette, that prioritizes their interpersonal relationships.

His 7th house ruler is Uranus in the 4th so he also wants someone that's close to their family, maternal, someone that's a good cook, someone that has a home/or at least decorates their apartment rather stylishly.

His natal Uranus (7th house chart ruler) is square his Pisces Sun so he wants someone unpredictable, someone that always surprises him, someone that has a LOT of layers to their mind/personality

posted July 20, 2021 01:09 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Okay I'm back! So sorry about that delay Amber, got ambushed with work stuff last week

So, you are definitely a significant person in his life. You tick a lot of boxes for him, no doubt about that.

He's looking for someone pretty similar to you actually. His DSC is in Aqua, so yes he wants an unconventional girl that marches to the beat of her own drum. Someone that isn't into cliche things, someone that bucks tradition/expectation, someone very interesting.

His Moon is conj Pluto (out-of-sign conjunction) so he wants INTENSITY, clinginess, ride or die-ness, someone very deep, someone with history/possibly a traumatic past, someone very very loyal. He wants conversations that are very deep, philosophical, erotic, taboo.

He wants a woman that is fierce, competitive, athletic, combative, confrontational, an alpha female, someone with a lusty appetite, a woman in touch with the darkest part of herself, someone that effortlessly oozes eroticism. Because Venus is in his 9th house, he wants someone educated, well-traveled, perhaps someone foreign, or someone that's a different race than him, or someone that's a polyglot, or someone with advanced academic degrees.

But his Moon is in Libra so he also wants someone charming, the iron fist in the velvet glove, someone diplomatic, someone that has very good manners/etiquette, that prioritizes their interpersonal relationships.

His 7th house ruler is Uranus in the 4th so he also wants someone that's close to their family, maternal, someone that's a good cook, someone that has a home/or at least decorates their apartment rather stylishly.

His natal Uranus (7th house chart ruler) is square his Pisces Sun so he wants someone unpredictable, someone that always surprises him, someone that has a LOT of layers to their mind/personality

So basically... he wants it all, and it will probably be impossible to satisfy his desires because VERY FEW people on this earth can embody all of those differing qualities effortlessly.

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Thank you so much for helping me out by reading our charts! No problem on the delays. I am very busy with work as well!

ROFL! Man, I knew he was hard to please and it's so funny to see it from an astrological point of view! Ugh, it's hard because I want him to find someone and fall in love so bad and so does he but I seriously don't know if this woman exists at all and if she does, she's certainly not single!

I wonder why I'm a significant person in his life? Like astrologically speaking what do you mean by that? We certainly have a lot of deep meaningful conversations and I'm always surprised by how much he gravitates more towards me than my husband who was his roommate in college and who I met him through. I always kind of wondered if there was more there....Don't get me wrong he is very very good looking and successful but there's just something that he doesn't do for me. I can't quite figure it out. I think it may be that he's TOO good looking if that makes any sense.

posted July 20, 2021 02:34 PM            

Progressed Moon in Pisces isn't always a death knell - I had prog. Moon in Pisces and I started a one year long relationship with someone very Neptunian (their Moon/North Node was in the 12th house)

Didn't last but yeah it was a relationship

Transit Neptune conj his Sun could actually mean that this is the time he meets his soul mate (worst case scenario he falls in love with someone who is completely and utterly terrible for him)

posted July 20, 2021 09:34 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Your significance in his life: Your Moon is almost exactly conjunct his DSC (the two fastest moving bodies in the chart are the angles and the Moon, so when this syncs up perfectly it's quite rare), you both have a Saturn conj Node double whammy (you both owe each other a karmic debt), your Mars is on his Vertex (something about the way your carry yourself/go about your life is meant to inspire him and it should be something he should mirror as well), your Venus is conj his Uranus (7th house chart ruler) so he feels like he has a lot of electrifying chemistry with you, your IC/DC angles are synced up which is a soul mate-esque connection (or soul tribe if we wanna make this more platonic), his your NN is conjunct his MC so your life path is something that he could take inspiration from re: his career, your Saturn/Mercury is conjunct his IC so you're a grounding force for him and a lot of your life philosophies resonate with him in a significant way

Progressed Moon in Pisces isn't always a death knell - I had prog. Moon in Pisces and I started a one year long relationship with someone very Neptunian (their Moon/North Node was in the 12th house)

Didn't last but yeah it was a relationship

Transit Neptune conj his Sun could actually mean that this is the time he meets his soul mate (worst case scenario he falls in love with someone who is completely and utterly terrible for him)

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Wow, very interesting thank you. I feel as though we’re actually getting closer the older we get. I just got off the phone with him, we were talking for the last hour while the husband was out fishing. He just broke up with his girlfriend of 10 months right when his progressed moon changed. I think he’s still hung up on the woman I set him up with last year who dumped him. You see, he’s never been rejected or dumped before so she left a mark. She actually sounds A LOT like his ideal woman that you described earlier. They’re synastry was interesting, maybe I’ll post it.

posted July 21, 2021 11:53 AM            

From what I can surmise? Yes, if not romantic, then definitely sexual. Your Moon in his 7th (at least conjunct his DSC), your Mars and Jupiter in his 5th, your Venus in his 4th, your Sun conjunct his Pluto, these are all classic indicators for compatibility in synastry.

You don't put anything in his 8th house, but your Jupiter is loosely conjunct his 8th house ruler..

You don't put anything in his 9th or have strong Aries in your chart, but you do have a strong Mars...

Your Suns are VERY loosely trine (the Sun is his chart ruler)

The ruler of his Moon is Venus, which has a supporting trine for your Neptune

So honestly, just based on my personal opinion, yes he has romantic feelings for you

posted July 21, 2021 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
For my astrology skills, I'm not sure if I can determine whether romantic feelings are present or not in a synastry/composite (Stoika and Todd are far far better at that than I am being the midpoint masters that they are)

From what I can surmise? Yes, if not romantic, then definitely sexual. Your Moon in his 7th (at least conjunct his DSC), your Mars and Jupiter in his 5th, your Venus in his 4th, your Sun conjunct his Pluto, these are all classic indicators for compatibility in synastry.

You don't put anything in his 8th house, but your Jupiter is loosely conjunct his 8th house ruler..

You don't put anything in his 9th or have strong Aries in your chart, but you do have a strong Mars...

Your Suns are VERY loosely trine (the Sun is his chart ruler)

The ruler of his Moon is Venus, which has a supporting trine for your Neptune

So honestly, just based on my personal opinion, yes he has romantic feelings for you

He is a FAR cry from your ideal match though, you'd actually never feel the same way about him as he does for you if hypothetically you guys were to get together. He'd fall more in love with you as time goes on whereas you'd always feel like there's quite a bit missing

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Thank you so much! Yah, I get that feeling a lot lately like he's gravitating closer to me, and whatever crush/attraction feelings I had in the beginning umpteen years ago are nonexistent now that I'm older and wiser. I do feel like he is a great friend and we have really good conversations but there's just SOMETHING missing for me. Even if I was single, I just couldn't see myself with him. No, we will never get together haha! I just kind of always wondered and now I got my answer! Maybe I should put some distance between us then? I don't want to give him the wrong idea. No more hour long phone conversations?

I really do want him to find the love of his life, it would make me so so happy. Just listening to him on the phone last night talking about his most recent breakup just hurt my heart. I think he gets his hopes up that this might be the one and then he eventually gets disillusioned and dumps the woman. They just don't ever live up to his ideal woman who we have already established doesn't exist LOL. But thanks to your interpretation of his chart I will definitely be on the lookout for someone who comes close! Maybe our karmic debt is that I'm supposed to find him a wife - I don't know why I feel that so strongly. I just realized that composite Venus is square the nodes/Saturn but maybe the orb is too large?

PS: I have not seen Todd on this board in quite some time, have you? It seems to be a little quiet here but it could just be due to summer and activities.

Thanks again!