posted July 13, 2021 02:47 PM
So I’ve been dating this guy a little over a year. He’s felt like a safe space/home to me since day one but I’m just not sure if it’s ever going to actually go anywhere more. While we definitely have been growing and learning from one another, we also have an insane amount of conflict day to day. Communication blocks being the number one contributor which are definitely evident in both synastry (Saturn in each other’s 3h, his conjunct my Chiron) and Composite (Chiron in Gemini). (There’s more too, but just off the top my head those are the big ones that stick out) Anyways, I’ve mixed feelings as to rather or not we are just supposed to learn, heal, and grow from one another or maybe we are carrying out a karmic debt from a past life together…? Perhaps we’re meant to separate? 😞 Anybody have any thoughts on this?
The composite SN conjunct Chiron is the same degree conjunct his natal vertex while my natal vertex is conjunct composite Moon, Venus and POF.
His natal NN conjunct composite ic and natal sun conjunct composite Moon, Venus, POF, and IC.
Vertex seems to be an extremely common theme in our relationship (we also met when our vertexes were “activated” by transits) which I know has to do with “fate”, “destiny”, or a “turning point” in ones life… which I definitely feel this has been a turning point in both our lives in how we push each other to be better and get where we need to be. It’s actually been kinda exciting to see how my Pluto on his north node has been playing out, which he was DEFINITELY not initially fond of in the slightest. 😆 But with his Pluto square my NN the feeling has been mutual 🥴😅. I get the sense these contacts bring a bit of balance despite being hard aspects, but I’m curious what others think? 🤔
I’m including a few different charts and would greatly appreciate any and all input/feedback as I’m still a newbie and learning. 😅 Thanks!! 😁
Natal with transits on the day we met -
Me: http://imgur.com/a/PJ5ZrVx
Him: http://imgur.com/a/i3KcFrP
Synastry: http://imgur.com/a/i3q00o9
Composite -
With 04/29/20 transits: http://imgur.com/a/RgH6nV2
Progressed with transits 04/29/20: http://imgur.com/a/tPeMLGS
Progressed with transits 07/13/21: http://imgur.com/a/CBxMAu9
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