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Lonake
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posted August 23, 2012 03:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus sq Saturn could never get together cos he was scared of me & I was scared of him.

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posted August 23, 2012 03:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Composite Sun, venus, and mercury all opposed or square saturn, neptune, and uranus

and no other positive stuff going on in the chart

sun conjunct saturn with moon opposing or squaring saturn, neptune, and uranus. with not other positive stuff going on in the chart


moon square pluto.. one person feels dominated by the other, and lots of psychoanalyzing games
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posted August 23, 2012 03:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Would you conclude that any kind of moon pluto aspect would be filled with mind games?

no, only moon square pluto in my experience (and in composite, that is.)

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posted August 23, 2012 03:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
I'd say I am very witchy with Scorp pMoon,at 20 d.Venus is on Sirius,at 14th degree


I'll find some more examples for Dreaming111 later today,as one big sorry


All right!
Your pMoon between my Sun & Pluto and Venus between Mercury & Sun. Sweet!


And, we're still waiting for your examples, Mrs TheWitch!


quote:
Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Would you conclude that any kind of moon pluto aspect would be filled with mind games?

I wouldn't.
Only the hard aspects: square, opposition and maybe the conjunction.
BUT maybe the trine could "ease" the whole thing and games would come naturally.
In any case, I think for Moon/Pluto to manifest negatively, there has to be something in the synastry and/or in the natal first.

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Venus sq Saturn could never get together cos he was scared of me & I was scared of him.

Ugh, isn't that annoying when it happens?
Bad, bad Saturn!

RAS, wow that sounds like a crappy composite chart..

Okay so all in all, the luminaries need to have easy aspects to them cause otherwise the relationship either lacks definition, has no real purpose, or is uncomfortable emotionally.

Of course that could be said of all the planets..

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posted August 23, 2012 03:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
BUT maybe the trine could "ease" the whole thing and games would come naturally.

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"Bad, bad Saturn!"
---He needs to be whipped..Luckily my natal came equipped with dominatrix tendencies

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posted August 23, 2012 03:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There is also Mars sq Nep. I can handle it,having the energy myself,but the other side can't...
The most wretching composite ever,and its foundations lie on Mars sq Nep and Venus trine Nep,exact.


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posted August 23, 2012 05:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
IME, stuff in the 12H or virgo

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posted August 23, 2012 05:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Who else hates when their friends/family/partners round off their tob
No way to know if the house is right on the money or not.

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posted August 23, 2012 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Who else hates when their friends/family/partners round off their tob
No way to know if the house is right on the money or not.

haha...I told the guy to show me his birth certificate...

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posted August 23, 2012 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Would you conclude that any kind of moon pluto aspect would be filled with mind games?

IMO Dreaming I feel that in our case, like with Moon conjunct Pluto in the 12th house, yes there would be a lot of mind games. Maybe not all the time for positive Moon-Pluto contacts in synastry and/or composite but this one was a major mind game aspect for me. I was always trying to see into his head and heart and felt confused. He brought out my hidden obsessions and control issues [12H Pluto]. We really ****** with each other's emotions... it was just wrong.

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posted August 23, 2012 02:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Challenges to the Sun or moon or Venus by planets such as Saturn, Pluto, Neptune, or Uranus. Basically, it means that the relationship is doomed.

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posted August 24, 2012 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Would saturn aspects always be troublesome?

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posted August 24, 2012 11:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lava Flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:
Challenges to the Sun or moon or Venus by planets such as Saturn, Pluto, Neptune, or Uranus. Basically, it means that the relationship is doomed.

That makes me really sad. Are there any exceptions heard of?

I'm also wondering, If for example, the composite Saturn is conjunct someones natal chart ruler and Venus conjunction exact, what would that imply? That the person with the natal Venus will be playing out the Saturn in the composite?

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posted August 24, 2012 11:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lava Flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Would saturn aspects always be troublesome?

I personally think that Saturn can be reasoned with, unlike Neptune, Uranus and Pluto. There's a cold solid grasp to Saturn and I think that people stay together for long periods of time trying to work at the relationship.

I would also see what Saturn rules as well.

Supposedly Saturn's rewards are greater than Jupiter's luck, or so they say

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posted August 24, 2012 11:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Any of the inner planets in the 6th house. I would literally feel like the relationship was a job, or I felt like the person's "servant". Being taken for granted and whatnot.

My composite with my current BF has Sun in the 6th H. More than anything it just means that we like doing duties together - like cooking together, even cleaning. There is something really enjoyable about doing "chores" together.

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posted August 25, 2012 01:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lava Flower:
I personally think that Saturn can be reasoned with, unlike Neptune, Uranus and Pluto. There's a cold solid grasp to Saturn and I think that people stay together for long periods of time trying to work at the relationship.

I would also see what Saturn rules as well.

Supposedly Saturn's rewards are greater than Jupiter's luck, or so they say


Yes! I have heard of that. "The rewards from saturn are far greater than jupiter." I just need to see it pan out first.

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posted August 25, 2012 01:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by vertiver:
My composite with my current BF has Sun in the 6th H. More than anything it just means that we like doing duties together - like cooking together, even cleaning. There is something really enjoyable about doing "chores" together.

I wouldn't think sun in the 6th would be a bad thing in the first place. I would say it gives you guys clarity with the nitty gritty of the relationship. It may not be as romantic but it's important to have a strong practical aspect to a relationship.

Aww,, but now I wanna be doing chores with someone too...

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posted August 25, 2012 01:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lava Flower:
Brad and Angelina have a couple of personal planets in their 6th composite I think it would depend on what the couple were looking for.

I personally would avoid Neptune squares to Sun, Venus and mars (maybe moon as well) like the plaque. I experienced Venus-Neptune square, and our relationship ended up being a complete illusion even though everything else looked nice and stable.


I read somewhere that a relationship minus the marriage would only work out for those two. The moment they get together in a marriage union it's going to spell trouble. I wouldn't know the different between how they are living and marriage. I mean they seem for all intents like a married couple.

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posted August 25, 2012 01:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
All with one person: Moon square Uranus, Neptune, and Mercury. Venus square Pluto. Sun conjunct Saturn (in 7th house).

We couldn't agree on ANYTHING, there was no compromising. Everything however small or petty turned into an argument. There was lying, cheating, deception, etc... From both of us. It was my first 'real' relatinship and the first time having my heart broken, and I felt like I couldn't even function... We should have stayed away after the first time we broke up, but we kept coming back, and back, and back. For years.

Not that it was all doom and gloom I suppose. We really did love each other, there were just some hard lessons to learn. Getting to the point where we were both able to see that neither of us were completely evil or completely a victim, we were each both godd and bad, and it was really our own demons and issues we were fighting through each other... That was the only way to really let it go.

Anyway, stressful aspects to the moon in a composite would probably be the most difficult to deal with imo.


I can see that. The moon with uranus seemed the most horrid of the list.

But also without spice the dish is too bland... We all need a little friction in our relationships to have those moments of makeup sex, I'm-so-sorry poems, pouty I love you faces. lol

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posted August 25, 2012 01:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by amowls**:
Unaspected Sun. No definition to the relationship.

That makes a lot of sense.
Were you two together for long?

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posted August 25, 2012 01:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by popcorn:
My first husband with venus opp saturn DW in synastry and venus opp saturn in composite. We was young (me 15-17 and him 22-23) and lived like a couple around 75-80.. The relationship was not easy to break and Im happy he is father to my son. He is an very good person. We was not married long but so boring relationship I felt I couldnt expand and develop my life in that relationship.

How many years were you together for?
Was a mutual break and understanding that it was boring?

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posted August 25, 2012 01:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
I wouldn't think sun in the 6th would be a bad thing in the first place. I would say it gives you guys clarity with the nitty gritty of the relationship. It may not be as romantic but it's important to have a strong practical aspect to a relationship.

Aww,, but now I wanna be doing chores with someone too...


You'll get to do mutual chores with someone soon enough

The other thing I started realizing is that if I ask my BF to do something he will do it! Like cooking for me and doing my dishes along with rubbing my back. And to think I used to hold back on the demands, haha!

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posted August 25, 2012 01:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also Dreaming, I looked back on some composite charts I had with other short lived relationships I had and I noticed a pattern of either a Sun square Saturn or Moon square or Pisces ASC as the composite ASC.

Seriously, with two different guys when I had Comp Pisces ASC they used me and overall it was very Neptunian - delusion going on.

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posted August 26, 2012 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
How many years were you together for?
Was a mutual break and understanding that it was boring?

No. It was me who want break up. I leave when our son was 6 months because I met my second husband. My first husband and I was togheter around 4 year. It was hard to break up with him because all pain I caused him. He loved me and our son. 15 year after our divorcing he told me my break up with him was the worst in his life. That is feeling I felt. I hate hurt other people. I feel this relationship was hard to break because I felt I hurt on so long time. It feels better when someone leave me...

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posted August 26, 2012 01:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't do to much heavy saturn, especially to my stellium...
It has to be easier saturn aspects for me...

I prefer pluto to be my glue.. Or easy saturn aspects in the composite...

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