posted July 22, 2021 10:04 AM            

Anyway, I just started working with an older male coworker more directly last month and I just wanted to get some insight into our dynamic. We get along so so well and I really care about him, but wondering if I should be on edge or put a little more emotional distance between us or, I don't know, just express some boundaries. I feel like we're getting TOO close and I'm married so I don't want to lead him on. Specifically looking at his Psyche/Lilith/Vertex/Neptune right on my Sun, my Venus/Uranus conjunct his Moon/DSC, my Moon conjunct his Saturn, and my Mars conjunct his South Node in his 8th house. Anyway, it's probably nothing but everyone is always so helpful here so just seeking advice. Just FYI, I have been sexually harassed in the workplace before and not looking to repeat that experience. It looks like he might be a very important person in my life. The eclipse last month in Gemini was right on my progressed moon and his ASC in Gemini exact which is when we started working together.

Synastry (I'm red, he's blue)

Composite

posted October 10, 2021 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi AmberMoon, it seems to me that infatuation and an affair is possible here and you may potentially lose your mind for this person... but with Pluto square Saturn a lot of obstacles and red flags would be there, so if things went "out of control" you may risk to find yourself in a difficult situation. with mars square MC and Mars/Neptune midpoint square Jupiter I don't think you could expect his devotion, but only potential exciting moments. Besides this, there can be affection and good intellctual synergy between you two, you may be a good team at work or even friends with benefits, even so emotionally, Moon square Uranus looks very unstable.

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Sorry this took me so long to respond! Carpal tunnel is a beast!

First of all, thank you so much for giving your feedback. But I really don't see how it's possible for me to lose my mind for this man. He is much much older than me and I'm married with no intention of furthering the relationship beyond friendship/coworkers. We just have some very interesting synastry and composite aspects that I haven't seen with anyone I've connected with yet. I have noticed a pattern in my life where I form deep connections with older men in the workplace. I once worked with a doctor who I would consider a very deep soulmate and he was 35 years older than me!