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Libralike
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posted August 12, 2021 03:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libralike     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi guys

I've entered a new relationship seven months ago, which started off very seriously. I've broken off a long term relationship that wasn't going anywhere to be with him. He is really wonderful, supportive and we love each other very much. He's quit his job recently and wants to start up a new business, however he's been struggling lately with a lot of stress and it's starting to impact our intimacy. The relationship is very stable and solid, however it has changed a lot from the beginning. It appears that our "honeymoon phase" lasted only 2 and a half months, and now it feels like we've been married for ages.

His sun-merury-saturn conjunction is on my moon, which contributes to the overall stability of the relationship and explains why I'm so emotionally invested in us. The composite chart has a love stellium in the 12th house, trining jupiter. However, the moon mostly makes negative aspects - it's squaring mars and pluto, and opposing jupiter. I would really appreciate it if someone (@Todd or @Stoika or whoever would like to) could take a look at the synastry and composite charts to see if there is real longevity potential or not. Also to see if it's a good idea to be starting a business with him.

Synastry chart:

Composite chart:

Thank you so much guys!
All the best to you

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stone1
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posted August 12, 2021 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for stone1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My 2 cents
Mars/pluto sq Moon in composite could signal power struggle, one of serious ones to overcome imho, getting business with him could make things more complicated. But in your composite chart jupiter sending a trine of 7H ruler, so it might end up ok

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Libralike
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posted August 13, 2021 05:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libralike     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear @stone1, thank you very much for your reply and opinion We've both had some unpleasant experiences in the past with previous partners, so we're both still very cautious. A couple of days ago he said that he doesn't trust anyone in the world for a 100%, including me, since he's been hurt in the past. We'll see how it turns out in the end

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Libralike
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posted October 02, 2021 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libralike     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can anyone else please take a look and comment? I'd appreciate it very much, thank you guys😊

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Stoika7
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posted October 02, 2021 11:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Libralike! Sorry for having missed this post of yours...

The Composite looks very binding, the Juno/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct MC with Juno exactly sextile to the Moon, Mars/Venus midpoint is conjunct Sun, so this is a very loving and committed relationship... the Pluto/Mars square to the Moon looks a bit too much controlling, and Chiron opposite Saturn can put this burden and too much seriousness, maybe you guys need to have a more "relaxed" attitude about the relationship cause any little trouble seems to have a huge impact with hypersensitive reactions... South Node is conjunct Vertex adding a very fated element, yet it seems that there's an otherworldly connection that sometimes hinders you to fully enjoy the relationship, maybe this is why you feel like you "been married for ages"... The main concern to me is Neptune square to MC/karma and to the Juno/Jupiter midpoint... this is a very uncertain energy surrounding your long term future, as if you feel the spiritual bond and you feel you're destined to stay together, even so it's not clear where the relationship is heading to...
This moment things look a bit unstable with transiting Saturn opposte Composite Jupiter, and transiting South Node traveling through Sun/Venus midpoint... there may be core aspects in your relationship that need a review or focus in order to understand where you are heading to, a bit of confusion maybe on what is really keeping you two together or your future expectations?
It seems there's some kind of test you need to go through for some time...

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Librapurr
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posted October 03, 2021 10:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Librapurr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Stoika7, are you doing personal readings? I concern you’d disappear and won’t experience your reading.
Sorry, I don’t want to create a new topic for a quick question.

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Stoika7
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posted October 03, 2021 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Librapurr!
I'm not disappearing, I am just a bit busy lately :-) However, you can ask Randall for my email address if you want to talk privately, or just to let me know you that have posted your own topic so that I can check it out!

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Librapurr
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posted October 04, 2021 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Librapurr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stoika7, I’m glad you’re not leaving us 🥳 Thank you, I need to think if retrograde is a good time for it.

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