posted August 18, 2021 08:03 PM            

I'm looking at a situation now where my North Node is in his 1st house, his North Node is in my 8th house. An interesting inversion from my first boyfriend (see below). I can sense that he would push me in terms of intimacy matters. My guess is that in past lives, I felt restricted by the relationship while his self-worth or ability to earn an income were restricted by me.

Thinking about my former husband, my North Node was also in his 1st house and his North Node was in my 9th. I would definitely say that for me, the relationship kept me from pursuing my North Node and this was (for me) the primary cause of the end of the relationship. However, I supported (and continue to support) him as an individual. I can't say I felt his nodal axis in my 3/9 axis, but the big philsophies and meaning of life were and are definitely part of what I taught or at least tried to teach him.

My longest relationship before that was in high school, 3-4 years. My North Node in his 8th, his North Node in my 7th. I can definitely see that. I basically pressured him into losing his virginity with me, while obviously it was my first long-term relationship and a huge lesson in handling my jealousy and rage and competitiveness.