posted August 27, 2021 10:50 AM            

I see the Pluto squares in Composite.. he has a lot of Venus aspects natally, not sure if that's good or bad.. Venus trine Pluto and Saturn, as well as Venus sextile Neptune, Lilith, Asc and MC, I only have Venus square Jupiter and sextile NN..I also have Mars conjunct Pluto so not too worried about that aspect..

The stellium is nice and Eros conjunct Psyche..

I'm thinking he might be too airy for me, as I barely have any air in my chart, I'm mostly fire and water with a bit of earth..and he seems to be mostly air and fire.. maybe we won't be able to connect on an emotional level well enough?

My progressed Sun will soon be in Aqua though and my Moon and Mercury already are, so maybe that helps with all these Aqua placements in our composite?

Any thoughts are welcome...thank you!
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posted August 27, 2021 06:26 PM            

a concern is chiron conj dsc and mars sq jupiter in both fallen position but they are in the last degrees so maybe it is ok, esp. with progressed composite

posted August 28, 2021 02:44 AM            

You have a very intense personality and his relationship planets (Moon/Venus/Mars) are all in air signs…although he has a Venus trine Pluto but not quite the same intensity as your water conjunctions on the ASC. I really can’t say if he will be able to keep up with you though the age difference might help. Older guys tend to be more accommodating towards younger gals, generally speaking. Your Jupiters are in quincunx signs, your Jupiter opposite his Saturn, Mercuries square… these all show differences in values and opinions. Probably have to work on those areas.

posted August 28, 2021 08:44 AM            

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Originally posted by stone1:
it looks decent to me

a concern is chiron conj dsc and mars sq jupiter in both fallen position but they are in the last degrees so maybe it is ok, esp. with progressed composite

Out of curiosity, Why do you call "entertaining an older guy"?

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Stone, thank you for your input. I checked those 2 aspects in our progressed composite and Chiron conjunct DSC is gone, but Mars sq Jupiter remains at -6 instead of 1 in a regular composite..

Generally speaking, how can this aspect play out and why could it be worrying?

Using the word entertaining is just another way for me to say we are talking, getting to know each other..hope it didn't sound bad or misleading

posted August 28, 2021 09:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Hi Saggy7,

You have a very intense personality and his relationship planets (Moon/Venus/Mars) are all in air signs…although he has a Venus trine Pluto but not quite the same intensity as your water conjunctions on the ASC. I really can’t say if he will be able to keep up with you though the age difference might help. Older guys tend to be more accommodating towards younger gals, generally speaking. Your Jupiters are in quincunx signs, your Jupiter opposite his Saturn, Mercuries square… these all show differences in values and opinions. Probably have to work on those areas.

You have a nice love stellium in composite and the Pluto squares are showing the intensity, compulsiveness, obsession. I believe this can be an impactful relationship though as someone in a Pluto squares relationship, I’ll say it can be nasty. Can’t say for certain how it will turn out for you because it depends on how enlightened both are through your relationship journey, but surely your love for each other will be tested.

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Hi Hikaru, thank you for your input.
Yes, I noticed I do like when men have a Venus-Pluto aspect, it helps with depth and passion.

You are also right about the older man-younger woman dynamic, I notice that too, I just think someone older would be good for me (even if it's not him) and that some of the qualities I am hoping for in my future partner are more likely to be found there.

posted August 29, 2021 06:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Do we have any of the same Pluto square aspects? What are some of the aspects that keep you two together in your opinion if you don't mind sharing and are you Plutonian?

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Composite Pluto square our love stellium Sun/Mercury/Venus. He’s more plutonic (Pluto conjunct his Moon square Mars sextile ASC); I’m less so (Pluto in 5H quincunx Sun trine ASC). I seek intense feelings in relationships and can get obsessed with my partners but I’m also quite changeable and let things go more easily. He’s emotionally more repressed but more consistent in nature than I am. When he expresses his feelings, it comes out in a more intense manner.

posted August 29, 2021 10:30 AM            

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Originally posted by zionkay:
Just curious about pluto squaring your love stellium, how do you feel about him? And how does he feel about you?

I have that with someone I'm trying my best to forget. It's an all encompassing obsessive love. I'd say I've never experienced such intensity before!

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Hi zionkay, I'm sorry you are going though that. Would you mind sharing a bit more about your experience and/or other aspects you two shared?

For now, I can only say we are drawn to each other. I have strong Pluto natally so usually it is easy for me to get obsessive when I really like someone...which I'm not there just yet with him, but I do like our energy so far

posted August 29, 2021 11:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Composite Pluto square our love stellium Sun/Mercury/Venus. He’s more plutonic (Pluto conjunct his Moon square Mars sextile ASC); I’m less so (Pluto in 5H quincunx Sun trine ASC). I seek intense feelings in relationships and can get obsessed with my partners but I’m also quite changeable and let things go more easily. He’s emotionally more repressed but more consistent in nature than I am. When he expresses his feelings, it comes out in a more intense manner.

I think the love stellium helps a lot and with our cMoon trining it and cJupiter aspects to Venus and Moon. There’s a lot of affection, tenderness and forgiveness between us. In addition, our Synastry shows basic affinity (angles conjunct and a lot of our inner planets are in trine/sextile).

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Thanks for sharing. So the same thing like in our composite, Pluto squares the Sun/Mercury/Venus love stellium. Same like you, we also have Jupiter aspecting Moon and Venus, though it is quincunx Moon :S, and conjunct Venus without Moon trining the stellium.

I know every situation is different, just trying to make some sense of it all if any sense is to be made. Lol