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posted September 01, 2021 06:37 PM            

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Hi my dear, long time since I have message you but something happened and I would like you to help me understand this relationship. I apologise for my ignorance, I do not know how to attach the chart here so if you could be kind enough to look up for me I will be most grateful as always. I have met this boy end of last year and we had a short romance although the chart was promising and looking very much like a committed relationship, in fact it is the best chart I ever had with anyone I've met. We had a massive argument and since January we have not spoken anymore. Last Saturday he message me asking about me, he was in my city as we live in different parts of the country. I found that very odd, he asked if I wanted to meet up. I've replied to his message after 2 days as I still angry with him, and he was a bit sarcastic on his replies. I know he did that because I did not answer him straight away. I said I did not want to meet him because I have my pride. Could you please my dear friend help me once again? Would you be kind enough to analyse our composite chart and tell me what you think about this relationship, can you see any future? I also would like you to analyse his own personal birth chart if it is not asking too much and tell me if he has any issues compromising to relationships. If you could once again help me my dear friend, I will more than grateful as always. I am so confused. Our dates: mine is 25/03/1988 Penapolis Sao Paulo Brazil 11:20 am, him: 10/10/1991 London Hammersmith 07:40 am. Thank you so much in advance, God bless your heart.

Clementine.

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posted September 01, 2021 08:21 PM            

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Hi dear Clementine, hope you're all well.

This relationship is a bit complicated. It is super otherworldly cause the Composite nodes are conjunct to the ASC/DSC axis and square to the IC/MC, so this looks fated and there is a mind connection between you two. But this mind connection is on other planes than the earthly ones, because it's hard to communicate with words with Mercury/Uranus opposite Jupiter, and Chiron is opposite Saturn and square to Psyche, so your communication often contains criticism against each other and it's difficult to it's very difficult to understand where the other comes from... Venus is opposite Neptune and this means that there are cultural differences that may cause such misunderstandings, but it also points more to a friends with benefits situation than a committed one. Uranus opposite Jupiter also shows that this is a very unstable situation and it doenst look like a committed relationship. Neptune is conjunct to Sun so there's a soul contact and a strong idealization with romantic expectations, but the other aspects I have mentioned suggest that these expectations are not realistic, there are core differences between the two... Juno/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct Lilith and this can give loving feelings and infatuation, but in the big picture it doesn't look enough for a stable union... There is a Kite involving Sun-Neptune/Juno/Lilith/Venus-Chiron showing the strong romantic vibe around the relationship and a potential intense intimacy, this may help your communication by trying to listen more to the other's reasons and trying to look more at your own wrong attitude rather than the other's wrong attitude. But the main thing is that this relationship doesn't look to ever become stable, maybe you're going to keep a connection, but not on committment basis.
Natally he has North Node/Neptune square Sun/Mercury conjunct ASC, he looks like an intellectual person with analytical mind but he may have difficulty in self-assertivenss and in expressing himself openly, he's likely a lonely person, but with an intense emotional world cause he has Moon conjunct Pluto... He doesn't have much stability in his life, maybe he's restless and always looking for a new direction... He has a strong spiritual or creative side, maybe he's a poet or a writer? But he has two faces and he doesn't show his true one. not in a bad way, just he keeps his emotional side deep inside himself and with Chiron in Leo/10th house he always keeps himself under control, he lacks of self worth.

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posted September 01, 2021 08:24 PM            

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...looking at transits to your composite, I think this is a favourable time for reconciliation, but likely temporary.

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posted September 02, 2021 05:37 AM            

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Thank you so much dear Stoika, it's very accurate! I am not sure if I will contact him again as I am looking for stability and he clearly cannot provide that.

God bless you, much love to you.

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