posted September 07, 2021 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by ItsKikigirl:
So every time I do research on the meaning of this aspect it sounds like ultimate doom. Mainly because most definitions say that the NN Person will eventually out grow the relationship. However it’s always said that the entirety of the chart as well as natal and composite are important to know that for sure. Also I’ve read that a good composite with a bad synastry is slightly more important than a good synastry with a bad composite since it describes more of like the story of the relationship. Do you feel this aspect is a good indicator of a doomed relationship? What about natal NN in negative aspect to composite venus or composite NN negatively aspecting composite venus?

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My Venus is square to my best male friend's nodes. We are very comfortable with each other and there is a lot of tenderness and affection between us. We are both married though and we have said that "in another life" things would be different. It almost feels like previous lifetimes the connection was more romantic and this life we are meant to explore more of a friendship kind of love. He will honestly be one of my best friends until we're old and gray.

I also have composite Venus square Nodes with an older male coworker that I've been working with for about a year now. We are extremely close and again there is a lot of tenderness and care, but there's obstacles in the way such as his age and my marital status. Again, I foresee him being a lifelong friend.

posted September 07, 2021 08:25 PM            

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Originally posted by AmberMoon:
My Venus is square to my best male friend's nodes. We are very comfortable with each other and there is a lot of tenderness and affection between us. We are both married though and we have said that "in another life" things would be different. It almost feels like previous lifetimes the connection was more roman tic and this life we are meant to explore more of a friendship kind of love. He will honestly be one of my best friends until we're old and gray.

I also have composite Venus square Nodes with an older male coworker that I've been working with for about a year now. We are extremely close and again there is a lot of tenderness and care, but there's obstacles in the way such as his age and my marital status. Again, I foresee him being a lifelong friend.

I would say if you're looking for a long lasting romantic relationship - I wouldn't hold your breath. But if you're okay with a close bond with too many obstacles for romance and with a faint taste of bittersweet, then it really can be beautiful.

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posted September 07, 2021 08:29 PM            

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Originally posted by AmberMoon:
I would say if you're looking for a long lasting romantic relationship - I wouldn't hold your breath. But if you're okay with a close bond with too many obstacles for romance and with a faint taste of bittersweet, then it really can be beautiful.

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Oh also my NN sextile s his venus so I guess it’s not holding me back as much as it would him. And I thought in what ways? Well for one he lives in London and I live in the United States. Secondly he is trying to make a career as an artist so maybe that’s a huge goal to focus on. But I’ve had this aspect with an ex once and I do see how it can play out however they always say not one aspect can determine what will happen to a relationship but this aspect seems doom regardless??

posted September 07, 2021 11:18 PM            

Im madly in love and it's been going on for years. It's so painful but im addicted to the feeling. It will never happen unfortunately because of obstacles like her marital status and the huge age difference. Almsot the same as what the other poster had said. It sucks because ive never fallen in love before but after feeling this way for her, i dont know if i'll ever feel this strongly for anyone ever again.

Maybe this aspect really is doom and gloom? Im curious if there are happy endings with this one.

posted September 07, 2021 11:34 PM            

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Originally posted by zionkay:
I and the person im obsessively in love with have the venus square north node (double whammy) in synastry. And since it's dw, it also shows up in our composite as venus square north node.

Im madly in love and it's been going on for years. It's so painful but im addicted to the feeling. It will never happen unfortunately because of obstacles like her marital status and the huge age difference. Almsot the same as what the other poster had said. It sucks because ive never fallen in love before but after feeling this way for her, i dont know if i'll ever feel this strongly for anyone ever again.

Maybe this aspect really is doom and gloom? Im curious if there are happy endings with this one.

i dont know what she feels though. We have venus-pluto dw, sun-moon, and venus square saturn in synastry as well.

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Oh wowzers! I wonder if also that Pluto/Venus aspect might have something to do with it also. Any Mars aspects? And Same here! Like other aspects aside I’m curious if anyone has a successful long term relationship with this aspect.

posted September 08, 2021 06:12 AM            

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Originally posted by zionkay:
I and the person im obsessively in love with have the venus square north node (double whammy) in synastry. And since it's dw, it also shows up in our composite as venus square north node.

Im madly in love and it's been going on for years. It's so painful but im addicted to the feeling. It will never happen unfortunately because of obstacles like her marital status and the huge age difference. Almsot the same as what the other poster had said. It sucks because ive never fallen in love before but after feeling this way for her, i dont know if i'll ever feel this strongly for anyone ever again.

Maybe this aspect really is doom and gloom? Im curious if there are happy endings with this one.

i dont know what she feels though. We have venus-pluto dw, sun-moon, and venus square saturn in synastry as well.

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You just totally described me. I just checked, and voila, me and the person I'm obsessed with have Venus square NN. </3

posted September 08, 2021 09:54 AM            

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Originally posted by drownme:
You just totally described me. I just checked, and voila, me and the person I'm obsessed with have Venus square NN. </3

I hope you have a happy ending..it's not impossible! Either way, I'm sure we'll get through it one day

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posted September 08, 2021 10:29 AM            

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Originally posted by zionkay:
I and the person im obsessively in love with have the venus square north node (double whammy) in synastry. And since it's dw, it also shows up in our composite as venus square north node.

Im madly in love and it's been going on for years. It's so painful but im addicted to the feeling. It will never happen unfortunately because of obstacles like her marital status and the huge age difference. Almsot the same as what the other poster had said. It sucks because ive never fallen in love before but after feeling this way for her, i dont know if i'll ever feel this strongly for anyone ever again.

Maybe this aspect really is doom and gloom? Im curious if there are happy endings with this one.

i dont know what she feels though. We have venus-pluto dw, sun-moon, and venus square saturn in synastry as well.

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posted September 08, 2021 10:30 AM            

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Originally posted by drownme:
You just totally described me. I just checked, and voila, me and the person I'm obsessed with have Venus square NN. </3

I hope you have a happy ending..it's not impossible! Either way, I'm sure we'll get through it one day

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posted September 08, 2021 12:45 PM            

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Originally posted by ItsKikigirl:
Oh wowzers! I wonder if also that Pluto/Venus aspect might have something to do with it also. Any Mars aspects? And Same here! Like other aspects aside I’m curious if anyone has a successful long term relationship with this aspect.

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yeah i think the venus-pluto dw gave the obsessive/limerent element to it. We have a moon conjunct mars aspect and a mars conjunct mars aspect as well (although the orb is a bit wide).

i think venus in hard aspect to NN or SN is the star crossed lovers/in another life we'd be together aspect... but then again i dont know how she feels for me to say we're soulmates lol.

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Originally posted by ItsKikigirl:
I’m curious. Do you have any other planets contacting either of your NN/SN?

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Mars trine NN, uranus semisquare NN, and neptune square north node as well. Then in the composite we have the pluto conjunct north node then square venus

posted December 15, 2023 05:32 AM            

He was interested right away but I wasn’t aware of it and started dating someone else. Through a coincidence we started writing again, he told me he was into me the whole time and I realized i had feelings too. We’re in a committed relationship now.. but I don’t know if it’s meant to be longterm although I hope it will last. Everything between us feels spiritual ever since we committed. (Comp Sun in 12th house conj compAsc.) The sex is honestly the best I’ve ever had. When we’re in bed, it doesn’t stop.. but there’s also some minor frustration bc it’s like .. it never feels enough, I want to melt with him. This desire is so strong that we sometimes get a bit violent with each other. We started doing some bdsm , bc it’s the only way to feel and express the intensity that’s inside of us. I’ve never done bdsm before, he’s my first in many ways. Things I wouldn’t have done with anyone else, I’m doing with him now.

When it comes to longterm goals… I often feel like he’s desiring a more unconventional life than I do. That’s why I’m hesitant sometimes. My 7th house NN is in Taurus.
Although I’m not unfamiliar with unconventional types of relationships, I feel like my long term goal involves more stability and commitment. Right now he’s giving me that, but I’m not sure if it will last. His NN is in 1st house Cancer.
My sun is trine his NN and we have Asc conj Vertex DW. I think the vertex connection is one of the main reasons why this had to become physical and why started seeing each other again after a year had passed.