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posted September 28, 2021 09:38 AM            

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I can't figure out why, but every time in the past 15 years that I've met a guy who's Sun lies in my ascendant, they end up liking me much more than I like them. In fact- I tend to not like them at all and just want them to go away.

Could this have anything to do with the fact that Leo is my 12th house? I just can't understand why I dislike this energy so much or why they even like me.

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posted September 28, 2021 03:18 PM            

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What aspects does your ascendant make to your chart? If they are negative, their sun might remind you of all of your own (ascendant is the self) negative qualities?

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posted September 29, 2021 03:00 PM            

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My natal ascendant aspects are generally positive. In fact my own sun is sextile to my ascendant by a 2 degree orb.

My ascendant is sextile my merc, venus & Sun and also conjunct my Pluto.

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posted September 29, 2021 03:45 PM            

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Maybe it’s just too close to home. I hope someone more experienced can come in and help out.

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posted September 29, 2021 06:44 PM            

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manderin is it only the Sun? Can you tell me more about their Sun and what they're aspected to? Is it usually harsh?

My ASC is highly aspected from several planets just like yours: Pluto and Jupiter trines, Neptune opposite, Sun square, and Mars widely oppose.

Typically, anyone's Sun, Mars or Venus who hits my ASC receive all these planetary energy - it pulls them in hard, my guess. They come on too strong when they're interested.

There was someone I met who's 6 different planets (both inner and outer) aspected my Mercury/MC - I couldn't stop thinking of them and we don't have any hot aspect combinations like Venus/Pluto, Venus/Mars, Sun/Venus etc. Nothing special so I can only come to this conclusion. He got my attention without trying. But if I have this birthtime, it might make more sense.

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posted October 10, 2021 01:20 PM            

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posted October 10, 2021 03:01 PM            

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Hi mandarin, so do I understand correctly that your Pluto is conjunct your Ascendant? Or is it sextile your Ascendant and conjunct your Sun?

The Sun is very powerful and if it’s conjunct your Ascendant and Pluto it might feel like a power struggle. I have Pluto conjunct my Ascendant in Libra and have had people attracted to me with Libra Mars and Libra Venus. With Mars there is physical attraction but I also get very defensive. To me it feels like the Mars is trying to overpower me. It’s a very dominant energy and it feels uncomfortable. I don’t have any experience with Libra Sun but maybe it comes close to Mars energy as the Sun is also very dominant energy.

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