posted October 08, 2021 02:13 PM            

Hello.

I would really appreciate a comment on this synastry. I'm the cancer sun person (women) and his birth time is not exact since I don't know it, so houses are off for him.
However I met this person suddenly and I felt such strong familiar feeling we are now business partners. We are both in a relationship but after few weeks of collaboration I started to feel this insane attraction to him. I think it's mutual, but being buisness partners and in relationships none of us went past the flirting. But now it's getting really intense for me as I feel more and more attracted to him, not just physically, but it's an overall attraction, emotional, spiritual... Oh man!
Will this pass?

posted October 08, 2021 02:49 PM            

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Originally posted by mercurialaries:
The link works! I can see why there's such a strong attraction with the double whammy mars pluto aspects (trine and conjunction), which can indicate lots of chemistry. Also, your venus-mars trine, along with your venus-saturn-uranus opposition form a kite pattern (grand trine with opposition) with his cancer/gemini stellium, libra pluto, and Capricorn neptune. Whenever there is this type of pattern completion within a synastry that includes inner planets that usually suggests an attraction (or a significant relationship). And for you this attraction is heightened since your venus and mars are your 1st, 7th, & 8th lords. You also have a pluto venus aspect within this kite, which is another aspect that indicate that magnetic pull!

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Thank you so much for your input. However I'm the cancer sun, so the outside circle and he is the taurus sun, but since I don't know his exact time of birth I don't know his ascendant. However I suspect he could be a taurus ascendant or pisces, he is acting very much like a gentleman with me, like really attentive and very available and he helped me so much with my business.
And since we are going to constantly see each other for work I'm wondering where will this go, cuz it was fun at the beginning, but now I'm starting to stress out, since it doesn't seem my feelings will go away anytime soon. I thought it was just a crush, but it's been almost 1 year now.
Plus his progressed sun just went from gemini to 0 deg cancer (where my natal sun and his natal venus are).
The day we met tr venus was exact conjunct my pluto in 8th house and my progressed moon was exactly conjunct my DC.
Oh good lord, I do love my current partner, we've been together for 10years I'm scared that something might happen with this new person that I might regret.

posted October 08, 2021 03:38 PM            

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Originally posted by mercurialaries:
Oh! Gotcha! In that case, your 1st, 5th, 7th, &8th lord are all being affected by this person. Your cancer/gemini stellium is opposite his saturn uranus, which is the apex of this kite formation your synastry makes. All your angular rulers are highly aspected by him, so the attraction makes sense. And your ascendant lord saturn is conjunct his pluto, which emphasizes that hard to resist pull! Also, your IC, the root, one of the most deepest and intimate parts of your chart is exactly conjunct his sun. So his sun illuminates this part of you. This may explain why you had this instantaneous strong familiar feeling with him, and it also explains the deeper emotional connection you feel for him. And, all those transits you mentioned sound pretty significant! Sorry to hear that this connection is happening under unfavorable circumstances . I hope things get better (whatever that may mean for you)!

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Thank you very much for your time and interpretation. I hope this will resolve well. I wonder how it feels for him...
Is the kite significant in synastry as it is in natal charts?