posted November 06, 2021 05:36 PM            

I have fallen into a seriously intense love affair.
Background:
I went food shopping with a friend to someone new, a guy walked passed me, caught eachothers eye - my immediate thought * he looked at me as if he knows me, he definitely recognised me and it was an instant recognition*
We didn’t speak but there was a connection.

2 weeks later, I get a friend request from him on Facebook, instantly know it is him, ask my friend if she remembers he was in the supermarket.
I wait a while before deciding to accept his friend request to ask him if I saw him in the shop. He says it’s not very often someone attractive is in that shop lol.

We go shopping together a few days after we start chatting. I find out he is a widow and has 4 daughters he’s raised by himself the past 6 years since his wife died. One if his and he has honourably raised the older 3 girls (what a lovely guy but how sad)
No immediate attraction on my side but a strange sense of familiarity and intrigue to get to know him.

2nd date - very deep conversations I end up telling him all my darkest stuff about my past and childhood about my mother’s death and he tells me about coping through his wife’s cancer. Very close connection but coming from a friendly place on my part still.

3rd date - more deep emotionally bonded discussions, still just friendly, kiss on the cheek goodbye.
I come home realising this feeling of knowing eachother is much more than a feeling of familiarity, it’s been almost 2 months at this point since I first saw him in the shop.
I suddenly picture him in my mind as a young boy, I ask him about where he lived as a child, we had already spoke about schools, established we have no friends in common and we don’t live in the same town.

I know the answer before he has replied, somehow I had remembered him and when I said where did he live when he was a boy we lived on the very same street, a few doors away from eachother for 10 years.
The house I lived with my mother in and the whole thing was terribly upsetting for me.

I wondered if he did know who I was all along, but he insisted he doesn’t remember me, we must have played together as children but don’t remember one another.
I see his parents and sister and recognise them all.
I was freaked out about this and thought about stopping contact with him, but he was so sweet about it and we carried on dating.

5th date we had our first kiss. Most intensely passionate kiss of my life.. I’ve been pretty much obsessed with him since then which is definitely a mutual feeling.

7th date we made love. It was amazing, sorry for all the details but this deep connection has blown me away and feels very fated and karmic.
The intensity of our bond has settled somewhat now that we’ve been intimate, it’s been a long time for both of us since we’ve had sex and it got extremely hot and steamy wow. !

Not quite sure where to go from here but I can imagine I’m feeling the moon conjunct Pluto, Mars trine moon primal/emotional lust playing out..

For an actual relationship between us - he has 4 teenage girls at home under 16, I have two girls under 5!
We’ve agreed to keep things between us to once or twice a week when our girls are at school, I don’t know what the future holds, I’m hoping you guys might have some more answers!
Seriously longing this man in a weird way. How strange the sexual chemistry has took me by surprise, he’s not my usual type and I didn’t even think I fancied him for ages until that first kiss wow. Hoping this isn’t just some neptunian/plutonic love affair.

He is seriously the nicest guy and been nothing but consistent with me. Breaks my heart though he lost his wife and not sure how much I mean to him but I guess I’m trying to guard my heart from getting too invested to a man who will always love someone else.

I notice we have Vertex conjunct AC double whammy in synastry, and Vertex conjunct DC in the composite.
Lots of Chiron going on, seems a rather fated encounter at least.!
Soulmate pairings - saturn conjunct Rhea , Chiron conjunct Chariklo, Zeus conjunct Hera, Jupiter/Juno.

This guy blows my mind but the composite is rather a mystery to me. Please help me out here guys!!

Synastry
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posted November 06, 2021 05:52 PM            

My natal with transits on the day we met.
(Saturn transiting my 7th - hope that’s a good sign!)
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His natal with transit on day we met
(Transit Juno conjunct Natal saturn - Transit saturn conjunct natal Juno?)

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My natal with progressions on day of meet
[img]https://i.ibb.co/MB0SXD9/4-DC10-B4-E-7364-42-D0-81-AB-ED95-EC0-C411-A.png[/img]

His natal and progressions

posted November 06, 2021 06:04 PM            

His natal moon 15 deg Scorpio
conjunct composite Juno 15 deg Scorpio (exact)

His natal Jupiter 28 deg Pisces
Composite Venus 27 deg Pisces

His north node 12 deg Aries
Composite Sun 13 deg Aries

My Natal moon 7 deg Libra
composite Vertex 7 deg Libra (7th house)

my natal Mercury 6 deg Gemini
composite Mars 5 deg Gemini

posted November 07, 2021 02:27 PM            

Astrology is a useful tool, but can only tell us so much, because we also have freewill. It is the past use of freewill, which is what created our present charts to begin with.

posted November 08, 2021 10:42 AM            

Trying hard not to fall too hard but where we built up a real emotional bond and friendship before getting romantic has made it feel even more special and my soul is yearning to merge.
It’s a very different feeling, more of a emotional bonding which has turned into a very romantic relationship!!

posted November 23, 2021 12:49 AM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Dear abrightfutureahead,

98% (9.8/10) overall synastry potential (super strong). Composite power is off the charts. Congratulations, go for it!

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