posted November 08, 2021 02:03 PM            

we were about t move together into the house that their parents bought him
the house was almost ready since august
we bought some furnitures and decorated some rooms
but we have serious problems
like we had many fights(about silly stuff) since the beggining of august till now. he almost broke up with me 2 times but we didnt break up in the end. we had sex very few times the last months and our jobs dont help our relationship since i work in the morning he works in the evening.so i only see him on weekends.
also im a little stressed about this house
i m not sure if i want to leave my parents but i fantasize about living wit him happily.
we are in the same page ..i mean that it seems that we agree that we are not good as we are now so either we change or break up,
since yesterday we dont talk in order to see
if we ll miss each other.

i wish if you could tell me if things could be better when saturn move away from our 7th house (next year) and uranus move away from mc??
is this impermanent??

THANK YOU IN ADVANCE <3
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posted November 10, 2021 02:12 AM            

Yes I remember the issue around his new house and his parents, and you feeling like you had no say about it all and the place you were supposed to move to...

posted November 10, 2021 03:59 PM            

The main issue in your Composite is Saturn/Vertex in the 7th house square to Pluto and opposite Chiron... This is a tough configuration since it shows a core conflict in your personalities, a clash between wills and likely core differences between you two and it makes it hard to compromise, even, as you said, for silly little things, but which are the signs of deeper differences... Actually there is love and there is a bond and long term expectations, but these differences make your relationship complicated...
Transiting Neptune retrograde is currently conjunct to Comp. Lilith and square to the Composite nodes... Lilith square to the Nodes is a pretty "magic" and deeply loving aspect giving soulmate feelings, same as Vertex conjunct Saturn, but Neptune here is creating big confusion and making you both question the future of your relationship.
Meanwhile, transiting Saturn is square the axis/Moon while tr. Jupiter is in great conjunction with Composite Saturn, but square to Pluto and opposite Chiron... this triggers this conflict between each your expectations and efforts to build this future, and the discovery of such deep differences between you two, so there is a growing awareness that you have this issues.
Unfortunately Jupiter square Pluto is often a break up transit, and it is reinforced by Composite Saturn involved in the transit.
Morever, transiting Mercury and Mars have just past composite IC and are square to Sun, whilst Uranus is square DSC, so I am afraid that this is a break up transit picture...

If you manage to keep going, transiting Saturn is heading to DSC and then to a square to Pluto, with Vertex involved, in a few months, and the nodal transit will be square to Saturn in spring 2022, and this would furtherly trigger conflicts and likely make it difficult to live together in harmony...

I wish I could say something more positive, but with these transits I am afraid that it is very difficult to resolve the conflicts given by the Saturn/Pluto/Chiron t-square at this moment. I see that there is an higher awareness involved, so maybe if you make it together to work on your own issues and the way you relate to each other by getting an higher self-awareness and putting the love bond as an higher purpose (Neptune/Lilith/Nodes), maybe it may work out, but I can't hold back that this looks like a tough task in your relationship.

posted November 11, 2021 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi darling, sorry for the delay!

The main issue in your Composite is Saturn/Vertex in the 7th house square to Pluto and opposite Chiron... This is a tough configuration since it shows a core conflict in your personalities, a clash between wills and likely core differences between you two and it makes it hard to compromise, even, as you said, for silly little things, but which are the signs of deeper differences... Actually there is love and there is a bond and long term expectations, but these differences make your relationship complicated...
Transiting Neptune retrograde is currently conjunct to Comp. Lilith and square to the Composite nodes... Lilith square to the Nodes is a pretty "magic" and deeply loving aspect giving soulmate feelings, same as Vertex conjunct Saturn, but Neptune here is creating big confusion and making you both question the future of your relationship.
Meanwhile, transiting Saturn is square the axis/Moon while tr. Jupiter is in great conjunction with Composite Saturn, but square to Pluto and opposite Chiron... this triggers this conflict between each your expectations and efforts to build this future, and the discovery of such deep differences between you two, so there is a growing awareness that you have this issues.
Unfortunately Jupiter square Pluto is often a break up transit, and it is reinforced by Composite Saturn involved in the transit.
Morever, transiting Mercury and Mars have just past composite IC and are square to Sun, whilst Uranus is square DSC, so I am afraid that this is a break up transit picture...

If you manage to keep going, transiting Saturn is heading to DSC and then to a square to Pluto, with Vertex involved, in a few months, and the nodal transit will be square to Saturn in spring 2022, and this would furtherly trigger conflicts and likely make it difficult to live together in harmony...

I wish I could say something more positive, but with these transits I am afraid that it is very difficult to resolve the conflicts given by the Saturn/Pluto/Chiron t-square at this moment. I see that there is an higher awareness involved, so maybe if you make it together to work on your own issues and the way you relate to each other by getting an higher self-awareness and putting the love bond as an higher purpose (Neptune/Lilith/Nodes), maybe it may work out, but I can't hold back that this looks like a tough task in your relationship.

I'd be more prone to think that you're likely going to break up in a near future... I am so sorry, and I hope to be wrong, so please keep me updated ❤️

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thank you so much for ur response Stoika and ur time <3

thats true we are different in many stuff
but same at the same time.difficult to describe.
does this aspect show where are we different??like our routine?? our views of life??

thats true also
he was the first that saw these big issuses in our relationship and i was blind .i kept telling that we are perfect for each other we just have to try harder.
but now after all that fights and crying and give all my energy im so tired.i thought that i could keep doing that fight and be back tofetheer OVER AND OVER AGAIN.but thats cant happen. we are both tired and we feel separated from each other after all these stuff.

i missed talking to him and i called him today
i saw him for an hour and we werecalmer and more loving than other times.
im not sure if this will last but we r together for now.
i might moveto his new house fromthe next week(feel sooo stressed)

im so dissapointed for how things changed
thats break my heart.
some months ago i couldnt imagine my life without him but now it might happen and i have accept it. things feel so unpredictable and cant rely to anything and anyone itsthe worse.

dont feel sorry at all for telling me what u see...really..<3

can i ask u if only transits cause that situation or is our relationship that hard?also could our 7thcomposite saturn help that saturn transit?? since we have alsready saturn there is it a little easier for us???

we were at our best this time of the year but one year before ,novembre 2020
dont know that transits we had but we were great.