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posted November 22, 2021 06:59 PM            

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I think you will get more replies if you post the charts yourself/. Maybe use Imgur.com? And get the links, and just remember to remove the 's" in https and it will post the actual image.

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Listen gurl, you really need to put your boundaries up with this trash guy. And definitely let your parents know he's not at all welcome in their home or anywhere else.
I know a guy who is born a day after your ex.
A know-it-all passive-aggressive low-effort ***** .

Stop trying to convince yourself this relationship did anything good to you. And don't fall for the TF crap. The TF definition is that of a karmic if you think about it!
So woman up and take your power back. Don't allow him to come and go as he pleases.
Hell naw!
We don't do that over here.

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posted December 06, 2021 12:48 PM            

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IMO you feel strongly about him because your ascendants are in opposition-a common relationship aspect. Also sun conjunct the ascendant.

The negatives are mars square mars, and saturn square mars - those are some of the worst aspects to have in synastry. Explosive arguments, potential for violence, etc.

When I look at this synastry, I don’t think “What a beautiful relationship! Sadly ruined by one person’s mental health issues.” I think “thank god they’re not together any more.”

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posted December 11, 2021 10:47 PM            

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Sometimes the other isn't really there but is only 'there' to confront us with our own issues. Not to say it isn't personal as it sure feels personal in the relationship, but some relationships are there to grow from and aren't meant to last. He has issues, pluto opp. venus, moon conj. mars, moon opp. saturn and he gets to be confronted with those aspects of himself through your relationship as your synastry aspects reflect those issues back to him. Until he is able to resolve his own issues internally (which he fully has the capacity to do), there will always be a love/hate push/pull relationship with you.

His aspects seem to relate to a childhood where he may have had some emotional abuse, either neglect (moon opp. saturn) and/or emotional manipulation (pluto opp. venus) and it's tinged the way he relates to relationships in general. Also, with 4 planets in retrograde, it tends to give him a more introspective personality which alongside his sensitivity could be in direct contrast to what he feels is culturally acceptable, ie. more extroverted preferred. If I were to try to view his actions from his side, he knows he has issues, he knows it's going to take time and he knows the any type of relationship isn't going to last or go anywhere until he does. But he's kind of hoping you'll wait for him while he tries to do it. Having said all that, I wouldn't wait for him. You don't owe him anything and especially when there's no guarantee that he'll change.

As to why you're finding it so hard to let go, probably has a lot to do with your scorpio stellium. You probably really enjoyed the intensity and sensitivity of the relationship. Having mercury retrograde can give your mind a certain of kind repetitious replaying of events in order to fully comprehend them, along with it being in scorpio, you like to get to the bottom of things, especially the motivations of things. But because you have so many planets in scorpio, it kind of acts like a feedback loop, you get obsessed with mercury retrograde which would be fine in itself if you had more planets to detach it with, but your thoughts can easily trigger your emotions which then re-triggers your thoughts and then you're lost. If you find yourself getting swept away, do something that your libra moon trine aquarius saturn likes to rebalance your emotions and then try again. The more you do it, the easier it'll get.

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