posted November 19, 2021 08:20 AM            

Is this considered a significant thing?

posted November 19, 2021 05:50 PM            

A week later he found me on Facebook, bizarre as we only had one friend in common. Perhaps he heard my friend call my first name out.
Dating 2 months before I realised this sense of already knowing him I find out we were neighbours living doors away from eachother as children for 10 years since birth, we must have been like passing ships in the night!

Doesn’t feel like a Plutonian or Neptune affair, it was very slow to take off we really got to know eachother before our first passionate kiss after 4 dates and months talking ignited a real urge and longing for him.
I care about him so much already he’s a special person in my soul, even if things don’t work out I really genuinely respect him and admire him.

The level of emotional intimacy we share makes our passionate physical relationship so much more meaningful. He draws out my deepest darkest thoughts and secrets and I feel they are safe with him, like I told him things I don’t speak about with anyone and already feel healed by him allowing me to just be, it’s like he gets me and sees me in a way others haven’t got close to, even after being with a partner years.

posted November 19, 2021 06:46 PM            

Well you know it better in your heart, I'm not a pro anyways...

But yes, this exact North Node and Sun conjunction is impressive. With Angel on Dsc, even without Asc-Vertex you would pass the IQ soulmate filter (he did not include Vertex in it).

What is a bit worrisome is Lilith on South Node. It's karmic but can be dark. Amy Winehouse had it with her boyfriend if I am not mistaken.

Also Moon-Pluto, oh boy... I can imagine. It's super strong.

It can be challenging that the red Venus-Mercury only get a quincunx and red Sun a quincunx and a sextile, and in both cases only to social and outer planets. Quincunx relationships are peculiar, you can read about them. Who is the red one?

posted November 19, 2021 06:59 PM            

It’s funny how my attraction for him developed from an emotional attachment it feels very different with him.

Let me add some more context by copying my older thread about him to explain a bit more :

I have fallen into a seriously intense love affair.
Background:
I went food shopping with a friend to someone new, a guy walked passed me, caught eachothers eye - my immediate thought * he looked at me as if he knows me, he definitely recognised me and it was an instant recognition*
We didn’t speak but there was a connection.

2 weeks later, I get a friend request from him on Facebook, instantly know it is him, ask my friend if she remembers he was in the supermarket.
I wait a while before deciding to accept his friend request to ask him if I saw him in the shop. He says it’s not very often someone attractive is in that shop lol.

We go shopping together a few days after we start chatting. I find out he is a widow and has 4 daughters he’s raised by himself the past 6 years since his wife died. One if his and he has honourably raised the older 3 girls (what a lovely guy but how sad)
No immediate attraction on my side but a strange sense of familiarity and intrigue to get to know him.

2nd date - very deep conversations I end up telling him all my darkest stuff about my past and childhood about my mother’s death and he tells me about coping through his wife’s cancer. Very close connection but coming from a friendly place on my part still.

3rd date - more deep emotionally bonded discussions, still just friendly, kiss on the cheek goodbye.
I come home realising this feeling of knowing eachother is much more than a feeling of familiarity, it’s been almost 2 months at this point since I first saw him in the shop.
I suddenly picture him in my mind as a young boy, I ask him about where he lived as a child, we had already spoke about schools, established we have no friends in common and we don’t live in the same town.

I know the answer before he has replied, somehow I had remembered him and when I said where did he live when he was a boy we lived on the very same street, a few doors away from eachother for 10 years.
The house I lived with my mother in and the whole thing was terribly upsetting for me.

I wondered if he did know who I was all along, but he insisted he doesn’t remember me, we must have played together as children but don’t remember one another.
I see his parents and sister and recognise them all.
I was freaked out about this and thought about stopping contact with him, but he was so sweet about it and we carried on dating.

5th date we had our first kiss. Most intensely passionate kiss of my life.. I’ve been pretty much obsessed with him since then which is definitely a mutual feeling.

7th date we made love. It was amazing, sorry for all the details but this deep connection has blown me away and feels very fated and karmic.
The intensity of our bond has settled somewhat now that we’ve been intimate, it’s been a long time for both of us since we’ve had sex and it got extremely hot and steamy wow. !

Not quite sure where to go from here but I can imagine I’m feeling the moon conjunct Pluto, Mars trine moon primal/emotional lust playing out..

For an actual relationship between us - he has 4 teenage girls at home under 16, I have two girls under 5!
We’ve agreed to keep things between us to once or twice a week when our girls are at school, I don’t know what the future holds, I’m hoping you guys might have some more answers!
Seriously longing this man in a weird way. How strange the sexual chemistry has took me by surprise, he’s not my usual type and I didn’t even think I fancied him for ages until that first kiss wow. Hoping this isn’t just some neptunian/plutonic love affair.

He is seriously the nicest guy and been nothing but consistent with me. Breaks my heart though he lost his wife and not sure how much I mean to him but I guess I’m trying to guard my heart from getting too invested to a man who will always love someone else.

I notice we have Vertex conjunct AC double whammy in synastry, and Vertex conjunct DC in the composite.
Lots of Chiron going on, seems a rather fated encounter at least.!
Soulmate pairings - saturn conjunct Rhea , Chiron conjunct Chariklo, Zeus conjunct Hera, Jupiter/Juno.

posted November 19, 2021 07:23 PM            

What came first to my eyes is that in a composite there's a lot of Neptune & 12th house, which could be a spiritual connection, but also a lot of serving each other, sacrifices or deception/ illusion. Venus on North Node is pretty good. Although in 12th house, it might be not bad since Venus exalts in Pisces. Moon in 7th house is good.

As for Draco, definitely there's a strong emotional connection with the Moons, plus IC and Pluto again. Your past might be expressed by oppositions. It's interesting that your Draco connections are pretty feminine: Moons in conjunction, Venuses in opposition. Maybe you were sisters. And Sun-Neptune opposition could be about spiritual mentorship in the past (among multiple other possible scenarios). Again you have Vertex-Angel.

Another soulmatey marker is that in Draco your Vertexes are opposite (a bit loosely). It also hints in the direction of having some past together.

Another thing that I've noticed: in tropical red Lilith is on blue South Node while in Draco blue Lilith is on red Sun. Which hints that there might be some debts involved. E.g., the red had hurt the blue so now the blue is to hurt the red. On a more positive note Lilith could be just about obsessive passion.

Nodes in Draco are conjunct artificially, they are placed in that position for a reference point. So it doesn't mean anything.

posted November 19, 2021 07:37 PM            

He was saying to me just yesterday how he thinks he remembers me again but from when I was 16 and walking back to that hostel in my work suit.
We both can’t shake off this ‘can’t put my finger on it’ how I know you thing!

Comparing Natals to the composite we have:
His natal moon 15 deg Scorpio
conjunct composite Juno 15 deg Scorpio (exact)

His natal Jupiter 28 deg Pisces
Composite Venus 27 deg Pisces

His north node 12 deg Aries
Composite Sun 13 deg Aries

My Natal moon 7 deg Libra
composite Vertex 7 deg Libra (7th house)

my natal Mercury 6 deg Gemini
composite Mars 5 deg Gemini

My natal Venus 6 deg Gemini
composite Mars 5 deg Gemini