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posted November 22, 2021 01:44 AM            

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I’ve had this friend for a few years, we became pretty close during Covid and I developed very strong feelings for him. I finally came out with it, and he didn’t feel the same so I basically ended the friendship because honestly, friendship wasn’t going to cut it for me. It was a bummer but I needed to move on so it had to be that way. Since then I have noticed I hear from or about him during almost every major venus event or eclipse hitting my natal planets. Here is a list.
I met him when Jupiter and the sun were conjunct my natal Jupiter in my 5th house and venus was conjunct my natal Pluto.
Had a memorable night out with him when venus was conjunct my vertex and the moon conjunct my NN.
When we discussed my feelings and things did it go as I hoped venus was conjunct my natal Pluto.
We had a long conversation that seemed to not go to well last years solar ecplise in Sagittarius was conjunct my Jupiter. My venus was opposing transit venus and transit Jupiter was trine my venus.
The next time we had a long talk was during venus cazimi which was conjunct my moon and his NN.
Next time he gets ahold of me, venus is conjunct my north node, and the sun is conjunct my venus.
The NEXT time he gets ahold of me venus is again conjunct my Pluto.
And finally, today when the eclipse is conjunct my natal venus by 1 degree, I find out he is working at a job I just left 3 weeks ago (where I still frequent and have friends that work there), which I never told him about. I would be surprised if I don’t hear from him soon.
I never noticed until the cazimi, but it seems like whenever there’s a major transit involving venus, he pops up. Like I can almost time his contact based on what venus or Jupiter is doing. Not to mention we have a lot of conjunctions in our charts so venus is making contact with his planets as well. It’s also worth mentioning this eclipse is conjunct my MC and I met him at a previous job.
Do you believe this is coincidence or am I delusional for believing this means something?

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posted November 22, 2021 07:45 AM            

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It reflects what it means for you.

To check what it means for him better to check transits to his natal and progressed charts. Also to your composite and progressed composite.

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posted November 22, 2021 03:41 PM            

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What house does your Venus rule?

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posted November 22, 2021 03:59 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
What house does your Venus rule?

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My Venus is in my 10th house in Taurus

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posted November 22, 2021 06:31 PM            

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I don't think Venus is the one that is causing this and Venus moves really fast. I think there is a major transit that is causing this events to you. Since your Venus is there in the 10th house, you're a Leo ASC and you have Uranus transiting your 10th house where your'Venus is, at the same time, Saturn is transiting the 7th house, so there are other transits.

Check the longer transits first, and after you check for the fast moving planets to "complete" the transits.

I noticed with me that when Venus is transiting the second house in Virgo is always a time when I start a relationship, but not when Venus is in Capricorn in the 6th house. Not every year, but rather when Jupiter is also conjunct the 7th house ruler, or is transiting the 7th house.

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