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Topic: aspects in synastry that put you in a bad mood
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Sauerkraut
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posted December 11, 2021 04:27 AM
  
vent time. what aspects in synastry irritate you? would it be a deal breaker?* sun/mars hard aspect: weird competitive vibe i didnt sign up for, especially when its their mars on my sun. i am trying to compete with myself in life, not with you/them? look, mutual competition is fun. this not so much. i do not want to play survivor in real life. i have enough on my plate than deal with an annoying gnat. a deal breaker. * sun hard aspect to my uranus: why wont the sun just let me be? f*ck off with your stupid rules. yes, f*ck off for reals. * mercury/mars hard aspect: i have it natally and have been working on not arguing with people for over 2 decades. what a waste of energy to argue about personal opinions. so invalidating to me and to you/them. unless they are really self-aware, i prefer not to engage. its just a trap.
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HieronymusTush
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posted December 11, 2021 07:53 PM
historically I've felt that once I start disagreeing with a person I'm sharing a Pluto square (mars, venus, moon) with, things really pick up quickly and I can get much more cutting with my demeanor. Anger is not one of my problems in life, so I'm always surprised how angry I can feel with them, but with pluto I guess this is the dictionary definition?IP: Logged |
OrbitalFire
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From: Sydney. Australia
Registered: Dec 2021
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posted December 11, 2021 08:29 PM
For me its harsh Neptune aspects.
I don't handle Neptunian energy very well being the clear cut realist that I am. My Neptune squaring and even opposing someone's Sun or Venus just really sucks for me coz I struggle to see them for who they really are. Doesn't help my natal Venus is conjunct Neptune 😫
Mars conjunct Mars is no fun either. Too much battle of ego & competitiveness in my opinion IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted December 22, 2021 05:46 PM
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problematique
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posted March 22, 2022 04:11 PM
saturn aspecting my moon can **** me off, but i'll live. i share this with multiple relevant people in my life.
it just feels like a neverending cycle of lessons and it's not even something huge, just the small things. IP: Logged |
DeepBlue
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posted March 22, 2022 06:23 PM
Pluto square mars. If I separate from my current partner with which I have this aspect in synastry, then never again.
I think we're both quite self aware, but this is just too much work. Like really exhausting, especially for me, with my aries moon. It doesn't take much for me to feel angry, but with that square it's just insanely difficult to go that deep into yourself to make it work and not fight over the smallest things. IP: Logged |
Cancermoon83
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posted March 24, 2022 12:09 PM
For me it's Saturn on my Mercury.Although I feel like these people can be great teachers to me,it puts me in a depressing mood.I can't think clearly around them and lose motivation to do anything.I don't know if it's because Mercury is my Asc ruler.I also had someone's Saturn on my Venus/Mars conjunction once and it didn't feel really good either.
I'm kinda used to Pluto in my own chart,so it doesn't bother me in synastry.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 29, 2022 06:38 PM
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Librapurr
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posted March 29, 2022 07:13 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Cancermoon83:
For me it's Saturn on my Mercury.Although I feel like these people can be great teachers to me,it puts me in a depressing mood.I can't think clearly around them and lose motivation to do anything.
I might relate, both ways. It was like that person almost gave me headache despite of liking.
However, there was a plus because I didn’t have much desire to overthinking.
In other synastry, it’s more tolerable, but there’s more depressing vibe. Again, I think this aspect might prevent me from Neptunian smog, overanalyzing, and it might be the best.
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