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posted December 15, 2021 11:30 AM            

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Hello people
I posted this synastry before, but now I have the DOB of the other person, so this is more accurate.
Can you please comment if you had similar synastry aspects with someone, especially the plutonic ones. I have a strong 8th house pluto in natal, trine all my personal planets but moon... So I am used to be obsessive energy. But this is next level even for me🤯.
We are buisnes partners, both alredy in relationships. But the feelings and sense of this relationship being fated, it's just a lot to handle.
Insights would be greatly appreciated 💜

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posted December 16, 2021 03:07 PM            

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posted December 16, 2021 05:23 PM            

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Thank you 😊

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posted December 19, 2021 09:49 AM            

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Can someone please comment? I don't know if I should act on this or just let it pass. But obviously I can't really let it pass since 1 year it's alredy around.
I know nobody can give me an exact answer based on a synastry, and what exactly would happen. But pretty please for someone else's perspective and comment, an advice from what you see in our synastry.
If we would not both be in relationsips already, I wouldn't be asking this here, I would already act on it, or I'm sure he would.

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posted December 19, 2021 12:26 PM            

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Can you post the composite chart? I'm trying to discern the purpose of the relationship and finding it a bit confusing at the moment. I mean there are some great aspects and definitely chemistry, but something about it makes me cautious at the same time.

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posted December 19, 2021 04:18 PM            

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Oh thank you so much 😅

Here is the very interesting composite
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And yes, there is sun conjunct chiron, but our collaboration is actually based on healing (phisical healing) so it could mean that, or it could also mean something from our past, that will always be there like a wound on our relationship (I can totally understand this) it could also mean actual healing trough this relationship (altho all the dinamic aspects definitely don't show a smooth way😏

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posted December 19, 2021 04:31 PM            

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And thus is our progressed composite :

http://ibb.co/jvSx1pV

The day we met (during an emergency) our progressed composite venus and sun were exactly conjunct at 18deg cancer.
His progressed sun was exactly on 0deg cancer where my natal sun and his natal venus are (and my natal venus us at 2deg cancer).
My progressed moon was right on my DC, joining all other inner progressed planets that are going trough my 7th house.
And transiting venus was on my pluto and transiting saturn right on my AC...

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posted December 20, 2021 09:09 AM            

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posted December 22, 2021 03:02 AM            

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Someone still here 👀?

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posted December 28, 2021 08:10 AM            

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Sorry, but I still didn't give up on someone taking a look at our composite. I would really appreciate it 🙏❤️

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posted January 08, 2022 06:23 PM            

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posted January 11, 2022 05:40 PM            

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In addition, I checked and in the solar return for the year we met, I had SR north node and SR moon in my 5th HOUSE (where my gemini cancer stellium is), SR NN was exactly on my mercury which is also the ruler of my 5th. And SR venus was on. My NN in the 4th.
His SR NN was on his venus, and SR venus on his mercury, SR moon conjunct vertex.

And I'm still wondering and probably talking to myself here (but I still have hope someone will look at our composite 😊 ...but It is driving me crazy I'm aries moon, I'm not good at waiting. And this is taking way too long for me, without any real clue if this is one sided and if I'm playing out my neptune theme or if we're both just very good at hiding our true feelings.

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posted November 30, 2022 08:56 AM            

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I'd like to see the charts.

Kites are HARD in my opinion. Insane is def one way to put it.

Like being on a ride and cannot get off, lol.

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posted December 13, 2022 08:06 PM            

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posted December 28, 2022 04:07 PM            

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posted December 29, 2022 09:41 AM            

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Hey Sassaqua. It's funny you asked for the chart on the same day I deleted it from my database.
It's been indeed a rollercoaster ride. Can't live with Can't live without feeling, but circumstances keep us in contact, plus we will start to work closer together in January. God help me.
What I learned so far is to keep a respectful distance while not dimming my naturally caring nature just so he could feel comfortable.
When I love someone, I love them...doesn't matter if a lover or friend or coworker, if I love you, it's probably for life and there are fewer things one could do to change that. But ohhh the coldness he can give off sometimes its getting to my core, and every time I need to find and see my own value again. But then when we are together interacting the energy it's amazing, it's like with him I can do anything, there are no limits, at least that's how it feels for me. But there is so much of this energy between us, that it can get overwhelming, it's like we slipped into some world separate from anything and anyone else, it's so weird.

We compleate each other's patterns, he adds his mars to form a kite with my pluto, neptune, mercury/sun/venus. And I add my pluto to complete his mars,saturn/uranus, venus.

This is the synastry ( orbs,are under 7deg):
http://ibb.co/6NJXY0j

I'm the blue one, his tob could be off tho...

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posted December 29, 2022 10:17 AM            

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Wow, what a mess, hhaha..

Not really.

Yes, isn't it interesting? At first glance there's a heap of "easy" aspects.

But the easy aspects just go round and round and it's exhausting. Like being sucked into a whirl pool. Not that I am hugely experienced mind you, just what I have observed.

The kite pointing to the Uranus/Saturn and Neptune IS where the focus is. Hilarious that you mentioned all that about unconditional love.. Your Neptune is at the apex.

So.. he's the erratic/weird (Uran) grumpy/cold (Sat)?

Interesting

Edit: and your Moon's not aspected, Uranus, and no node actions.. Waste of time IMHO.

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posted December 29, 2022 11:43 AM            

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Thank you for your observations.
Actually his saturn/uranus square my moon and my uranus probably makes an inconjunct to his moon, also not knowing his exact angles, who knows what else is going on.
I know his NN is on my lilith in my 1st house.

Also because our natal venuses are so close together we both trigger each other's venus aspects even more to play out imo. He has natally a tight venus opposite saturn/uranus and I have the neptune opposition to my 5th H stellium.
I admit, when we met, I saw him as this ideal, too good to be true, but it felt do fated and so possible, until reality hit. It was classic neptune, like it can't get more neptune than this. You get so high, just to fall so low. But luckily for me, I was aware of this possibility all along, even tho I didn't wanted the illusion to end. I was running from my problems, I just needed a break from reality.

I would so want one day to find out how it was for him. We now know each other for 2 years. He supported me a lot but also made me go through some really unpleasant feelings, connected to my trauma I guess and made me look at that again and let it go, cuz it was just so in the face and painful I had to finally let it go, I don't need that in my life anymore.

I think saturn can make up for no significant nodal connection.

I wonder what more is in this for me, as in the time we will now have to work together I have SN transiting my mars/saturn in the 9th, so it's also going over his pluto.
I am aqua AC and he has mars at the end of aqua, so at the end of our collaboration saturn will finally leave my ascendant sign and it will conjunct his mars. I really wonder if this transits are connected to our relationship and how will we handle.

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posted December 29, 2022 06:40 PM            

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Sorry, I didn't see these other aspects as I only glanced at the aspect lines. And focused on the kite.

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.....But luckily for me, I was aware of this possibility all along, even tho I didn't wanted the illusion to end. I was running from my problems, I just needed a break from reality.

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The gift astrology brings isn't it.. Eventually, when older and have experienced the crises that can come with "love", taking a step back and taking it slowly becomes a superpower

Talking about myself here of course.

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