posted December 20, 2021 11:48 PM            

We have:

- His Mars conjunct my ASC
- His Mars Conjunct my Pluto in 1st
- His Moon opposition my Pluto
- His Sun Square my Pluto
- His Moon conjunct my Jupiter in 7th
- His Venus opposition my sun, merc, Venus, and Mars
- His North Node conjunct my sun, merc, Venus, and Mars
- His Jupiter in my 5th

posted December 21, 2021 04:35 PM            

I'm not going to say anything about you. You are the Pluto and you definitely know. As for him, he can't escape you.

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Originally posted by MonteCristo:
Like we literally look at each other and it’s game over.

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This is Pluto's zone. Once you enter, nothing is going to be the same again.

posted December 21, 2021 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
It's always about the combination. Nothing in astrology or in life operates in a total vacuum, of which, nature abhors, except in space.

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posted December 21, 2021 06:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Eternal Energy:
Your Pluto squares his Sun
Your Pluto opposes his Moon
Your Pluto conjuncts his Mars

I'm not going to say anything about you. You are the Pluto and you definitely know. As for him, he can't escape you.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by MonteCristo:
[b]Like we literally look at each other and it’s game over.

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This is Pluto's zone. Once you enter, nothing is going to be the same again.

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posted December 21, 2021 06:36 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepBlue:
Well you two have a lot of Pluto going on so... Pluto conjunct mars is intense. It can indicate Deep, primal sexual attraction, you can be obsessed with each other.

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posted December 21, 2021 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by MonteCristo:
Yes, that's very true. I was just wondering which of those aspects is the most likely to create such a physically RAW attraction. Attraction is one thing, but such an intense one is another. I'm thinking it's the Mars conjunct Pluto. I've had Mars sextile pluto and Mars square pluto, and while the attraction was amazing there, this conjunction is just way stronger. It's either that, or as you said, the combination with everything else. I don't know. I just cannot figure it out haha

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Would say it's more about the Mars conjunct ASC and Mars in 1st, more than anything else.

The Asc/1st House is an extremely sensitive and amplifying part of a chart when it comes to Planetary energies--nothing more so. Meanwhile, you share that Mars Pluto with A LOT of people born around that general time frame. Are you hot for all of them...? No, of course not. Without more personal and sensitive connections, these are like strangers passing by in the night.

posted December 21, 2021 06:54 PM            

I'm willing to bet A LOT of money, that you will have more overall attraction to more of the guys in the 2nd group than in the 1st. Significantly more so.

Astrology is relative to the "personalness", sensitivity, and how fast a symbol moves when it comes to synastry.

posted December 21, 2021 07:00 PM            

My Mars Jupiter conjunction is conjunct her Asc. Jupiter, ruler of my 5th and 8th, is conjunct her Asc with less than a degree, and Mars (co ruler of IC) with 4 degrees and some change.

Doesn't help that there is a mutual Venus Mars opposition either or that her Venus is in my 8th--but a huge part of the raw, sexual, "I WANT HER NOW!" factor is the double Mars conjunct Asc.

posted December 21, 2021 07:14 PM            

The difference I think is that When someone's Mars is conjucnt my ASC, it is usually also conjunct my Pluto, since my Pluto sits in the 1st house. And is in Scorpio lol.

posted December 21, 2021 07:40 PM            

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Originally posted by MonteCristo:
Very good points!

The difference I think is that When someone's Mars is conjucnt my ASC, it is usually also conjunct my Pluto, since my Pluto sits in the 1st house. And is in Scorpio lol.

Wow, that sounds like an intense connection you have.Are you together?

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Thank you. Yes, hard to separate in that case. But also notice your reaction to when your Mars is conjunct their Asc and/or in their 1st House.

Hahaha, nope, only on a 5D level/Expanded self level. Most of the time, I energetically shut her out, because I don't want to feel the connection to her. For awhile, I thought we might be twin souls, and a professional intuitive reading with someone that came highly recommended from someone here that I like/respect, supported that interpretation, but I don't want to believe it. It is too painful to even entertain. I just want to forget her as long as she rejects me.

posted December 21, 2021 07:52 PM            

But she is filled with fear, always fear when it comes to me. The fear is stronger than the love and connection. If she lets me get close to her, she knows it could be her undoing, as it was in our last life together, wherein we became extremely close and merged, and I decided to leave the earth to be with my original group (an ET group). She was very, very, very deeply hurt by me leaving and spiraled.

posted December 22, 2021 01:10 AM            

I thought he was strange, but liked him. Reminded me of someone else from the past a little. I thought to myself "don't you go doing that again"

But they say women decide if they are attracted to a man in 7 seconds. While I did not want anymore "multi-tasking" I got excited when I saw him because he reminded me of someone I was watching in a movie series. Plus when I welcomed him personally, I admired how he basically said "hopefully this place doesn't suck" with out actually saying it like that, just made me lite up. And his tone too. One of those people that can't fake happy, unlike like me. LMAO.

I've read that Pluto conjunct Mars attraction gets stronger over time. Seems true.

posted December 22, 2021 04:13 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
I recently went to go listen to my hypnosis/delta brainwave relaxation entrainment recordings of telling my subconscious to utterly forget her and to have an energetic barrier between us from the physical to soul levels, as I haven't listened to it in a while, and I was P!SSED when I found my player was all of a sudden, out of the blue, broken/not working.

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...telling you that what you have been doing until now, doesn't mean that it will always work. You have dived deep. What do you see? Look better. Look better at yourself. If you can't, change your angle of view...

posted December 22, 2021 09:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Eternal Energy:
Change the recordings...

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To?

Here's the thing.. there is a part of me that knows the higher and wiser way is to just forgive, love, and accept her, myself, and the situation for what it is--a spiritual growth catalyst. And I have been in that space before, but the pain, fear, and longing always seems to creep back in.

Though I'm unusually in touch with my feminine side, and more comfortable with feelings, emotions, etc than the average man, I'm still connected to a male body! After awhile, it burns me out and I just want to not feel anything. This has been dragging on for 2.5 years now.

Anyways, this thread is not about my internal drama, so I will be exiting stage left. Thank you for your concern and support Eternal, I appreciate it and you.

posted December 22, 2021 09:27 PM            

Perhaps if we were completely available to each other, there might be more sparks and attraction, but she is pretty close with my partner, and open relationship or not, in all 3 of our minds, she is not an option because of that. That, and she has her own twin soul/flame drama (one of those constantly off/on couples) that keeps her occupied and preoccupied.