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ChildofVenus
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posted December 28, 2021 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does this mean sex will be a problem? Like he won’t be sexually satisfied?

His Mars only makes hard aspects to my planets.

His Mars squares my Saturn and Uranus and it makes an opposition to my Venus and it trines my MC.

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posted December 29, 2021 05:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 04, 2022 07:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 05, 2022 05:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OrbitalFire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars opp venus is actually kinda sexy! I don't think this is a bad placement.. like balancing of the male and female energy. He would be physically receptive to your love and/or your beauty.. lots of attraction here..! however with the square to your saturn and uranus, it could potentially turn this polarity negative (and it might actually be you who is the one who is not satisfied) as with square to your Uranus, it's super exciting and you're buzzing at first, but over time you may get bored, or your sexual interest fizzles out, then might get re-ignited again.. then fizzles out and so on.. (trademark Uranus) and the square to your saturn may "dampen his flames" in time, as Saturn acts as a limiting influence on mars' outward energy. I think the Saturn person no longer gets impressed by Mars sexually.
Anyone else?

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posted January 05, 2022 06:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ana_bee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Does this mean sex will be a problem? Like he won’t be sexually satisfied?

His Mars only makes hard aspects to my planets.

His Mars squares my Saturn and Uranus and it makes an opposition to my Venus and it trines my MC.


Mars opposing venus is not a problem but actually a nice aspect. There will be some sexual heat between you. The Saturn and Uranus square will be a major problem though, from my experience.

I finally had sex with someone this weekend, someone I was really into, initially. My Saturn in Scorpio is square his Mars in Aqua. My Pluto and Jupiter form a trine and sextile to his Mars and his Mars conj my IC.

Nonetheless it was sadly unsatisfying for me and plain out weird. (my Saturn square his Mars in synastry) It was the weirdest sexual encounter I’ve ever had, tbh.

The kisses we exchanged during our dates before were amazing. Also the way he touched me. We would also talk for hours on the phone, also about sex and seemed like we want the same things. So I guess my expectations that the sex would be pretty good as well, were pretty high.

I’m aware that things can be worked on eventually .. soo maybe with time it could get better, but he’s also into things, stuff he never mentioned on the phones, that I’m not into at all, and I’ve done quiet a few things sexually and am pretty open minded, but what he wanted is just beyond, what I’m willing to provide. LoL So yeah that was a huge turnoff for me. I doubt we’ll be able to work around that. We’ll stay friends probably, bc like I said I like him a lot.. I just don’t think I want to sleep with him again. We already had an honest conversation about that.

So yeah, that’s my experience with the Saturn square. It’s different for everyone though.

So don’t get discouraged, just don’t have any expectations. Keep us updated

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posted January 05, 2022 06:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ana_bee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by OrbitalFire:
Mars opp venus is actually kinda sexy! I don't think this is a bad placement.. like balancing of the male and female energy. He would be physically receptive to your love and/or your beauty.. lots of attraction here..! however with the square to your saturn and uranus, it could potentially turn this polarity negative (and it might actually be you who is the one who is not satisfied) as with square to your Uranus, it's super exciting and you're buzzing at first, but over time you may get bored, or your sexual interest fizzles out, then might get re-ignited again.. then fizzles out and so on.. (trademark Uranus) and the square to your saturn may "dampen his flames" in time, as Saturn acts as a limiting influence on mars' outward energy. I think the Saturn person no longer gets impressed by Mars sexually.
Anyone else?

Agree with you!💯
It’s the Saturn / Uranus person who will feel dissatisfied

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posted January 05, 2022 10:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ana_bee:
Mars opposing venus is not a problem but actually a nice aspect. There will be some sexual heat between you. The Saturn and Uranus square will be a major problem though, from my experience.

I finally had sex with someone this weekend, someone I was really into, initially. My Saturn in Scorpio is square his Mars in Aqua. My Pluto and Jupiter form a trine and sextile to his Mars and his Mars conj my IC.

Nonetheless it was sadly unsatisfying for me and plain out weird. (my Saturn square his Mars in synastry) It was the weirdest sexual encounter I’ve ever had, tbh.

The kisses we exchanged during our dates before were amazing. Also the way he touched me. We would also talk for hours on the phone, also about sex and seemed like we want the same things. So I guess my expectations that the sex would be pretty good as well, were pretty high.

I’m aware that things can be worked on eventually .. soo maybe with time it could get better, but he’s also into things, stuff he never mentioned on the phones, that I’m not into at all, and I’ve done quiet a few things sexually and am pretty open minded, but what he wanted is just beyond, what I’m willing to provide. LoL So yeah that was a huge turnoff for me. I doubt we’ll be able to work around that. We’ll stay friends probably, bc like I said I like him a lot.. I just don’t think I want to sleep with him again. We already had an honest conversation about that.

So yeah, that’s my experience with the Saturn square. It’s different for everyone though.

So don’t get discouraged, just don’t have any expectations. Keep us updated


I’m hoping this isn’t the case for me because I actually really like him. We seem to really have a good connection. He said he’ll do anything to please me I like that. That’s his Mars in Virgo talking lol. I’m hoping that maybe my Mars trine his Moon might help. In our Composite we have Mars square Pluto and Venus trine Pluto.

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posted January 05, 2022 01:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ana_bee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hope it will be a good experience for you 🙏

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posted January 18, 2022 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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