posted January 05, 2022 01:28 PM            

Okay so I’ve been friends with this guy since 2017 and we always got along very well but it was only ever something platonic. Apart from finding him generally attractive, there was no pull to wanting to know him more or finding him some kind of fascinating creature. We were just very good friends and had a hell of a lot in common (although our personalities were very different but it didn’t seem to bother either of us)

Then I went to visit him as I was in their city and, well, things kinda changed. I felt he immediately wanted to be closer to me. Not in some kind of erotic way, but what appeared to be sincere and extremely affectionate. We spent some day together and nothing happened other than making out a few times - but even in the midst of that I was completely surprised at how bloody comfortable it was!! I was rather flabbergasted at how compatible we were. Or at least it felt like it.

Since leaving them a few days ago, I am surprisingly thinking about them a lot. Not in an overly romantic sense, but how unbelievably familiar the whole thing felt and how it seemingly came out of nowhere!

So I am wondering if anyone could share anything about how this came about? I’m aware it’s cliche to say ‘what you were looking for is sometimes right in front of you’ so I guess I’m curious to see if I’m just riding on a high from what happened or I’m seriously over-looking something here.

posted January 06, 2022 03:33 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepBlue:
Remove the s from https so it will link the chart.

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