posted February 04, 2022 09:47 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I know it does in the synastry chart.

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posted February 05, 2022 09:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Bismarck2:
It indicates conflict, resentment, and sometimes violence. If you like drama, sure, it can show attraction.

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posted February 05, 2022 09:48 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:

It does not always indicate resentment or violence and conflict. That’s just a cookbook description it depends on the two people involved.

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posted February 05, 2022 10:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Bismarck2:
Yes it does. You'd need a lot of positive composite aspects to tip the scale in a more positive direction.

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posted February 05, 2022 11:58 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
No it doesn’t that’s just your experience everyone is different. It’s all about self control and deciding if you want the relationship or if you want to be right.

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posted February 05, 2022 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Bismarck2:
Composite aspects only get stronger over time.

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Everyone automatically says that this means violence but I’m saying that it’s possible to manage if both people are aware. For example the person who I have this aspect with. We recently got into an argue via text. We were arguing with each other. But now we are going to talk over the phone and be civil with each other. I’m saying all this to say that I’m aware of how this aspect can get out of hand. And that I have to keep control over my anger. And instead of arguing and blowing up I have to keep my cool.

Jewel explains how to work with this aspect. She mentions that it can be violence and resentment. If both people aren’t careful.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-sDnZze7Vtg

posted February 05, 2022 02:45 PM            

Have this EXACT in composite right now with my current interest. He's kind of an ex from 25 years ago.. I HAD to see him again after all this time because I felt he would be the only one having the same view about the current corrupt world we live in .. and yes that turned out to be exactly as I thought - I really need this "togetherness/solidarity of mind" these days - I'm afraid of what the world is heading to... and it feels kinda a safe around him.

So we recently met again after all those years and there was such a kid-like playful LIVELY competitive vibe with constantly touching each other (like back in the days).. and from that context I literally felt and even said "I wanna fight with u!" (after the first minutes of our reunion I swear)

So I don't know what this will bring... but we are for sure not done yet with each other.

I dreamed about softly kissing him before we met and before we even got in touch recently (it took me many many months to find him! - many dead ends) ...

So when we recently met I playfully asked him "What kind of out-of-this-world energy is this between us?!" And he said "It's a very very rare chemistry" lol

posted February 06, 2022 11:00 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Everyone automatically says that this means violence but I’m saying that it’s possible to manage if both people are aware. For example the person who I have this aspect with. We recently got into an argue via text. We were arguing with each other. But now we are going to talk over the phone and be civil with each other. I’m saying all this to say that I’m aware of how this aspect can get out of hand. And that I have to keep control over my anger. And instead of arguing and blowing up I have to keep my cool.

Jewel explains how to work with this aspect. She mentions that it can be violence and resentment. If both people aren’t careful.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-sDnZze7Vtg

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You proved my point. Read my original comment again.

posted February 06, 2022 02:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Bismarck2:
You proved my point. Read my original comment again.

As I said before, IF YOU LIKE DRAMA, yes this aspect can be attractive.

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posted February 07, 2022 12:26 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
You said it automatically means violence and resentment but that’s not true. Sexual attraction doesn’t always mean drama.

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posted February 07, 2022 02:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Bismarck2:
Composite aspects only get stronger over time.

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Bismarck2, Is this why I get along with my ex as friends now? I don't usually befriend exes. We dated over 3 years, broke up over a year ago and are now friends. We have trines/sextiles/conjunctions and one square (Jupiter/Neptune). The conjunctions are Moon/Pluto and Venus/Sun.

posted February 07, 2022 02:44 PM            

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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
Bismarck2, Is this why I get along with my ex as friends now? I don't usually befriend exes. We dated over 3 years, broke up over a year ago and are now friends. We have trines/sextiles/conjunctions and one square (Jupiter/Neptune). The conjunctions are Moon/Pluto and Venus/Sun.

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It's common for people to marry people they wouldn't normally date. This is because of your marriage karma(7th house) contradicting your dating karma(5th house). Since the 11th house represents friendships, this ex of yours probably fits your 5th and 11th house, but not your 7th house.

posted February 07, 2022 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Bismarck2:
I didn't say either of those things.

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