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posted March 03, 2022 12:46 PM            

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Who feels Lilith more?

This is what I found online: In synastry, Lilith brings an untamed, wild sexual energy, feelings of obsession, and intense, transformative interactions. When your Lilith aspects your someone's planet (especially the Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, or the Ascendant), you are magnetically attracted to this person, and can't get them out of your mind.

While on Youtube, different astrologers say the opposite. The planet/angle person is the one that will feel attracted to the Lilith person.

What’s your experience about it?

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posted March 04, 2022 10:15 AM            

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Bump!

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posted March 04, 2022 11:07 AM            

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Hey.
I have lilith conjunct NN with someone, it's a tight conjunction. But then his lilith also sextile my sun-venus-mercury stellium.
I'm definitely wildly attracted to him. I'm not sure about his feelings.

The sexual attraction is really intense, but then we also have pluto-mars and Pluto - venus aspects, so that definitely adds to the feeling of almost being obsessed with him (mentally, since we are not a couple).

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posted March 04, 2022 12:31 PM            

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I confirm similar experience with my BML Lilith - his North Node tight conjunction. But we also had my Moon - his Pluto and my Pluto - his Mars tight conjunctions.

I had impression he was also attracted but he never gave it a go.

Now I have my Lilith on his Dsc exactly sextile his Venus, his Lilith tightly sextile my Asc and trine my Venus. The attraction is mutual, and for me it's quite unusual (I am not sexual in general and he is not my type).

We also have his Lilith opposite my White Moon, not sure what it means though.

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posted March 09, 2022 09:15 AM            

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I just saw your replies!!! 😬

I agree! I see myself acting differently with the person who touches my Lilith or who’s Lilith touches my planets.
The other aspects between planets/angles, have the main impact on the relationship. Lilith is definitely intense also!

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posted March 22, 2022 12:09 PM            

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i think it goes both ways. they both obsessed. and usually there's some sort of taboo surrounding such relationship. age gap, or one side could be taken already.
it's somehow "forbidden" and therefore interesting. your moral compas might get broken.

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posted March 25, 2022 06:26 PM            

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I think it depends on the native. If you have Lilith strongly ingrained in your chart, you will feel her regardless. She adds an obsessive component to everything you do.

At least I find that for me. Lilith is opposite my moon, conjunct my Sun Jupiter mp, and sextile Mars. And conjunct Eros too. So she is hard for me to disentangle.

I don't know how the other side feels, but when I am involved with someone, they absolutely have to hit my luminaries, which means they hit my Lilith, which means I feel that obsessive component. And if I don't feel it, I am not interested. They become platonic.

I can't say how the other feels, I only know for sure two were equally obsessive, bcs they talked about it. And two of the others were very un-Lilith and un-Pluto, so obsessive wasn't really in their nature. I don't know what they thought but they were both long term relationships. So something stuck.

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