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Topic: Do you think it's worth it?
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ChildofVenus
Knowflake Posts: 5963
From: Customer Service Rep.
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 06, 2022 06:59 PM
  
I met this guy in person and we really hit it off well. We enjoyed each other's company. Everything felt so natural between us. I felt comfortable and really relaxed with him It was like I'd known him.But he gets upset when I don't communicate. He wants me to communicate every day. Some days I don't feel like talking. I honestly don't understand why it's an issue if I don't talk to him for a day or two. If I don't talk to him every single day he gets upset. He told me to tell him if I don't feel like talking instead of just not talking. I've never had a guy get so upset about a woman not talking to him. Usually the men I talk to I'm the one doing all the talking. Is this him just being a control freak? He has Venus square Pluto in his natal chart. This is the synastry and composite.  
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Randall
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posted March 07, 2022 07:12 PM
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MoonMystic
Knowflake Posts: 6443
From: ♏ Rising
Registered: Nov 2016
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posted March 15, 2022 03:45 PM
Hi Mars is in Gemini. I think his hunger to communicate is right there. He desires it, as well with Chiron, you bring him needed healing.
Also his 5th h. Neptune in your 1st.
I think you bring "idealism" to him.
Maybe he has an addiction towards your communication. Could you be a fantasy to him? Maybe.
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ChildofVenus
Knowflake Posts: 5963
From: Customer Service Rep.
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 15, 2022 05:23 PM
quote:
Originally posted by MoonMystic:
Hi Mars is in Gemini. I think his hunger to communicate is right there. He desires it, as well with Chiron, you bring him needed healing.
Also his 5th h. Neptune in your 1st.
I think you bring "idealism" to him.
Maybe he has an addiction towards your communication. Could you be a fantasy to him? Maybe.
I’m the Mars in Gemini with Chiron in Gemini. He’s the Virgo Mars. I have Neptune in the 5th house and he has Neptune in the 1st house. He says communication is important to him. But then sometimes we argue when we’re texting. But we don’t in person it’s a lot different when we’re in person. Like everything is calming and relaxing. I enjoy being in his presence I feel relaxed. IP: Logged |
MoonMystic
Knowflake Posts: 6443
From: ♏ Rising
Registered: Nov 2016
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posted March 15, 2022 07:08 PM
Sorry I couldn't confused them. Let me look with new eyes.
editing this as I go:
His Sun (his ruler), Uranus and Mercury and hit your 4th h. I think you feel like home to him. A constant he feels he needs as in a habit. Talking, communication.
Energetic. He might bring nervous energy when not in person.
3rd (communication) The Libra energy his Pluto, Jupiter and Saturn
is what you're feeling. He might be controlling, you feel it. Libra can be demanding and you have Saturn and Pluto coming through him. Severe in nature.
As though he wants a schedule or to keep tabs?
In Scorpio is your Pluto, the nature of obsessed energy but it could be directed at you not from you. . He's attached and has expectations of you
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The composite with the Saturn sextile Jupiter makes me think (Saturn in Scorpio) yet the 3rd is ruled by Jupiter. He's coming through as though he has a strong sense he feels he should have authority. Maybe entitled to your time in communication. He may fear if it's not him - then who?
Your Saturn is ruled by Sagittarius. This tying you together. From the sounds you enjoy him. He, imo might want you exclusive or really wants you to invest in the communication ways available when not together. IP: Logged |
MoonMystic
Knowflake Posts: 6443
From: ♏ Rising
Registered: Nov 2016
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posted March 16, 2022 08:45 PM
Did any of that fit? If you feel good together, I might think it could be some insecurities too. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
Knowflake Posts: 5963
From: Customer Service Rep.
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 17, 2022 07:55 PM
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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
Did any of that fit? If you feel good together, I might think it could be some insecurities too.
What you said does fit and yes he does seem controlling. Sometimes it feels like he’s my parent. He gets upset when I take awhile to reply. He also watches the things that I post on Facebook. He says communication is really important to him. He likes to tell me things about his family. IP: Logged |
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