I have a midpoint I need some advice on.
This person and I met via our platforms. 
He watched me almost 6months before really
stepping forward. I can't  share my chart, I only can the midpoint. For privacy sake.

we have a Grand trine  1st, 5th and 9th
Saturn is in 5th (leo 0deg) . I have considered this could be a karmic matchup.  I've come into his world so far as a healer.
He's one for me too!
With Saturn in 5, could this mean we would have Saturn be referee to keep us from a sensual pairing?
Our Moon (venus decan) is in Scorpio 9th. 1st Is Pisces, this last new moon was so powerful to us. That point of the trine is cnj the combined Mercury - his chart ruler.

We have a quintile  Pallas/Jupiter. We are faintly telepathic  yet our energies are VERY magnetically connected. 

Our vertex is bq Chiron - is this only a Healing union?

transits for now -
 SN is almost on our Moon of the G trine mentioned.
Past lives*,
The current Mars/Venus transits are cnj our Pallas,  in Venus ~ 11th house.
tr Uranus cnj our Venus

 He's  very attached. I feel so too yet in my circumstances,  not the very same.

COMBINED  MIDPOINT PROG chart with transits
NN/Chiron on AC
Uranus on DC
Tr NN in 1st Taurus  *Saturn decan
 Saturn ` in 3rd (Leo) the Saturn decan.  Saturn square Uranus
Libra vertex, Jupiter decan. Jupiter in house of other, natural Libra 6th (Scorpio), Sun decan. Our Sun is in 1st, Jupiter decan.

- in his chart asteroid Truth (which in part is why we met) is cnj my Asteroid Groom 5129.
our combined energy of TRUTH comes in cnj with my Teller 5006 (reader) asteroid and Jura "oath". Weird af.

The part that honestly scares me is NN & chiron on our combined AC. Like we together are wishes, dreams and healing. Please help me .. anyone?

Oh his natal Sun is Gem, I'm an Asc sag, he's my DC - I'm ruled in tarot by the Lovers in occult identity. There's tons more but this is a small amount to share this intensity.

I'm actually feeling a threat of what is "normal" when seeing him snd I and he's revealed his powerful emotions ..

His Arabic part of Wish & destiny is cnj my Arabic part of Identity. wtf!
His Part of Wish also cnj my AP of Marriage of Woman?! I mean wt -actualF?!

in 2nd house (value) we have the twin asteroid
121313 Tamsin and his name is in transit now cnj it.

111111 is  parallel our NN and it's
oob in our chart here 38°33'54" N
tr Asteroid karma  is oob too  33°26'23" S

On the first date we ever spoke in the comments area.
Tr Sun was on the (twin)Tamsin   asteroid.  house2. It crossed over (cnj Neptune) vertex too (pisces) , if this was a trigger.

tr Venus was sitying on asteroid Union. in Sagittarius. h3
He's very foreign to me, as I am to him.

We went quiet 2 days later.
Halloween  karma & Sun (spotlight)  went parallel with Tamblyn (twin).

 We weren't talking but both had watched the others videos.  Him way more than I but he became obsessed.  Later telling me due to my readings bring right re him and his friend. He told me later how spot on my reads were for him. Whilst we were apart he became more familiar with me - than I with him.
 I had my other channel,  when I posted a meme re feeling it was quiet, he popped into my comments stating he was there.  I have honestly forgotten if he
ghosted me then or we spoke. I may had sat on his comments and he deleted them.

FF to the date he reached out and I energetically felt him while reading my Valentine readings. I flubbed his Sun sign too. The stars were: tr Sun trine his name, tr jupiter trine my name.
 both our transit names cnj the Uranus composite.
tr venus&mars quintile the composite Mars.
tr Union/Pluto were (0) following after 111111 into 5th.

tr venus was inching by (3) to the twin asteroid 
his name was parallel my Natal Sun.
  Parallel  131313 and Union.

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my progress chart now with transits

tr Pluto on his Pr name asteroid in my 12th house.
  like the tower coming at him.

1st house has a (0) cnj my nn/131313
 these are 11°
as are SN, Moon,

his name/my 12th house parallel
Jupiter/Pallas  parallel  (we are strongly in synch)