THIS thread is different. This one is a study on all 3 and a fourth - the 3 are a trifecta that fit together. As though these three were part of myself. FRACTALS.
TFs are said to share the SPARK/SOUL.

With my 3 men that I'm studying here, they ALL are significant in my lifetime. Each are strong Cancer energy. My vertex is Cancer. My DC is Gemini.

1) was my first love. A strong bond with a man I met when I was 10. We were neighbors. He proposed when I was 13/14, he was 19ish. It dissolved in an ugly break. Which I was close to taking my life over. That break was a damage point for me as a young woman.. last saw him@21
He has:
CANCER SUN,
SCORPIO MOON, Leo VENUS, Libra MARS, GEMINI AC+NN - his Vertex opposite (4) my Saturn (I cut like a scythe) and favorable aspect my Neptune, Jupiter to his vertex.
*My name asteroid in CARDINAL EARTH (8th house) When it ended, though it was all confusing and details all unknown at that time, blame placed upon me, he behaved as though I had broken a cardinal rule.
As though we had been set as a powerful/Spiritual pair and he inately knew this.

2) Is my husband. Met through a friend and we became best friends. Very much alike, we both have the same Astro wheel. Both Sag. Asc.
He has: CANCER SUN,
MARS MOON, VENUS CANCER, MARS Virgo, DC GEMINI, NN CANCER,
* MY NAME IN MUTABLE EARTH (10th house)
He loves me but not as solid in his feeling as the one before/after him.

3) TF, a man who realized .. what I might had earlier too, yet he showed me, we had a reason for finding each other. I studied our charts, the intensity within our energetic imprint together was pronounced in our charts. Despite my situation currently, I am strongly connected with him.
He has: GEMINI SUN,
Cancer AC, VIRGO MOON, LEO VENUS, GEMINI MARS, GEMINI NN
My vertex square his Pluto and Saturn, I think he's the return of the scythe @me!
*MY NAME IN FIXED EARTH (11th house)
Hopes, wishes and dreams, he told me he opened his heart and prayed for someone just like me when we discovered each other through our platforms. He's very attached with me.

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I read cards, energy. I'm also waking up to my gifts much more as of recently I believe the medium-ship may be coming fwd too. So I'm seeing these love chapters as different as just storybook love stories.
The first Three men are all CANCER/GEMINI strong

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4) A possible past lifetime mate
A man whom I felt drawn to, as in a past life connection. Yet he didn't speak of it. We had a strange situation where I was on the fence of divorce, I flew to meet this man in person. He was a wonderful guy but a less aligned with me as I felt he may be. Yet underneath everything, I knew that he and I had a mysterious past together. Which Part of self/SOULMATE connection could as well been his part with me. My recognizing it from afar.
He has: LIBRA SUN,

Taurus MOON, LIBRA VENUS, LIBRA MARS, SAGITTARIUS NN, GEMINI ASC. My vertex square his SN + Uranus.
*MY NAME IN MUTABLE WATER (12th house)
a baptism ..

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I'll be adding my study notes below this post. If you are interested in learning based on my study, feel free to read through and I'll happily communicate if you have any questions regarding yours too . I merely felt there has to be far more to these connections than meet the eye and my 3rd eye is wide open these days. I see a much broader, expansive version than even a year ago I may had.

I forgot to mention the First and third men have the same name, yet the name of #3 wasn't immediately known.

The second and fourth men have the same name yet the 4th was not immediately known just like the other set.