posted March 29, 2022 12:28 PM            

First of all,even before the 1st date,there was ALWAYS a progressed synastry aspect(trine,opposition,conjunction) between either:
Sun-Venus
Venus-Mars
Sun-Mars
And in the case the above was missing,in very few cases
Moon-Sun

These progressions in my experience were necessary to prepare the ground for what was to come.The more the progressed synastry aspects,the more the pull to be with that person.

Then,around the time the relationship/dating started there were other progressed aspects(conjunction mostly) between:
progressed personal planets to Composite Sun,Moon,Venus or Mars
or
Progressed composite Sun,moon,Venus,Mars to personal planets
or
a triggering aspect in the progressed composite,like pr.Composite mars conjunct Sun,or pr.Composite moon conjunct or opposite Sun.
These were surprising to find,but it makes sense that when you get in a relationship with someone(Relationship=Composite),your energy has to be in sync with the relationship itself.Otherwise you may feel an attraction,but it won't be enough to draw you in a relationship with them.

Third and most surprising,and for this you need the exact date the relationship begun.The day of the 1st date there were BIG transit patterns in the composite,involving mostly the composite Sun and Moon,but sometimes other planets were involved as well.
Example 1: Transiting Sun trine Tr Mars,both trine the Composite Sun,creating a grand trine.
Example 2: Transiting N.Node trine Tr.Mercury/Venus trine Composite Sun,Venus,Mercury(also Grand trine).
Example 3: Transiting N.Node conjunct Comp.Moon and opposite Comp.Sun
and so on.
There were also many outer planets transits to the composite's inner planets,and other interesting ones,like tr. Mars conjunct Comp.Venus,or Tr Venus conjunct comp.Sun etc.

The transit I found most significant in starting a relationship was the N.node transiting the Composite Sun,Moon or Venus.

posted March 29, 2022 01:47 PM            

Can you also check Part of Fortune and Vertex? I knew the guy I am dating for a while before we started, and when he kissed me unexpectedly for the first time, in our Progressed Composite the Part of Fortune was exactly conjunct Vertex in the 7th house, and when we got intimate for the first time, the Part of Fortune was exactly conjunct Dsc.

I also wonder if in the Progressed Synastry my Venus - his Pluto trine would be felt? Everyone is only talking about personal planets.

posted March 29, 2022 02:12 PM            

Progressed Synastry
By our first date, his pVenus was conjunct right in between my pMC and pMars. His pMercury conjunct my pMoon, his pSun nearby and his pPluto exactly opposite. His pASC conjunct my pNeptune. His pCupid on my pCeres/Lilith, near my pAphrodite. His pJuno/Amor opp. my pJupiter/Cupid, with his pVertex right on top of them. His pUranus opp. My pMC. His pMC on my pJuno. His pMars on my pAmor with his pAphrodite opposite. His pSappho opp. My pPluto. His pNeptune opp. My pVenus/Mercury. (Wow no wonder I ended up feeling disillusioned!)

Progressed Composite
Our progressed composite for that date shows that our composite ASC had moved from Virgo to 25* Aries. Our composite Sun and Venus had moved from their natal Aries and Pisces (respectively) to Taurus, from the 7th/6th to the 1st house. Composite Mercury and Mars had moved from Pisces (6H) and Aries (7H) respectively to a conjunction in late Aries in the 1st, conjunct the ASC. Composite moon had moved from Aquarius (5H) to Gemini (2H). Composite Saturn (which, in the natal composite hung out on the DSC (in 7H) conjunct sun and Amor) was now hiding out in Pisces in the 12th. pVertex was now on the DSC in progressed composite - natally it was in the 7th but not on the DSC.

Progressed Natals to Progressed Composite
* So his pVenus/my pMC and pMars were on our pcAmor.
* His pSaturn and my pAmor were on pcVenus, with his pJupiter opposite.
* My pSun was on pcChiron.
* His pASC exactly conjunct the pcMC, opposite the pcSappho.
* My pNeptune/Uranus were also conjunct the pcMC.
* My pChiron opp. pcNN.
* His pMoon was on pcVesta exactly, opposite pcValentine/Ceres.
* His pMercury/Sun and my pMoon on pcSaturn opposite his pPluto.
* My pJuno opp. pcVertex and (along with his pMC) conjunct pcASC.

I really think aspects to the progressed composite angles have a lot to do with the timing of when we got together. Progressed composite love asteroids also seem to be important. But as another example, I had another crush with strong synastry/composite and even with strong aspects from their progressed natal to the progressed composite (including love asteroids), but no aspects from their progressed natal to the progressed composite ANGLES - and it didn’t get off the ground.

posted March 29, 2022 04:35 PM            

We started dating at transit Pluto on pc/comp South Node. And what probably broke it was transit Pluto on pc/comp Saturn.

Oh and transit Uranus was opposite composite Moon, 2* separating, and square composite Venus, 4* separating. When tr. Uranus & tr. NNode square comp. Venus was exact we actually started dating, so I don't think it was Uranus which broke it off.

posted April 30, 2022 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
@Cancermoon83

You check only progressed to progressed aspects, correct? Not progressed to natal?

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Progressed to natal is more telling and more urgent,unless it involves the moon progressions eg.A's Progressed moon conjunct B's progressed Sun.Progressed Venus to progressed Sun or Mars moves much slower and gives a general attraction and harmony,but not the urgency that progressed to natal gives.

Keeping the orbs at about 4-5 degrees the most I check for progressed to natal Sun-Venus,Venus-Mars,Venus-Venus conjunctions,trines or oppositions applying.The square usually prevents a relationship from happening,unless it's separating.The sextile may help some times).

For more precise timing I check for significant moon progressions. Moon to Sun,Sun to Moon,Moon to Mars or Venus etc.

Also,Progressions involving Sun-Mars help too.In my last relationship we had just a sextile between pr. Venus - n. Sun,but at the same time we had a DW Progressed Sun-Progressed Mars conjunction,exact!Which means in the progressed composite there was an exact Sun-Mars conjunction.

I also checked and in 7 out of 10 times the Ascendant was involved in the progressions,usually A's progressed Moon,Sun or Mars conjunct or opposite B's natal or progressed Ascendant.

The most significant transit was usually Tr.North Node conjunct or trine composite Sun or moon(sometimes very wide,orbs didn't seem to matter here,it was ALWAYS there). Tr. Jupiter was very often involved as well with the composite Sun.

Progressed composite planets making aspects to the composite or the natal of the people involved,Progressed natal planets aspecting the composite planets,these are things I like to see.

In a nutshell,the more significant the progressions the more likely a relationship will manifest.If the progressions match the transits will show the timing.

posted April 30, 2022 03:51 PM            

At the moment of starting dating:
- his pr. Venus conjunct my Moon & Jupiter (separating withing 1* orb)
- his pr. Sun on my Asc (approaching within 1* orb) and later his pr. Moon there, with a pr. New Moon at the exact degree of my Asc!!
- my pr. Venus opposite his Moon (less than 1* approaching)
- his pr. MC on my Mercury
- his pr. Amor & Pallas on my Sun
- his pr. Vertex within 1* applying to my Juno

Now we broke up and:
- his pr. Sun is still on my Asc (separating within 1* orb)
- his pr. Sun applying in sextile to my Venus
- my pr. Moon in 3* applying to the opposition to his pr. Venus
- my pr. Moon in 4* applying to the opposition to his Sun & Vertex which will also coincide with my pr. IC (to a degree!!)
- his pr. Mercury & Vertex within minutes separating from my Juno!

On top of that:

- his pr. Venus is permanently on my pr. MC (within 1*)
- our pr. Suns are in permanent trine (within 1*)

posted April 30, 2022 04:18 PM            

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Originally posted by AlmaRegulus:
I am kind of disappointed in this theory at the moment since according to it we should continue the relationship.

At the moment of starting dating:
- his pr. Venus conjunct my Moon & Jupiter (separating withing 1* orb)
- his pr. Sun on my Asc (approaching within 1* orb) and later his pr. Moon there, with a pr. New Moon at the exact degree of my Asc!!
- my pr. Venus opposite his Moon (less than 1* approaching)
- his pr. MC on my Mercury
- his pr. Amor & Pallas on my Sun
- his pr. Vertex within 1* applying to my Juno

Now we broke up and:
- his pr. Sun is still on my Asc (separating within 1* orb)
- his pr. Sun applying in sextile to my Venus
- my pr. Moon in 3* applying to the opposition to his pr. Venus
- my pr. Moon in 4* applying to the opposition to his Sun & Vertex which will also coincide with my pr. IC (to a degree!!)
- his pr. Mercury & Vertex within minutes separating from my Juno!

On top of that:

- his pr. Venus is permanently on my pr. MC (within 1*)
- our pr. Suns are in permanent trine (within 1*)

So by all this I wouldn't predict that our relationship would be over.

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posted May 01, 2022 09:27 AM            

And what do you think about progressed to progressed synastry?

posted May 02, 2022 08:34 AM            

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Originally posted by AlmaRegulus:
Thank you Cancermoon!

And what do you think about progressed to progressed synastry?

And solar arc synastry?

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