posted April 02, 2022 08:49 AM            

It's always good to look at the natal charts first and then look at certain synastry aspects. You have a difficult t-square with apex Venus on your Ascendant square your Moon and Pluto opposition. Strong Plutonic energy is not for everyone. However she has Scorpio Ascendant, Scorpio Sun and 8th House north node. She doesn't have any strong Pluto in her own natal chart but with the Sun and north node placements it could be an energy she's attracted to.

Your 7th house ruler is in Aquarius 12th house and it's conjunct her 1st house ruler Mars conjunct Neptune. That's a very strong aspect of attraction and compatability. However, with her Venus in 12th house and her Mars conjunct Neptune, it could be that she's more comfortable with fantasies about relationships than actually being in one.

Libra Venus is her 7th house ruler, conjunct Mercury and in her 12th house. She probably is attracted to partners with a strong Venus, Mercury and a 12th house connection. With your 1st house Venus trine her Venus and your 12th house Sun conjunct her Mars/Neptune and you also have Mars in early Gemini trine her Mars. Overall you seem to fit her attraction profile.

Synastry doesn't have to be all trines and sextiles but too much oppositions and squares can be difficult. There are two t-squares that put a lot of strain on her because her planets are in the apex. First t-square: her Scorpio Sun square your Aquarius Sun and Taurus Jupiter opposition. Second t-square: her Libra Venus/Mercury square her own Cancer Jupiter and your Capricorn Mercury/Uranus/Neptune. With squares to Jupiter there always is a risk of overdoing it and just like Venus it's not a bad planet to square but it could all be a bit too much and overwhelming for her. And Mercury square Mercury could indicate difficult communication and a lot of misunderstandings.

However, the placement I think is the most tricky, is her Uranus conjunct your Venus/Ascendant and square your Moon and Pluto. This will activate your own difficult natal aspect configuration and probably will trigger all your insecurities. On the positive side, this might give you a very good opportunity to learn and deal with these energies in your chart. On the negative side, Uranus is a difficult planet because it's very erratic energy. It's a rollercoaster ride. In the beginning there will be an electric high and life is exciting and fun. But you can't rely on it and it could be gone tommorow. And then back again next week. It's an on and off kind of energy. It's not easy when its squaring a sensitive planet like your Moon, but it's an important feature in your synastry because it's also present in the composite chart.

posted April 02, 2022 10:49 AM            

There is a strong mutual attraction here, both sides, but a bit stronger on your side.
Looks like you got together very quickly if you are in a relationship? Like things moved/progressed quickly or love at first sight kinda thing.

The main issue here isn’t lack of attraction or sparks or chemistry etc. it’s compatibility. Especially emotional, I’m not seeing much depth or real love based long term potential feelings here. Also looks like this is an affair or secret relationship in some way? So I don’t see this lasting very long.

If you aren’t aware this is an affair or third party etc. I would be very very weary! There are secrets involved here, or there will be. Either way, this relationship is going to be imbalanced/out of reach or intangible in some way like it’s built on quicksand.. expect it to get toxic/draining or requires some sort of sacrifice or self-undoing that doesn’t serve your greatest good in the end. Keep your guard up and try not to get too emotionally invested or expect anything serious.

posted April 02, 2022 11:20 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
...besides the compatibility part, that I don’t agree with. Yes, there’s a strong atttaction/chemistry and some feelings of infatuation/lust, but not real compatibility or love which is more based on harmony/understanding and similarity etc...

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Hi Lunalscariot, thank you for your compliments! Your feedback is very helpful for me as well. I understand where you are coming from. My analysis of compatability was focused on 7th house needs, but I agree that there is more to compatibility than that. Moon compatibility is also very important. Aries Moon and Taurus Moon are not very compatible. She does have a very late Aries Moon though. If she was born later than the birth time used here, she could have an early Taurus Moon which would be better. However this would still (out of sign) square his Capricorn Saturn and that is a very harsh aspect.

posted April 02, 2022 01:32 PM            

OP;

A 12th house stellium of personal planets is never good. I’ve literally never seen it before in any healthy or long term relationship. There’s always some undermining factor and detriment to the connection or on the people involved.

posted April 03, 2022 04:43 PM            

I'm not surprised that she affects you so deeply, she is hitting your 4th, 8th (especially) and 12th house. Also her uranus on your venus and her neptune on your sun can be very magnetic. I had exactly those house combinations in combination with the uransu-venus, neptune-sun aspects with a much younger man at work. It's made me act against all my better judgement (I didnt care) and completely out of character and it could have been my undoing so to speak. While he I'm sure was also attracted, my attraction was on a whole other level and I misread a lot of his actions because I was wrapped up in my own enthrallment.

posted April 04, 2022 02:18 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I'm almost certain her time of birth is correct. I used astrofaces to get the sun, moon, ascendant combo. She looks just like that combo and I used muscle testing to get the time down to the minute.

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What is astrofaces and muscle testing? Sounds interesting

posted April 04, 2022 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
NM. I thought you rectified her whole chart with astrofaces. I’ve never heard about muscle testing.

She could be private with Scorpio AC and 12th house placements. AC Sun moon Mars t-square is pretty intense. She is possibly very emotional, but Neptune here is soothing things.
Libra Venus Mercury would appreciate a good conversation.
You can use astrology as a conversation starter and suggest to guess her sign or say something like she looks like Scorpio. In my experience, it could be a good starter if you keep it light.

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posted April 04, 2022 03:46 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
What is astrofaces and muscle testing? Sounds interesting

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Astrofaces.com is a website where you can search for photos of people by big 3 placements. I used the term muscle testing because I don't know what else to call it, but I use a pendulum to get yes and no answers to questions.

posted April 04, 2022 08:15 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I used astrofaces to narrow down the sun, moon, ascendant combo. This worked very well for all my friends and family that I have times for. They always look exactly like the people that share their combination. I used muscle testing to get the exact time down to the minute.

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posted April 04, 2022 09:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[b] I used astrofaces to narrow down the sun, moon, ascendant combo. This worked very well for all my friends and family that I have times for. They always look exactly like the people that share their combination. I used muscle testing to get the exact time down to the minute.

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