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Topic: Why does he try to get my attention when I知 talking to another guy?
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5978 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 02, 2022 02:35 PM
Sometimes when he see痴 me talking to another guy he値l interrupt or try to get my attention. IP: Logged |
sashavittoria Knowflake Posts: 402 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 03, 2022 01:24 PM
Who is who here? Inside/outside? Is this the same guy you posted about recently in the grocery store?IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1486 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted April 03, 2022 01:30 PM
A quick answer: because he is Pluto on your moon and he should retain power.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5978 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 03, 2022 02:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by sashavittoria: Who is who here? Inside/outside? Is this the same guy you posted about recently in the grocery store?
Yes, it's the same guy and I'm the blue person with my Moon in their 8th house. IP: Logged |
sashavittoria Knowflake Posts: 402 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 03, 2022 03:45 PM
Ahh interesting ok so I misread in the other thread. Maybe yes the planet "activates" that house, especially since it is empty in his own chart. I agree with Librapurr that Pluto-Moon has a LOT to do with it (if you scroll down in this forum you will see a really good thread on moon-Pluto). But I also immediately noticed his Mars/Mercury conjunction squaring your Mercury/Jupiter, which to me speaks to the impulsive territorialism around communication. That being in his 1st acting on your 8th makes sense. I see his Mars and Mercury like the guards standing outside his 1st house palace and they see this threat from your jovial, generous Mercury/Jupiter over in this sensitive, private 8th house area and they storm over there like "What! Excuse me! Don't talk to them!" lolIP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5978 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 03, 2022 05:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: A quick answer: because he is Pluto on your moon and he should retain power.
Retain what kind of power? I'm not in a relationship with him. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5978 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 03, 2022 05:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by sashavittoria: Ahh interesting ok so I misread in the other thread. Maybe yes the planet "activates" that house, especially since it is empty in his own chart. I agree with Librapurr that Pluto-Moon has a LOT to do with it (if you scroll down in this forum you will see a really good thread on moon-Pluto). But I also immediately noticed his Mars/Mercury conjunction squaring your Mercury/Jupiter, which to me speaks to the impulsive territorialism around communication. That being in his 1st acting on your 8th makes sense. I see his Mars and Mercury like the guards standing outside his 1st house palace and they see this threat from your jovial, generous Mercury/Jupiter over in this sensitive, private 8th house area and they storm over there like "What! Excuse me! Don't talk to them!" lol
He and I had sex once a while ago and he has a girlfriend. So I didn't expect him to act like this just because he sees me talking to another guy. The other guy and I are just friends we haven't done anything. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1486 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted April 04, 2022 08:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: Retain what kind of power? I'm not in a relationship with him.
You don稚 need to be in relationships to have Pluto power / control dynamic. It痴 more psychological thing. And it could manifest in different ways. For example, Pluto enjoys a planet person attention/ affection, but would not confess it unless the situation is very secure. And it starts to play games to keep it. It could work both ways. My Pluto also rudely interrupted my conversation when I barely knew him. And he did many other goofy things just to show he had power. Probably, mostly for himself.
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5978 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 05, 2022 02:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: You don稚 need to be in relationships to have Pluto power / control dynamic. It痴 more psychological thing. And it could manifest in different ways. For example, Pluto enjoys a planet person attention/ affection, but would not confess it unless the situation is very secure. And it starts to play games to keep it. It could work both ways. My Pluto also rudely interrupted my conversation when I barely knew him. And he did many other goofy things just to show he had power. Probably, mostly for himself.
I think it痴 more than just his Pluto square to my Moon. I think it痴 also because my Moon is in his 8th house. He said he was trying not to cheat with me again. Hence the reason why I started talking to the other guy. Because I didn稚 want to keep giving him attention. Knowing that he was trying to stay faithful. Yet he痴 jealous of me talking to another guy. He should be glad that I知 trying to be respectful by talking to someone else. But I shouldn稚 have given him so much attention. I told him I would always be here for him if he needed me. And now he sees me giving my attention to someone else. So I guess it痴 partly my fault.I just think it痴 odd that he痴 jealous of me talking to another guy. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1486 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted April 05, 2022 09:33 AM
ChildofVenus , Of course, one Pluto wouldn稚 be enough, it痴 generational. Your Venus is aspected. Your Jupiter what is also your 5th ruler sq. his personal planets. It might cause too much positivity and generosity on your side toward him. Also, his moon in your 5th. If he has somebody, you should talk with other people. You cannot wait for him forever.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5978 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 07, 2022 10:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: ChildofVenus , Of course, one Pluto wouldn稚 be enough, it痴 generational. Your Venus is aspected. Your Jupiter what is also your 5th ruler sq. his personal planets. It might cause too much positivity and generosity on your side toward him. Also, his moon in your 5th. If he has somebody, you should talk with other people. You cannot wait for him forever.
I mean what aspects and overlays would cause him to act like this when he sees me talking to someone else when he has a girlfriend. Yeah, he's said that I'm too nice to him. I have been talking to other men. I haven't been waiting on him. IP: Logged |
anska5 Knowflake Posts: 226 From: Registered: Jun 2018
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posted April 07, 2022 11:27 AM
Your question seems to assume that him interrupting you while speaking with another guy has some kind romantic connotation, jealousy? The trouble is, there is no way of knowing if there is any reason at all for that, we weren't there and while you read something into it, we may have considered it a completely meaningless exchange. It's therefore near impossible to pinpoint any particular asepcts. You don't really trigger his romantic houses except for Moon in his 8th house, but that can go either way. (I've put my moon in someone's 8th house (his moon in my 5th), but I was the one deeply affected not him.) Astrologically you als don't really resemble his saturnian 7th or 8th house. So who knows him interrupting, might just be his usal behaviour. With his venus in gemini he may have a tendency to be flirtateous (without it meaning much of anything) and his mars conjunct mercury in 1st I would consider him a dynamic communicator. With moon in saggi probably generally a friendly person and conjunct uranus very spontaneous. When I pass by someone I know who is chatting with someone else, I don't find it unusual to exchange a few passing remarks and with his mercurial natal chart markers it seems pretty normal behaviour. You've also commented on the guy so often here and you quote him as saying "you are too nice to him", he probably is quite aware of the effect he has on you. If he's not a saint, he may just enjoy the attention and play upon that a little bit. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5978 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 07, 2022 03:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by anska5: Your question seems to assume that him interrupting you while speaking with another guy has some kind romantic connotation, jealousy? The trouble is, there is no way of knowing if there is any reason at all for that, we weren't there and while you read something into it, we may have considered it a completely meaningless exchange. It's therefore near impossible to pinpoint any particular asepcts. You don't really trigger his romantic houses except for Moon in his 8th house, but that can go either way. (I've put my moon in someone's 8th house (his moon in my 5th), but I was the one deeply affected not him.) Astrologically you als don't really resemble his saturnian 7th or 8th house. So who knows him interrupting, might just be his usal behaviour. With his venus in gemini he may have a tendency to be flirtateous (without it meaning much of anything) and his mars conjunct mercury in 1st I would consider him a dynamic communicator. With moon in saggi probably generally a friendly person and conjunct uranus very spontaneous. When I pass by someone I know who is chatting with someone else, I don't find it unusual to exchange a few passing remarks and with his mercurial natal chart markers it seems pretty normal behaviour. You've also commented on the guy so often here and you quote him as saying "you are too nice to him", he probably is quite aware of the effect he has on you. If he's not a saint, he may just enjoy the attention and play upon that a little bit.
I知 not sure what you mean by I don稚 resemble his 7th or 8th house Saturn. Just because I don稚 have Capricorn in my chart doesn稚 mean he wouldn稚 like me romantically. I do have Venus square Saturn. Also his 5th house ruler Venus makes an aspect to my Venus. And I知 sure his Gemini Venus likes my Mars in Gemini. Moon in the 5th house is a romantic house. Also the 8th house is intense. Even still this is the second time he痴 tried getting my attention when he saw me talking to this guy. The first time he walked by and said something. And then the second time he interrupted. He doesn稚 like me yet he keeps interrupting me whenever he sees me talking to this guy. It doesn稚 really make sense to me. If that痴 the case he should be happy that I知 talking to someone else. He even watched as the guy grabbed something for me and then he looked at me. I think it痴 really odd but yeah maybe he doesn稚 like me. We have actually had sex. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5978 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 08, 2022 07:44 AM
Aquarius is also ruled by Saturn and I have an Aquarius Moon. I am somewhat Saturnian and Uranian. IP: Logged |