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Topic: Synastry comparison - who feels more?
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scallywag Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Jun 2021
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posted April 08, 2022 08:49 PM
Disclaimer: the man not only has an unknown birth time but also has two possible birth dates! Long story I'll clarify later. I'll go with the date most accepted as his birthday.The male places his outer planets on the female's inner planets. The one personal planet of the male that is touched by the female's ineer planets are the Venus. Since his birth time is not know with certainty, it's hard to say if his moon contacts her Venus at all at a close orb and ranges from exact sextile to a 6 degree orb sextile. Here's the list: 1. Female Venus Trine male Pluto 2. Female Ascendant conjunct male Uranus 3. Female Moon Square male Venus 4. Female Sun conjunct male Venus 5. Female Mars trine male Venus 6. Female Venus Sextile male North Node 7. Female Venus POTENTIALLY Sextile Moon 8. Female Sun opp male Saturn (3 degree orb) 9. Female Saturn widely (5 degrees) sextile male Venus Does this mean that the male will only consider this a friendship while the woman is obsessed with him? As in, an unfortunate case of one sided love / unrequited love? I will figure out how to post the charts later. Any responses in the meantime would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 156913 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 09, 2022 09:43 AM
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scallywag Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Jun 2021
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posted April 09, 2022 07:29 PM
Here are the charts (finally figured out how to get them uploaded here): Synastry (woman on the outside):
Composite chart: Thanks for your time.
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scallywag Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Jun 2021
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posted April 10, 2022 02:47 PM
Anyone, pleaseeeeee? IP: Logged |
scallywag Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Jun 2021
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posted April 10, 2022 08:47 PM
Bump bumpity bump. Hoping someone here helps this poor woman figure it out. IP: Logged |
DeepBlue Knowflake Posts: 156 From: Registered: Oct 2021
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posted April 11, 2022 02:31 AM
Hello. Usually the person who puts generational planets on personal planets or points holds more power in the relationship. It was usually true in my synastries.But since his tilr of birth is not known we can't know how his angles are contacted and that's important in synastry. IP: Logged |
scallywag Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Jun 2021
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posted April 11, 2022 06:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepBlue: Hello. Usually the person who puts generational planets on personal planets or points holds more power in the relationship. It was usually true in my synastries.But since his tilr of birth is not known we can't know how his angles are contacted and that's important in synastry.
Hi, thank you so much for responding! His mother once claimed that has born at around "2 pm" but she isn't sure. That would make him a Sag ascendant. Also, could you share more on how angles affect synastry? This is just for my general info, even if not applicable to these two indidivuals. Wgen an individual puts mostly generational planets on another's inner planet, does it not mean that they (outer planet person) does not feel nothing special for the inner planet person because severak people of that generation have similar synastries to the inner planet person? In this chart, only the Venus of the outer planet person is repeatly contacted by the other's personal planets and ascendant! Help!
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enypen Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 11, 2022 11:14 PM
Heya!The aspect that sort of sticks out to me is venus trine pluto. I recently had venus opposite pluto, i was the venus, and the pluto person was obsessed with me instantly. In this case, since its the opposition it was uncomfortable and it felt pushy, i kept rejecting. I can imagine the trine being more harmonious, with you feeling good about him being obsessed with you- or heavily interested. As for the sun conjunct venus, he could very much adore your social persona and the general person that you are. I would say he feels a good deal IP: Logged |
scallywag Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Jun 2021
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posted April 12, 2022 07:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by enypen: Heya!The aspect that sort of sticks out to me is venus trine pluto. I recently had venus opposite pluto, i was the venus, and the pluto person was obsessed with me instantly. In this case, since its the opposition it was uncomfortable and it felt pushy, i kept rejecting. I can imagine the trine being more harmonious, with you feeling good about him being obsessed with you- or heavily interested. As for the sun conjunct venus, he could very much adore your social persona and the general person that you are. I would say he feels a good deal
Hi, thanks! The weird thing about this synastry is that he places his Moon, Venus, Mercury AND the North Node in her 8th house - this is even despite not knowing his time of birth as his Moon is still found in her 8th house, whether I input midnight or 11:59 pm in his birth chart as his time of birth. Are these soul mate aspects? Also Venus trine Pluto has made her obsessed with this guy. Is this karmic / past life relationship? I once did have Venus opp Pluto and it ended badly with him evrn threatening to physically harm ne so I personally worry whenever I see Venus / Mars & Pluto contacts in synastry. Did you experience anything similar in your Venus opp Pluto relationship?
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 156913 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2022 01:30 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 156913 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 02, 2022 05:51 PM
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shoshannazeze Newflake Posts: 12 From: Los Angeles, CA, USA Registered: Apr 2022
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posted May 03, 2022 01:31 PM
Hi! I can speak from experience on this one- I've been the Venus and the Pluto in different relationships- my first ex was Pluto tightly square my Venus, and I did NOT reciprocate, and it was pretty abusive. However, recently I got entangled with a man whose Pluto did square my Venus- but my Pluto is opposite his Venus so it was a two way street either way. These aspects are easier bc both orbs aren't too tight- but in general, you can assume mutual interest if your Venus touches their personal planet even if his Venus isn't as aspected (my Venus was trine his moon, and touched a bunch of other personal planets/points, and his Venus trined my Uranus and south node (+plus other stuff was aspected too, like his Venus squared my asc) and he pursued me first!) As the female Pluto to the male Venus, there def is an aspect of "whoa, who IS this guy???" at first. Like first impression intrigue and feeling puzzled but needing to know more- and in my experience, because the Venus male will put himself out there to you ------------------ soakin up the sun IP: Logged |