posted May 03, 2022 01:44 PM            

We have a way of pushing each others buttons, and we can't keep information from each other if we try. Whenever reluctant to talk about something, all he has to do is keep pressing (relatively gently) for me to spill all, but that's a two-way street as I can do the same to him.

However, I have a...nebulous...feeling that we're not really seeing each other as we are. Whenever we've had misunderstandings they come down to that - not seeing each other clearly. And that concerns me. I can tell you that if anything describes our connection, it's INTENSE. It was that way back then, and it's that way now. I would love to think the second chance is the charm, but I don't know. He's not rushing me or anything, but I still feel doubts.

What do you guys see?

Me: Aug 5, 1977; 14:27 EDT; 40N55, 72W40
Him: Nov 22, 1974; 8:21 GMT; 51N53, 2W14

Syn chart
Davison chart
Composite chart

posted May 05, 2022 10:20 AM            

Did I post in the wrong forum again?

posted May 05, 2022 10:49 AM            

Well looking at your IC in Pisces with him putting his Moon and Jupiter right on it would speak to feeling nebulous since you have no placements in Pisces except for that IC.

It's not unusual to be getting to know someone and have misunderstandings. Why don't you sit in a quiet place and let your mind rest, focusing on breathing. Once you feel no attachment, however long or however many tries at meditation it takes to get to that grounded place, ask the question "Is he the right person for me?"

Then you need to sleep, the best time to meditate is before sleep, in my opinion, anyways. Let the answer come to you in your dreams since the seat (IC) of you is in Pisces.

posted May 05, 2022 01:14 PM            

Do you see anything that would be concerning long-term, if I do decide to take the plunge, or would this be more like, "well, we had our second chance, and now we know it wouldn't have worked?"

We just click. We did then, we did when we met up again. He's been one of the "what ifs" of my life, esp because I thought I'd never see him again.

posted May 05, 2022 03:55 PM            

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Originally posted by HomesickJourneyWoman:
Do you see anything that would be concerning long-term, if I do decide to take the plunge, or would this be more like, "well, we had our second chance, and now we know it wouldn't have worked?"

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Could you also put up your pdf of the synastry so I can see the declinations of your planets and angles?

Have you looked at the declinations yet? They can add so much more info.

posted May 05, 2022 08:38 PM            

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Originally posted by LaLunaMater:
Could you also put up your pdf of the synastry so I can see the declinations of your planets and angles?

Have you looked at the declinations yet? They can add so much more info.

I'm also particular to the 12th harmonic chart which seems to tell more about how a person operates.

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I'm not the best at declinations. I'm mostly self-taught and it hasn't been in the most organized fashion.

Synastry pdf
Davison pdf
Composite pdf
My 12th Harmonic Chart, pdf
His 12th Harmonic Chart, pdf

posted May 06, 2022 11:05 AM            

What I see is high compatibility for both of you. But I'd like to do a write up using multiple methods of relationship compatibility. I'll link my sources as well so you can break it down for yourself too since sharing is caring!

It's almost the weekend and I have a couple things to accomplish before I can break down what I'm seeing.

posted May 11, 2022 12:06 PM            

Mars square Saturn is the biggest concern. My neighbors have this and I can hear them shouting at each other sometimes. Johnny Depp and Amber Heard have it. Not recommended. You mentioned pushing each other’s buttons — I wouldn’t count on that just going away.