posted May 06, 2022 07:17 PM            

some say they love being complimented and for you to pine over them and them only- others say they love chasing you.

how do i show him the "im utterly obsessed with you" eyes while still allowing him to chase me?

also what do they like in fashion?

i'm kinda crushing on a leo venus guy whos in a few of my classes (he's mostly libra, with a leo venus sprinkled in, so of course very pretty) and i dont know how to approach him one on one.

posted May 06, 2022 09:04 PM            

What makes you feel and act as a star would? With Libra placements a great balance in attire, knowing your season, how to create symmetry and balance in your wardrobe etc.

Vibe with : "You're on stage, you got 5 minutes to convince me you deserve this part....GO!"

Like take your time to do what you need to do, lions spend like 17 hours a day sleeping and stretching. Then they go for the kill. It's a "am I hungry enough to go running right now? Don't I have someone to get my food for me?" attitude.

Then if you do this for a couple weeks and he still hasn't come over you could walk up to him and say "Because you haven't said anything to me I decided to come over and ask you directly...are you available for [insert specific thing you'd like to do] at [insert specific time you have free]." Then don't let him respond too much, just hand him your number and say "if it's a yes then give me a call."

posted May 20, 2022 07:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Cancermoon83:
Being a venus leo woman myself,i'd say make them feel special,like they're the most sexy person in the room.But not in a desperate way.Eye contact is very important.Focus on him and only him.You can't show interest in him and flirt with other guys at the same time.But you have to be special too,we don't fall for anyone!In the end,honesty and loyalty is very much appreciated.If we feel you've been playing with us or you didn't show your true face from the start you lose us.

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Thank you! I’ve been dressing extra well and honestly my eyes are all on him for most of any class that we share. I glance over at him way more times than i can count and i think it’s pretty obvious- but he doesn’t seem to be looking as much. He’s not someone who really looks at anyone, he has this disinterest in everyone except his friends- and sadly i’m not part of that group.

I do see him fix his hair everytime i turn into his direction or about to- but i feel that’s a stretch.

I’ve been doing everything to gain his attention. I honestly started getting up 30 minutes earlier than i typically would to put extra time into my hair and makeup- and even before i was getting up much earlier, so an extra 30 minutes makes that really early- and everyone has noticed, i just cant tell if he has…

posted May 20, 2022 07:13 PM            

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Originally posted by LaLunaMater:
Well going on his Venus alone, no house placement then Leo is naturally 5th house, star quality, frankness of expression, lion attitude "I'm the star of this show." So I would show him you are the star of your life and probably everyone else's too hahaha!

What makes you feel and act as a star would? With Libra placements a great balance in attire, knowing your season, how to create symmetry and balance in your wardrobe etc.

Vibe with : "You're on stage, you got 5 minutes to convince me you deserve this part....GO!"

Like take your time to do what you need to do, lions spend like 17 hours a day sleeping and stretching. Then they go for the kill. It's a "am I hungry enough to go running right now? Don't I have someone to get my food for me?" attitude.

Then if you do this for a couple weeks and he still hasn't come over you could walk up to him and say "Because you haven't said anything to me I decided to come over and ask you directly...are you available for [insert specific thing you'd like to do] at [insert specific time you have free]." Then don't let him respond too much, just hand him your number and say "if it's a yes then give me a call."

I mean I've done this multiple times and only twice has the person been otherwise taken or just not called. Not a big deal and it's a nice adrenaline fueled moment when the phone rings 5 minutes after you've left.

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Thanks for the great advice!!!

I’ve been thinking of your words for the past couple of days and putting them into action around him- i’ve been drawing lots of attention to myself around him, being loud and very myself and just generally jolly. Heck, i’ve been waking up earlier than usual to get extra pretty and attract attention. It seems i’ve been getting everyone’s attention except for his. It’s quite frustrating.

As a side note, on the topic of 5th house, he puts his stellium of mars, mercury and sun into my 5th house, and his leo venus in my 4th.

5th house is supposed to be a theme here i guess?

Either way, you are brave for having approached people like that, because as of right now i can’t even muster the courage to say hi to him despite seeing him in class every day.

I stare at him very obviously and i’m pretty sure he’s ignoring it, so there’s not much of an invitation. I don’t know if his leo venus would like me approaching him openly- don’t they prefer to hunt themselves?

posted May 20, 2022 07:15 PM            

For example, I have Libra Moon, and so my Venus in Aqua in the 7th does relate some more to self, because it is tied in with my Moon and in a sense, indicates a sub energy of that Aquarus and Venus in the 7th shading into my essential Libra Moon energies.

Someone with Venus in Leo tends to be attracted to warm, friendly, kind of dramatic, attractive, good sense of humor, confident, more leader type personalities, especially if they are a straight man. (In a straight man's chart, you primarily look at his Moon, Venus, Desc, sometimes 5th, and related factors to see what kind of women he is most attracted to and/or tends to attract).

posted May 20, 2022 08:59 PM            

But I really seem to have intense chemistry with the Leo Venus who have it in the 20 degrees since my Mars is 23 degrees.

One dude I went to elementary school with. I did not have a crush on him when I was little, but we never had any issues.
Then when I went back to high school I was kind of like damn what a gorgeous man!! But we did not really socialize in high school, but we still had no issues.

One time I he walked by my house and he was smoking a cigg. And I hollered at him like "I see you smoking!!"

In my early 20's I had a glow up, and he started messaging me. But I was with a **** boy.

After that ended, we would see each
other at parties and we would chat. My friend's mom even commented that we are meant to be together. My friend told me later.

Well he used my birthday as an excuse to treat me out to eat. The way it was progressing we went to a bar after. I think I spilled to him, that he is way better looking than the popular boys we went to high school we went with. He even was kind of shocked how attracted I was to him. He then lured me back to his place to watch Aqua Teen Hunger Force. And then we did "it" We hooked up here and there. One time we even done it like, 3 or 4 times w/in two hours.

But by then I was wise enough to not expect a relationship to happen from a hook up. I mean I've always been like that...BUT this time I knew not to put up with emotionally investing in a guy I hook up with first. He even made a comment how cool it was that I was not being all like "so what are we now?" Yeahyeahhh, I told him I am having a good time, but since we are hooking up I am keeping my options open after what I've been through w/ **** boy Scorpio.

He even mentioned to me that he could never make someone his girlfriend who would sleep with him right away. I kind of gave him a look like "hey," but I did not take it too personally because I know better. And then he was kind of like "oh crap"

posted May 20, 2022 09:10 PM            

While I am married, I love talking to him. I go from full on flirting to freaking out and trying to close myself off. He kind of gives me signals and signs that "it's too late, I'm gonna get you," but it's all very subtle. I went front chatting with him while I'm bent over wiping a table, to running away from him. Sometimes I feel like he's chasing me with his vacuum cleaner. When he was vacuuming the hall I felt like I was leaping away from him. One time he practically put it under my seat while I was sitting in a chair.

posted May 21, 2022 01:09 AM            

You should just tap into your "Woman's Intuition" and let your subconscious biology take control. Don't worry too much about whether he is noticing you glancing at him or not too much. Just do what comes natural to you. Brush your hand through your hair when he does look at you and guide his eyes to your neck or your Hoo-hoo's.

Also, don't worry too much about what color clothing you wear. Just wear something that shows off your curves, Hoo-hoo cleavage, thighs...etc. We're men for crying out loud!😆 Sexy visual signals are our specialty!😆 Just make sure you go cold, and have something to wear over you when you start getting unwanted attention from other guys (and you will!) and then take it off slowly and sexy-like when you're around this guy you want again. Otherwise he'll mistake that for attention-whoring as well if you don't.

I can't speak for this guy, but for me, perfume is a huge turn-off! If you absolutely think it's necessary to wear a fragrance, wear something that closely matches the natural smell you give off when you're Ovulating. That's the only scent we men are biologically wired to be attracted to, nothing more!

Lastly, try to find out what hair-style turn's him on the most. For me, it's the Quarter part combover that Virgo/Pisces dominate women are known for. Pig-tails are also another huge weakness of mine!😆

posted May 21, 2022 09:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Thank you Cardinal T-square. Can some Leo Venuses like people who are already in relationships marriage?

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posted May 21, 2022 06:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Thank you Cardinal T-square. Can some Leo Venuses like people who are already in relationships marriage?

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Ya! Of course! I'm chased by them all the time!😆

posted May 21, 2022 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Cancermoon83:
Being a venus leo woman myself,i'd say make them feel special,like they're the most sexy person in the room.But not in a desperate way.Eye contact is very important.Focus on him and only him.You can't show interest in him and flirt with other guys at the same time.But you have to be special too,we don't fall for anyone!In the end,honesty and loyalty is very much appreciated.If we feel you've been playing with us or you didn't show your true face from the start you lose us.

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This has turned into an interesting discourse! Cancermoon, say do you think that you guys sometimes won’t show your affections? The leo venus guy i’ve been interested in is showing absolutely no interest, not so much as a glance even when i’m downright staring at him. We haven’t talked but i think i’ve been obvious enough!

Or does that just signal absolutely no interest?

One of his friends asked me if i’d be interested on going for a coffee with the leo venus guy- when i asked why he’s asking he said it’s “just because we are both amazing” and honestly i believe there’s actually nothing more because this friend has a tendency to say weird and random things.

But it’s got me thinking wether it’s his way of making sure i like him before talking to me. It would be odd though because we haven’t even talked yet… Did i mess up by telling his friend no? I didn’t want him to know and it felt invasive so i told him “sure?” and when he asked me if im romantically available i said no not right now…
Ahh i don’t know.

posted May 22, 2022 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Cancermoon83:
Of course it can happen to anyone,because you can't control who you like or not.But you have the choice to not act on it and let it pass.It has happened to me unfortunately.
Remember,we are very proud people,we would not risk getting rejected,so in a situation like this I wouldn't make a move,unless my feelings were out of control.And even if the other person showed interest first we wouldn't settle for being the 2nd choice.It's either me or the other woman.

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I can kind of relate to that as a Leo IC plus it all squares my Scorpio stuff.

Okay so my coworker has never really said congrats on me getting engaged, and stuff. But one day he asked me if I was getting any second thoughts about getting married.

posted May 23, 2022 09:53 AM            

I guess this Guy know that u are flirting, maybe Leo Venus ist shy, and the friend was Not in the mood anymore to keep telling him to Go Talk to you, Leos can be insecure.
So knowing that u where Up for it, cuz as U said everybody notices it apparently only Not him.
He went to Talk to you to Help His friend Out.